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Damn no credit for my bartender and yoga instructor example lol Good post though. Presented the topic well IMO
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 02:28 PM
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Empathy - the ability to understand and share the feelings of another. The ability to relate to and understand a women is very attractive. Women like guys who "just get it" and understand them. Having empathy allows you to create a deep emotional connection with a women in a short amount of time. And being able to bring out stronger feeling in women is a good thing. It's drugs to them. Empathy is not frowned upon around here I'm curious as to where you came to that conclusion. In fact I would sa…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 12:29 PM
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Yup hit the nail right on the head. Here a shortened version/context driven version of a FR I wrote the other weekend. Pre-selection in this case helped me push for an f-close the other weekend. I was out at the bar and met this group of hot girls at the first venue I was at. Due to logistics I didn't end up pursuing it any further and told them we should meet up later. I go to the next bar and start gaming this other girl and after a fair amount of time had passed I told her we should go back t…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 04:31 PM
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That's a good question and I don't know how exactly to answer since I've just gathered information over time from various sales books/game articles I've read. I'm sure you can find some stuff online to get really good at it. I field test certain things then work what works really well into my game on a consistent basis.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 01:00 PM
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Very likely because you've be listening too much to people here who don't know anything about it either, but are 100% certain that "PUA are stupid/fake/losers". It's a shame because these are the kinds of people that would probably benefit from learning game the most. The influence/interpersonal skills alone you can learn through game is something that shines through to other parts of your life. Which helps make your relationships with both men and women better.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 10:52 PM
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This is a good explanation of the role money (how it’s spent and how it’s earned) plays in the SMP and how it can influence your SMV. Solid post.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 03:47 PM
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Great experience if you're in a good fraternity. Still talk to everyone in my pledge class at least once a month and a good amount of them weekly/daily. So many great memories.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 11:37 PM
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Good SM > No SM > Bad SM. And even if you live a rich lifestyle to display good SM it doesn't mean you have to, you can still have plenty of sexual success without it.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 12:39 PM
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You'll probably get down-voted for bringing up the topic but denying the utility of social media to help influence status and your perception of what people think of you would be stupid. This is what I wrote on the topic in a post about status. The general rule of thumb is Good SM>No SM>Bad SM. I personally only use snapchat to show off the fact im doing cool shit/traveling to cool places, but everyone has their own reasons/preferences in regards to SM use. I have some friends who obtain a ton o…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 12:37 PM
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I never said you have to dress or act like a clown. I said you can take a risk and do a few unconventional things to help you stand out in comparison to everyone else. Good social skills are necessary when you do it which is why I highlighted congruence. And I do agree that dressing + acting like a clown is stupid...Anyways, have a good one homie
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 12:19 PM
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I find the best ways to peacock in our current era is skip the big brash "costume" style items and just have some "out of place, yet congruent" pieces of "flair". Agreed 100%. Best comment so far in the thread as a whole IMO. Wish you made it here earlier so this could have been closer to the top. Would have been a nice run-off from the post. Cheers homie.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 09:08 PM
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Probably not necessary in most cases. I think something like a "hank moody" character can work, simple is nice in a lot of cases. Maybe add some jewelry on top of what you're wearing to stand out a bit more. It could be something subtle.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 03:27 PM
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Confidence and peacocking are two different things. Peacocking is a tool you can use within game. Whether you want to use it is up to you, and I'm sure you are successful without using it. You should obviously be confident or if your not appear confident regardless, which it sounds like you are.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 02:32 PM
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The first thing that this thread doesn't address - and what I consider essential - is that peacocking is on a spectrum. You don't need to go all out to benefit from peacocking. Agreed and definitely a good point. It really doesn't have to be "extreme". Just a little bit unconventional or simply like you said above wearing something like white.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 12:40 PM
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The right jewelry, the right shoes, watch, hairstyle etc stand out AND allow someone to compliment you or start a conversation with you. Far better than a juvenile attempt at attention. Peacocking could definitely be on the more subtle end. I would say if I'm not taking any fashion risks, I will do what you mentioned above and make sure I am looking my best. Peacocking is definitely situation based I think. Also I'd be cautious about "not following the rules" its social death in many situation t…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 12:39 PM
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This isn't peacocking, this is, like you said "being the life of the party". I would say they are different but what you mentioned is a good thing to be nonetheless.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 12:36 PM
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This is the best way to go out "normally". Like I mentioned in the conclusion this is just a way you could potentially extend your game
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 12:34 PM
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Definitely a good point and an example of how if you're not really inline with how you are displaying yourself this will go badly. Which is why the congruence part is so important.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/18 10:44 PM
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There’s no point in arguing what is more important you’re just going to get downvoted. You have to keep in mind everyone here is different and has different experiences. You should be looking to max looks, status, game. They are all important and all need to be be at a good level to bang hot girls consistently.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/18 09:17 PM
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Always enjoy seeing articles by you. Cheers homie.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 01:07 AM
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There is no “SMV” criteria IMO. Women like power. Looks(genetic/physical power), status(social power), game(social power). They are all important and have their own spikes. For instance status at its extreme is going to be much more powerful than looks at their extreme as looks has diminishing returns after you have nice body/well groomed/good style. Money can be used to influence your status and looks, other than that it really doesn’t affect your SMV at all IMO. That being said you should be l…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 01:58 AM
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Ya people ignored my disclaimer and missed the point and tried to make this about something else. Not my problem though
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 04:07 PM
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Yeah you're pretty on the money with this summary and the point I was trying to get across. As the author I should have done a better job making it more clear though lol. Thanks for reading
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 12:46 PM
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Thanks for taking the time to read. These are just my observations like I mentioned on the top. I'm not saying you should or shouldn't do anything. This is how I've seen money influence SMV. That's all lol
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 12:44 PM
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The point of this post was that money on it's own is not attractive. The activities you do using your money can be though. I agree with you that demonstrating status through purchasing things is needy ex: my trust fund baby friends who get their fulfillment through buying shit for other people.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 11:14 PM
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I would even argue that unless you're in the most extreme such as rockstar/professional athlete/local bar or restaurant owner. Unless you share the same field and are better at your profession than the girl you are talking to then it doesn't matter much. I do agree with your side hustle/passion focused project idea though and it drawing girls to you.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 10:51 PM
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Oh for sure, definitely a good example and thing to keep in mind in regards to the importance in managing your finances correctly. Which is why it's good to have/make rich friends(easier said than done I know) so you can still have access to those fun experiences without having to pay for them.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 04:22 PM
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Agreed. I was just trying to drive my point home on how money alone does not contribute to your SMV. I think these are all good points and is also good advice in general. Thanks for the thoughtful reply homie
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 04:11 PM
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Yeah I think money is fine to talk about. I don't necessarily agree with how you presented in regards to "attraction". Money opens doors and gives you access to more cool stuff/cool experiences and that stuff/those experiences is what is attractive IMO. But cool man, I'll keep my eye open for it.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 02:24 PM
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Good post overall. I think of money more as an influencer. It could boost your overall status and physical attractiveness if used correctly. Kind of like how social media if used correctly can influence your status and how others perceive you if you market yourself well. I personally think the trinity is looks-status-game. Looks and status as a baselines for your SMV then depending on your game you can then influence your SMV positively or negatively.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 01:43 PM
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It is context driven. A great example is the power of the Greek life system in college. Look at what the social power of being in a good fraternity at a certain school can do for you in regards to social power/access to high smv women. Take that kid out of the fraternity at that school and place him at a random university on the other side of the country. His social power and “status” changes immensely and he will have nowhere near as much social power and access as he did before.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 04:15 PM
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It seems like everything largely hinges on her reaching out to me Not necessarily what do you think of me reaching out one day when I have fully moved on and have other options? I think this is fine. You could say something like "hey I was just watching x and it reminded me of you" and trigger some emotions for her and then have small talk and set up time to "catch up". But like I mentioned above make sure you are coming from a place of abundance emotional stability. Take a few months and keep h…
/r/seduction09/03/18 06:42 PM
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I have FWB situation with one of my exes. Like you we dated for a year and I blocked her on everything and then she reached out. I made it a point for myself though not to contact her until I felt like I would be able to keep my emotions in check and have truly moved on from our history and can look at our potential FWB situation we have now from a place of abundance(I have more girls I'm seeing and dating). So be very careful about what you do. TL;DR: Yes, but make sure you are in a place of em…
/r/seduction09/03/18 06:18 PM
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here you go: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/7ynmxr/status_what_it_actually_means_and_how_to_increase/
/r/seduction09/03/18 01:59 PM
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If your passionate and knowledgeable about it then this is a way more interesting answer than what most guys are going to give.
/r/seduction07/03/18 10:40 PM
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Never ask, you suggest she join you. It's good you're not being overbearing yet still present with her through snapchat or whatever. Sounds like your in college so for instance if you want to hang with her again once you get back you can say you're going to x party or bar and tell her she should meet you there. Or if you want to be more 1 on 1 do the same thing except for coffee or drinks. Also I think if you both had a good time together asking to hangout when you get back to school is complete…
/r/seduction07/03/18 10:32 PM
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To be fair for some men even witnessing it won't work Control what you can control and let go of what you can't. At the end of the day if I've set a good example and have done my due diligence to provide positive influence in my good male friends life then I am personally satisfied. Whether or not they act on that influence is up to them and ultimately out of my control That's when you get Billy beta bitching about how " all women like assholes" . He sees what works , his brain actions, and typi…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 01:46 AM
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You show a dude who's never kissed a girl this forum you are doing him a disservice. It's your job as a friend to show him through your actions and set an example. Let him learn through you by SHOWING how to act. Not telling. People will then come to you for guidance and to ask questions due to seeing you living a good life of abundance in everything. Then you can drop RP wisdom, but certainly don't do it all at once. Don't just be like "go here and read this", "Here's 48 laws of power" read thi…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 08:08 PM
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No, social media is tool you can use to market yourself and gain social proof. If used correctly it can greatly influence your reach, social proof, and help with your status. It also allows you to stay present in peoples lives so they don't forget about you as easily. Also gives you more options if you want to slide into random girls dms. That being said it's just a tool, if you don't have SM it doesn't mean you don't have social proof/status. I personally do not use it besides snapchat and I fi…
/r/seduction05/03/18 12:11 AM
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It is really a lot of fun coming up with the elaborate stories. And when you're having fun she will feed off that vibe too. And she's angry because she wants to know the actual truth. She's investing more into the interaction because she wants to find out out more. I think the mix of self-amusement and mystery is very powerful. Glad you can relate homie. Sounds like you figured out something you should do more of.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/18 05:22 PM
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No problem homie
/r/seduction02/03/18 07:03 PM
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It's not your job to control how she feels. Nor do you know how exactly she's feeling. What is your job though is to react accordingly in whatever way you feel is right to if she is catching feelings or tells you she feels like she is being taken advantage of. Just keep it low investment on your end, and keep the relationship light, sexual, fun if FWB is what you want. Like I said monitor your behavior with her. Keep the amount you are seeing her sexually to 1x a week or less. As well as continu…
/r/seduction02/03/18 06:54 PM
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I think an important thing is to establish boundaries for yourself. Your actions with her will speak louder than words. I try not to make plans with a FWB for more than 1x per week, and I keep the texting to a minimum besides random funny shit that's like an inside joke for us or to meet up. If you happen to be in the same place as her don't act like her boyfriend in public if that's not what you want. Also I wouldn't worry about anything until she brings up the topic of monogamy. Which in that …
/r/seduction02/03/18 06:43 PM
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Alright here's my tips for you: 1 - Sit next to her. This allows you to touch her and makes it more intimate. Look up "kino escalation ladder" for advice here. 2 - Try and look at your date from a different perspective. You don't even know this person yet so how do you know that you're going to even like her. You are getting to know someone new, try and treat it as such and take interest in what she has to offer. 3 - Let her talk do most of the talking. It sounds like you have your shit together…
/r/seduction01/03/18 04:27 PM
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Explain to us what you do on your dates. Coffee shop/bar/walk outside exc...More context around your go to plan would help everyone give better advice. Add it to your original post above.
/r/seduction01/03/18 03:28 PM
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When I was 21-22: In college I did this after the parties and it was great. Had a couple of places where I became established (tip well) and were quieter than the blaring music bars. Yeah my college was all house parties and then one good bar on campus I had friends who worked there. I definitely agree it's good to become established at certain places. I do this now in my life. 23 - 24: Out of college it definitely changes things, I feel like bar game was a lot harder in my hometown. Mostly subu…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/18 07:56 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/7ynmxr/status_what_it_actually_means_and_how_to_increase/ give this a read, hopefully it helps edit: Reading the comments it looks like you already did lol
/r/seduction28/02/18 03:47 PM
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Another thing you can do if you don't know her exact schedule: "Hey I was thinking we should go do X at Y, let me know what nights you free this week and we'll pick one that works for the both of us" 1- Leaves her to do no planning besides picking nights she wants to go 2- Implies she already wants to come with you...confidence 3- Makes it seem like you are busy even if you necessarily aren't
/r/seduction28/02/18 01:47 PM
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The hardest part isn't talking to them, it's keeping their attention throughout the night and holding your territory Yup this is a very good point. I was out in LA this weekend and thought I had this girl bagged but then her friend came up and said they were going to a house party being thrown by an NBA player and she bounced with her friends lol. Began to realize the only real way to succeed in this environment is to be just as flaky and 'distracted' as they are. Flirt, gets some rapport going,…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/18 11:52 PM
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I'm only 16 as well so I don't want this hindering my future. Relax it's all going to be fine. Control what you can control, let go of what you can't. Start going to the gym. If you start lifting now at your age you will be WAY ahead of everyone in your age bracket. Continue your healthy habits like reading and socializing with everyone. Develop new healthy ones such as meditating and writing. These will help with inner game. Remember what you see on SM are peoples highlights. If they're on thei…
/r/seduction22/02/18 08:22 PM
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Well that depends, if you take care of yourself and continue to push yourself then you will be in a spot where you'll have your choice of SO's. On the other hand if you don't take care of yourself, stop progressing, and have no passions then you'll probably be fucked. You also have long work hours and fewer options to meet people. There is a LOT more competition as well. This could be you. Or maybe it doesn't have to be. Who says this is the life you need to live.
/r/seduction22/02/18 08:13 PM
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"you know what you're right, I guess that makes me a girl then" with a playful/sarcastic tone
/r/seduction22/02/18 01:28 PM
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This. Helps create an abundance mentality when it comes to everything, not just women.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 12:31 AM
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How to win friends and influence people - carnegie What every body is saying - Navaro
/r/seduction21/02/18 08:15 PM
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Yes, you're getting it. Frame is your personal values and belief system. I also like to think of it as my perception of my current reality in whatever situation I'm in. If you feel like you are in control, you are then controlling the frame. Women will try to test you and poke holes in your values, belief system and your reality and if you stand your ground through these tests you will then increase attraction.
/r/seduction21/02/18 02:11 PM
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Nikki Beach/SLS pool party during the day
/r/seduction20/02/18 07:57 PM
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+1 to this. Liv is very expensive and very loud ~$16 for vodka soda if I remember correctly. If you go here focus more on just having a fun time than game.
/r/seduction20/02/18 07:30 PM
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If you decide to go Liv/Story/Mansion without a table or group of hot girls with you I would suggest buying a ticket ahead of time so that way you make sure you get into the clubs for example: https://www.tixr.com/groups/liv/events/alesso-7538 Have fun and good luck
/r/seduction20/02/18 07:26 PM
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I don't like SM much either. But just because we don't necessarily like something doesn't mean it can't increase your status. I was just observing that it could be useful with status. I think of it more as a tool. Totally unnecessary, but used correctly it can be used to improve your status. That being said if you don't have social media that doesn't mean you don't have social proof or status. Also if you feel that way then I would suggest just getting rid of it. Don't ever put your self worth i…
/r/seduction20/02/18 07:15 PM
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You too homie
/r/seduction19/02/18 08:43 PM
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1- Agreed we all have our small number of real close friends. But also it's completely okay to have your relationships with others grow. You have to pick and choose wisely into whom you're choosing to spend your time/energy on IMO. 2- (y) 3- I think it's a completely separate topic than status, status is more social than physical. That being said I even wrote a whole post specifically on the topic of maxing your physical attractiveness: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6lvu5u/part_1_m…
/r/seduction19/02/18 08:32 PM
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1- Where did I say you should replace your friends? lol. In fact I think you should make as many as possible. I even said that you should be hanging with people you enjoy being around. 2- I mentioned in my post I barely use social media(only have snapchat). But denying there isn't any utility to it if used properly to market yourself would be silly. I am just recognizing you could use it to boost your social proof/status. 3- I mentioned looks in the beginning of my post. I think looks are very i…
/r/seduction19/02/18 08:02 PM
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Perhaps one day. i just wanted to write about this topic one day after some thinking and seeing a lot of posts/questions on status.
/r/seduction19/02/18 06:33 PM
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Yes, instagram is a tool that you can use to improve status/social proof. That being said it's just a tool. And just bc you don't have instagram doesn't mean you don't have social proof/status. So once again, yes.
/r/seduction19/02/18 05:18 PM
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I wrote a post on this in a different subreddit but here you go: What is status In my opinion status is the social value you have in comparison to the other people around you at any given time. It is one of the hardest things to keep rock solid at all times in comparison to things like your looks/frame/pick up skills because you’re environment/people around you are constantly changing which means your status is almost always fluid. Although there are hard exceptions for professional athletes, ce…
/r/seduction19/02/18 03:59 PM
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I wrote this for another post hopefully this helps you decide: 4- Social media The general rule of thumb is Good SM>No SM>Bad SM. I personally only use snapchat to show off the fact im doing cool shit/traveling to cool places, but everyone has their own reasons/preferences in regards to SM use. I have some friends who obtain a ton of social status through how they market themselves on social media(although it can be a bit obsessive at times). If you have a good follower ratio and show off good c…
/r/seduction19/02/18 03:50 PM
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If I don't know availability I like to do one of two things. 1- Say something like this. Hey as of right now I'm free sunday/monday night and was thinking we should (enter activity here). Let me know which one of those nights works best for you. OR 2- Hey I was thinking we should do (enter activity here) let me know what nights work best for you later this week and we can pick one where we are both free. These work well because it implies you already have plans to do other things on other nights…
/r/seduction19/02/18 03:41 PM
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Right, it's a combination of looks, status, game. And status at it's extreme can make up for even bad looks/game and I agree is the most powerful of the three. Women love power. Regardless whatever this combination is and whatever you're good at doesn't matter but once you reach a certain threshold within the combination of all these three things is when you end up being able to have consistent success with 8-10's.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/18 11:57 PM
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In my opinion status is the social value you have in comparison to the other people around you at any given time This is how I personally view status. The specific amount of money you make and your job is a terrible definition of status IMO. I mentioned in my post and don't use SM besides snapchat. SM is more like a toolbelt for status. You can use to market yourself and increase your overall status. Or not use it at all and increase it other ways. But it certainly can help increase your status …
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 03:24 PM
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"I really do think - based on personal experience and observation - that highest local status (not highest overall status, aka fame) will make up for even large lacks in Looks and Game." It's crazy how much this is true. I moved to a new small city in the southern US about 1 1/2 years ago. I ended up pretty quickly becoming friends with a dude who owns two of the best bars in town and a couple of good restaurants. This dude is below average looking and has good social skills but I wouldn't say "…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 03:14 PM
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Yup agreed. Given my lack of insta/fb I can relate to your experience as well and it does take awhile to curate those relationships at different places. SM is more of an extension I would say and it totally depends on how you use it, your content, follow count when it comes to status. Good point though.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 05:08 PM
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I should have been more clear. This is the first time you are hanging out alone with her. Also getting to know someone in a classroom setting is really not getting to know them. My point being still is you don’t even know what she wants. She may very happy to just have a casual relationship with you. No need to cross that bridge until it comes.
/r/seduction15/02/18 04:15 PM
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This is the first time you are hanging out with her, how do you even know you're going to like her. Don't even worry about this right now. Dinner and movie is not a good idea IMO, if she lives close to bars suggest one near her and get a drink there and then find a reason to go back to her place and do something if you are enjoying yourself.
/r/seduction15/02/18 02:52 PM
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folks,,, can you believe this
/r/seduction14/02/18 05:34 PM
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I mentioned my go to line a comment below that I use for one night stand types usually "who said anything about sex, did you think you were going to get lucky?" But also if I have a girl I'm seeing casually bring up a phrase like this. I tell her calmly that if that's the kind of person she thinks I am she is more than free to leave my apartment or that I'll leave.
/r/seduction14/02/18 04:21 PM
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I like using "who said anything about sex, did you think you were going to get lucky?"
/r/seduction14/02/18 04:16 PM
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I would say it’s safe to say most high value girls like these things. That being said if you can figure out how to break the normality of their typical night out by being a unique experience in yourself, they’ll love you for it.
/r/seduction02/02/18 10:29 PM
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I don't think you should tell her until she brings up the idea of monogamy. You should always be prepared to let her walk away if your future intentions are not aligned in a respectful and understanding manner. If you are mature about it when she asks you for monogamy and say no in a way that shows you are ok with letting her go she will probably be upset understandably but she will respect you for it. But there's no reason to cross that bridge until it comes IMO She will then probably disappear…
/r/seduction31/01/18 01:47 PM
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You don't need it but it helps. If you don't have good looks/good game then having status can help. Having all three makes it very easy though.
/r/seduction30/01/18 01:50 PM
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If you're in a college with a strong greek presence I would highly suggest it. You'll make life long friends and some of the best memories you'll possibly have. It is a great way to build strong social proof and opens up a huge network of girls, and cool guys to hangout with.
/r/seduction30/01/18 01:49 PM
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It sounds like you're putting a lot of pressure on yourself to come out of a date with some sort of outcome. Take a deep breath, and relax. Enjoy your drink and enjoy your conversation with someone and aim to learn about that person. If you enjoy the company of the girl then look to physically escalate. Everyone is so focused on themselves and what they're doing so if you "fuck up", you know who's going to care about it besides you. Nobody. So let it go. Like I said relax, and enjoy yourself and…
/r/seduction26/01/18 08:28 PM
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I think you did lose frame and acted emotionally to her not wanting you to sleep there. You're right in the fact she doesn't owe you anything. You really haven't hung out with her very much either, so I would suggest giving her some space for now and focus on other things for now. She'll probably text you back, just relax and take a deep breath. When she does text you back ask how she is feeling then set up another time to hangout soon.
/r/seduction26/01/18 08:11 PM
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Yeah you were on the right track but she could probably see the letdown in your body language/delivery. And you have the right mindset about it, you'll recognize a similar situation next time and be able to produce the right response.
/r/seduction25/01/18 05:40 PM
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lol fuck
/r/seduction25/01/18 05:30 PM
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Basically posted the same thing above at the same time lol
/r/seduction25/01/18 05:27 PM
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If I had to pick out a spot where you went wrong it would be when she called you out for being disappointed and you looked confused. You probably should have responded sarcastically with something like "oh yeah im soooooo dissapointed" with a douchey grin on your face. And then keep yourself backed off from her completely like you were doing. "She claims that it's "definitely not me" and says that I "deserve someone who wants to have sex"" You could have responded with something like "who said a…
/r/seduction25/01/18 05:22 PM
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You should research/read about flow states and flow psychology.
/r/seduction23/01/18 08:38 PM
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Hi I saw you from over there and thought you looked interesting and wanted to introduce myself, I'm X
/r/seduction22/01/18 02:43 PM
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Everyone's so focused on themselves and what they're doing so do whatever you want and post however much you personally would like to. I have friends who really curate their stories/snapchat like it's fucking art, they are constantly doing cool shit so it displays good value in that aspect. If someone really cares that much that they call you a "try-hard" for posting too much on social media they should probably be focused on more important things in the first place.
/r/seduction15/01/18 08:01 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6l3v3f/gaming_older_womenmy_experience/ hi
/r/seduction10/01/18 10:18 PM
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Ya I would say this is probably a little more correct than the other comment(at least in my experience). If you're a good lay they'll keep you around while they try and find a long term partner.
/r/seduction02/01/18 08:25 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6l3v3f/gaming_older_womenmy_experience/ I wrote a post on this a few months ago
/r/seduction02/01/18 08:20 PM
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I would pick the ones that interest you the most. I love to travel personally so that is one of mine.
/r/seduction30/12/17 07:37 PM
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One of my favorite books I've read.
/r/seduction30/12/17 06:23 PM
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Thanks for the heads up :)
/r/seduction30/12/17 03:19 PM
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You're thinking too much about it. It doesn't matter. Sooner the better probably.
/r/seduction30/12/17 01:33 AM
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Hey I was doing/seeing/reading x and it reminded me of you. Let's grab a drink and catch up soon.
/r/seduction29/12/17 11:17 PM
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He asked advice about a certain situation and if the topic of only be around for a short period of time comes up and how to handle it. Seems like we have both had different experiences in this regard and I just have to disagree with your statement “that if she is even saying that she’s not interested”. I’ve had a different experience personally.
/r/seduction27/12/17 03:19 AM
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That’s not true
/r/seduction27/12/17 02:57 AM
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If she brings up the fact that she wont have sex or do X with you because you're only around for a night. I like to say something like "yeah I agree with you, I didn't think you were going to get that lucky anyways", then pull away with a douchey smirk on my face. This puts the pressure back on her. Plausible deniability also plays here. For instance get her back to your airbnb/hotel because you want pick something up from the room and you can have a glass of wine while you're up there. That way…
/r/seduction26/12/17 10:21 PM
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Np man. Obviously there's no easy button for any of these things. But as you improve one of these factors it will shine through into the others. Meditation everyday is a great place to start.
/r/seduction23/12/17 07:37 PM
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That really wasn't my point here lol. It's the whole package of a person of who they are. I would also argue that it definitely helps to have money/status. Not necessary but definitely helps.
/r/seduction23/12/17 07:33 PM
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Which is why in my post I suggested he look at what he's doing through a different perspective. Not only will he have more success with women but also due to the other areas of his life being improved he will be more generally happy IMO.
/r/seduction22/12/17 10:44 PM
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When I read these posts that say things like "I have been doing game for a about five months or so. And I've mostly been doing day game". Or "Like today In day game i did like five approaches and they were all blown outs". I always feel that the guy is way too invested in getting a girl to like them. I could be wrong but your focused on figuring out how to get girls to like you instead of improving yourself...Which at the end of the day is needy. Stop putting so much of your worth into getting t…
/r/seduction22/12/17 05:39 PM
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I'm 23 and two of my good friends are 38 and 44 respectively. They have taken care of themselves(work out, cool hobbies, exc) and have good careers, social status exc. They bang girls around my age all the way through their age. So yes if you take care of yourself.
/r/seduction22/12/17 05:27 PM
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Stop comparing yourself to your friends, they aren't you. Take the advice people are leaving for you here and work on yourself in a general sense. Lifting, writing, meditating, talking to everyone and making a genuine connection with people, man or woman. The culmination of small improvements over time in status, looks, social skills end up clicking eventually. But once again focus on yourself and becoming a better you.
/r/seduction22/12/17 05:23 PM
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Yeah definitely a very needy response from you. Don't take it too personally, learn from your mistake, and move on.
/r/seduction21/12/17 01:06 PM
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Stop giving her your time/attention and work on new options Edit: You also haven't met this girl in person which with that being the case it's not helping your social circle at all.
/r/seduction20/12/17 03:42 PM
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Context, social awareness, and plausible deniability. At it's very core the starting steps to getting to know someone are basic social skills.
/r/seduction20/12/17 03:40 PM
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You could be right, but this sounds more like a shit test to me. Something like "well it's a good thing im not everyone" in a cocky-funny tone would have played well here IMO
/r/seduction17/12/17 05:44 PM
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"Well it's a good thing im not everyone"
/r/seduction17/12/17 05:41 PM
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It sounds like he'll be at home. He'll have better luck either asking them out in person or after he reconnects with them after the two week period IMO
/r/seduction15/12/17 11:01 PM
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Yeah I can definitely see that being the case. Definitely a ton of mental/physical benefits that come from working out. And good I would suggest never stopping :P. And yeah like I mentioned in the post I have a bunch of friends who sound like they are built pretty similarly to you who get quality women a ton. Where they lack physicially they make up in good fashion sense/good social skills. Got to play to your strengths. While that is a good goal to have I would look at it from a different persp…
/r/seduction15/12/17 05:03 PM
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Hey man, first off congrats on losing the 70 pounds. That takes an intense amount of willpower and dedication. I bet you can already feel the positive results. That's great your making due with what you have in regards to your workout situation. I've always had access to a gym so it's hard for me to say. I would probably point you to /r/bodyweightfitness to figure out how to possibly optimize your workouts a bit. And the generally advice is always that "you are enough". It's a combination physic…
/r/seduction15/12/17 04:49 PM
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That sounds fine lol
/r/seduction15/12/17 04:37 PM
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Yeah I would throw in one of you doing cool shit with your friends
/r/seduction15/12/17 04:33 PM
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Being a dickhead to women will attract women with low self-esteem, and sometimes beautiful women have low self-esteem. Empathy like you mentioned is much more powerful generally and can work with everyone.
/r/seduction15/12/17 04:26 PM
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Np man enjoy your break
/r/seduction15/12/17 04:15 PM
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I would say you're on the ground level at this point still. If I was in your position I would just act normally over break. If I was doing something cool then probably snapchat it to them/instagram it. Then reconnect with them when you get back and ask out whoever you're interested in for coffee/drinks when you're back at school.
/r/seduction15/12/17 04:11 PM
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If they're emotionally invested in you then yes. If not then they'll just forget about you.
/r/seduction15/12/17 04:04 PM
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Yeah man sounds like you know what you need to do and are very self aware. Just a matter of implementing it like you said which can definitely be challenging sometimes. Good luck :)
/r/seduction14/12/17 04:12 PM
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Download headspace and start meditating once per day. I would probably suggest journaling/writing too. Also it's completely natural to have your confidence feel like a spectrum, it just may not be as wide of a spectrum for others. Also I think you're putting too much emphasis on your performance. Instead be in the moment and just enjoy what you're doing. You'll be surprised at how much "better" you'll actually do when you put your focus on your enjoyment first.
/r/seduction14/12/17 02:50 PM
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Hi you looked interesting so I wanted to introduce myself. I'm X.
/r/seduction30/11/17 02:43 PM
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Not books but writing/meditation. I would read up on mindfulness in a general sense. I like the books "denial of death" by ernst becker and "meditations"(read one of the new translations) by Aurelius as well.
/r/seduction30/11/17 02:33 PM
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ya
/r/seduction23/11/17 01:20 AM
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Gotcha makes sense. Thanks for the context.
/r/seduction22/11/17 02:45 PM
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Yup definitely have to get that fundamental pattern down before being able to leverage the things I said in the post. Agreed definitely get the basics down before trying something like this. And yeah it's very powerful in crushing ASD. Good point. I don't think I did a great job describing it in my post but the timing/delivery of when you can make use of this is very important. Thanks for the thoughtful comment.
/r/seduction21/11/17 11:53 AM
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Yeah pick up is an art form in a way. What works really well for you may not work for me at all and vice versa. And yeah I would say big/long thing is a good way to gauge her state. Obviously touching is a great one. Like you said no flinches and you should be good to go. I saw in your other comment your heading out tonight so enjoy man and have fun!
/r/seduction21/11/17 11:42 AM
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Yeah I wrote this from a bar game/quick hook up point of view, and it also depends on what your goal is. If I'm trying to move from bar--->bed as quickly as possible I may try these things sooner. If I want to take the girl out I'll probably be more patient in doing these things. The rapport building and her feeling secure with you is definitely important also. And yeah I don't think you'll have the chance to be intimate with someone unless they feel comfortable with you.
/r/seduction21/11/17 10:31 AM
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Yeah man his interviews are great. He's very good at it.
/r/seduction21/11/17 10:15 AM
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If I was out on a first date with someone my approach would be different lol. Rapport and timing is important when doing these things. As well as your body language, voice, exc. are when you say these things. I can see your standpoint though!
/r/seduction21/11/17 10:15 AM
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I threw this together pretty quickly before driving a buddy to the airport. Definitely agree, it's the sublime stuff in combination with how and why you are saying certain things. Those two things brought together are what makes it powerful.
/r/seduction21/11/17 10:09 AM
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The timing and delivery of these things is important. Like /u/ubersecurity_no mentioned below it's the whole package of how they're delivered. This is usually for bar game too which may make it it a bit different. Definitely some good tips in your response!
/r/seduction21/11/17 10:05 AM
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100%
/r/seduction21/11/17 10:00 AM
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Yup strong, meaningful eye contact is a good one
/r/seduction21/11/17 03:40 AM
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She answered your question. Give her a chance to open up. Try and close a date sooner than later. Pyschology major may mean she likes helping people. Be like that's cool you must like helping people. What do you see yourself doing with that in the future?
/r/seduction21/11/17 02:48 AM
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Openers that work well: Comment on something in her bio "Hey trouble ;)" "Cool pictures, tell me something you're passionate about" "I don't usually compliment girls I haven't met, but based on you matching with me you have a great taste in men" Note: Tinder is a supplement to getting girls, nothing beats real life interaction
/r/seduction20/11/17 10:39 PM
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/r/askseddit but it depends entirely on the situation and there's not really much context here. If you're at the bar open the entire group and build rapport with her friends bc if you want to eventually isolate or do anything with that girl her friends need to like you. If you're just out and about during the day going up to a group could be considered bold and you might get blown out but that boldness and confidence can very well play to your advantage since you'll come off as well, very confid…
/r/seduction20/11/17 10:36 PM
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Those guys will forget about you and what you were doing regardless what it was 2 minutes later.
/r/seduction10/11/17 07:33 PM
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Yes to both your posts lol
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 10:47 PM
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what? why is this here?
/r/seduction03/11/17 01:48 PM
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Good luck man. Let me know how it goes lol. Saw my older friend from work last night so waking up to this made me laugh.
/r/seduction28/10/17 01:26 PM
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"We suffer more in our imagination than in reality". Some mindfulness stuff and self reflection would probably help with a problem like this tbh. Shitty_dix also makes some good points in his comment above. Meditation to help you let go of this idea. Writing to help you write out these silly scenarios you're making up in your head to help yourself realize that they are in fact, silly.
/r/seduction27/10/17 01:22 PM
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I wrote some posts on this topic: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6pw680/part_3_my_framework_for_living_an_attractive/ https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6i8gql/establishing_comfort_and_more_investment/ Also sort this subreddit by top posts all time there should be someting to help you there too.
/r/seduction21/10/17 11:03 PM
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Okay heres what you're gonna do. You are going to delete/block her on all social media if you haven't already. You are also going to block her number. You're going to throw out any items she's given to you(if they are expensive give them to friends for the time being). That time and effort you were putting into her is now going to be put back into yourself. I would suggest working out everyday of the week. Use your emotions in regards to this situation to push yourself through your workouts to r…
/r/seduction21/10/17 10:53 PM
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Hey good video I usually wouldn't take the time to watch this but overall I think your posts are some of the better ones I've read on here and are one of the shining lights in a community filled with the same questions over and over again IMO so here are my thoughts: Story w that girl: You weren’t very invested in the first place. I find myself doing similar things and not being very technically sound with girls who I don’t really like. I usually swing for the fences quickly and if it doesn’t wo…
/r/seduction21/10/17 10:28 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6l3v3f/gaming_older_womenmy_experience/?utm_content=title&utm_medium=user&utm_source=reddit&utm_name=frontpage I'm a similar demographic to you and wrote on this topic
/r/seduction18/10/17 01:11 PM
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Yeah definitely a messy situation. I've been in a similar one before as well. My advice to you would be to next her. I know it is certainly hard. But the way I look at it is like heroin. We know it's bad for us but still do it because of the feeling it gives us. The emotional high I've gotten from banging an ex before has never lasted and usually ends up with me feeling shitty the next couple of days after. My improvement comes to halts for a certain time after because of the toxic feeling of a …
/r/seduction17/10/17 11:24 PM
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Yes, onto the next one.
/r/seduction13/10/17 05:55 PM
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Yeah to me it sounds like she's just trying to keep you in orbit...Unless you see her out randomly hard next IMO. If she reaches out again saying something like above in two posts "oh hey, just seeing how you are, haven't heard from you in ages". Tell her to get drinks so that you guys can catch up right off the bat, I would put the literal minimal amount of effort in at this point.
/r/seduction13/10/17 05:38 PM
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Ya sounds like cat and mouse to me. Waste of time then if she didn't want to meet up after reaching out like that. Edit: Also sounds like you did everything right. Girls are going to girl sometimes.
/r/seduction13/10/17 05:26 PM
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Yeah IMO it's always more beneficial to be building more pipe in regards to potential lays than to chase. Pull back and ignore her a bit. It's always funny when girls who I used to talk to randomly hit me up a month or two later so something like that can ha[[en. And if you randomly see her out then that's a bonus too.
/r/seduction13/10/17 04:52 PM
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Yeah this is the best advice you'll probably get. If you're consistent with working out you'll be way ahead of curve in regards to looks in a few years. Not to mention the added mental benefits you'll get as well.
/r/seduction13/10/17 04:50 PM
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I think you're fine. Pull back for a bit and then try again in a few days. Working at 1pm seems legit to me.
/r/seduction13/10/17 04:47 PM
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If the interaction is going well just get her number at some point and continue the conversation. Then if you want you can hit her up a few days after to hangout if you like her.
/r/seduction13/10/17 04:43 PM
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I wouldn't put much effort into it. I'd hit her up to come get a drink with me(which I think you're already doing). If it's a no go pull back and put your attention elsewhere for a while at least.
/r/seduction13/10/17 04:41 PM
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Sounds like you're taking the steps to improve your situation already :). Definitely talk to someone too.
/r/seduction12/10/17 01:27 PM
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Yup supplement at best. I use my super like then stop swiping...
/r/seduction11/10/17 07:25 PM
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Why not strive to improve both at the same time
/r/seduction10/10/17 01:20 PM
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Texting her the immediate day after to plan something about a week in advance(from what I understand based on your post). It sounds like you already got verbal/text confirmation from her that she wanted to see you again Saturday, just give her a bit of space.
/r/seduction02/10/17 03:25 AM
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Leave it be for a few days and hit her up closer to Saturday. The way you were texting was needy but I wouldn't say you're in a bad spot necessarily quite yet. Just give some space and if she doesn't hit you up by thursday/friday text her then and depending on her response or lack there of you'll have a good idea of whether to next her or not
/r/seduction02/10/17 03:14 AM
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I would tell her I think she's cute and leave a business card with my cell on it and tell her to text me when she gets off work.
/r/seduction02/10/17 03:04 AM
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You have her # just text her lol. If she doesn't answer you're back where you are now, if she does you may have a date this week
/r/seduction02/10/17 03:00 AM
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Once or twice a week is fine...Just don't make a habit of it. Like you said the extra sexual energy is nice when approaching. But if you're horny as fuck on a random week night it's fine lol, if you think you are showing desperation bc you're not fapping there's probably some other shit you should be focused on instead...
/r/seduction02/10/17 02:56 AM
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Congrats homie, older woman are great in regards to getting to the point more quickly. Ride out this confidence and keep it up.
/r/seduction02/10/17 02:52 AM
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My go-to response to "I have a boyfriend" is "we just met and you're already telling me about your problems" and then from there it's easy to gauge whether or not that's actually true lol
/r/seduction19/09/17 04:49 PM
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I usually respond to that by saying playfully "Yeah, I've heard that one before" with a shit-eating grin on my face, and continue the conversation.
/r/seduction05/09/17 11:21 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6l3v3f/gaming_older_womenmy_experience/ I wrote about this awhile back. Banged a 34 YO fitness model this weekend basically following these same principles. Don't be afraid to approach also, you'll come off as very confident and high value IMO if you do.
/r/seduction05/09/17 10:40 PM
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Confidence issue it sounds like then. I know it's cliche but keep working on yourself and faking confidence, then you'll eventually have the real thing.
/r/seduction27/08/17 04:00 PM
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Small city in the southern US
/r/seduction27/08/17 03:59 PM
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A small one in comparison to NYC/Chicago exc.
/r/seduction27/08/17 03:59 PM
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Nice man
/r/seduction27/08/17 03:58 PM
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Yup good advice
/r/seduction27/08/17 03:58 PM
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Experience is king and developing your own style is very important. I liked your Netflix comparison too. Nice read and good post.
/r/seduction05/08/17 02:43 PM
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Yeah grab a buddy then. When I first started out I went with my best friend from home. Having someone to keep you in check and accountable at first will help.
/r/seduction04/08/17 02:56 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6lvu5u/part_1_my_framework_for_building_an_attractive/
/r/seduction03/08/17 09:16 PM
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23 here as well. Would agree with the average too.
/r/seduction01/08/17 06:50 PM
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I wouldn't have posted about it if it hadn't yielded me good results in the past :P
/r/seduction31/07/17 05:21 PM
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When I get this response I'll do one of two things. I'll either respond telling her not to bother because I'll have something new going on by then. This puts pressure on her because she can tell she's losing my interest. Or just ghost.
/r/seduction31/07/17 02:01 PM
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So you can probably afford it. When I first started out in the gym a long time ago I remember feeling insecure about shit too. Everyone there is trying to better themselves and is so focused on themselves anyways so you shouldn't feel "bad" about anything, although I understand it could be hard to do that sometimes. I can't say/do anything to make you go besides say it's been one of the best habits I've developed in my life. Take a before picture and track your progress and after a month or so t…
/r/seduction30/07/17 10:36 PM
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idk what you want me to say? Sounds like you need to straighten out your financial situation first.
/r/seduction28/07/17 07:49 PM
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Would be the best $100 I spend every month if that was the case lol
/r/seduction28/07/17 05:27 PM
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best $25 I spend every month
/r/seduction28/07/17 12:26 PM
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mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
/r/seduction28/07/17 12:25 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6l3v3f/gaming_older_womenmy_experience/ this may help you. One of them is an older woman who I work with.
/r/seduction27/07/17 07:58 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6l3v3f/gaming_older_womenmy_experience/ I wrote about this topic not too long ago.
/r/seduction24/07/17 11:15 PM
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Yeah no problem man.
/r/seduction24/07/17 10:59 PM
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having a good job != high status IMO. I do think though that if you surround yourself with other people leading an attractive lifestyle(which is a combination of a lot of things, a good job can certainly play a part in this), you will then have access to more attractive people. It's not a necessity by any means but it definitely doesn't hurt to have.
/r/seduction24/07/17 12:21 AM
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The best way to be interesting is to be interested
/r/seduction23/07/17 08:40 PM
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Continue working out, this will be a big differentiatior for you amongst your peers to help you stand out. Read the book how to win friends and influence people. You are only in high school you will learn. If you are going to college and are actually good looking and combine that with some of the key principals you can learn from the good posts on here you will have a fair amount of success.
/r/seduction22/07/17 10:05 PM
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This is a good answer. To piggy back off of this if you want to game a group you need to engage the whole group. Ask them basic questions about themselves and build some rapport with the whole entire group(most times the only way to get the girl you are gaming alone is if her friends likes you as well). The best way to be interesting is to be interested so just try and learn and make some connections in the conversation and eventually isolate the girl you want to focus on. Edit: while you are ta…
/r/seduction22/07/17 09:59 PM
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There has definitely have to be a lot of back story missing here, thats a pretty weird claim for you ex to be making and also breaking up with you for unless there was also other reasons which I'm sure there was. You are a man going after what you desire. My general rule of thumb is unless I am told no then I can move up the escalation ladder. Obviously when you get into the bedroom you want to make sure she is very receptive to what you are doing and is enjoying herself. At that point though yo…
/r/seduction22/07/17 09:49 PM
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Worth the long read. Bravo.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 04:05 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6me5e7/part_2_my_framework_for_building_an_attractive/dk10mxn/?context=3 I started working on something like this. I will be finishing the other parts once I am back from traveling.
/r/seduction21/07/17 06:59 AM
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I write for myself bc I enjoy it, it helps me learn from my experiences and organize my thoughts. I figured if people could relate or learn something from my experience why not throw a post up, and it looks like some people did. If you see me post anything else in the future then don't read my shit if you don't like it. I don't really care.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 05:12 PM
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I write for myself bc I enjoy it, it helps me learn from my experiences and organize my thoughts. I figured if people could relate or learn something from my experience why not throw a post up, and it looks like some people did. If you see me post anything else in the future then don't read my shit if you don't like it. I don't really care.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 05:12 PM
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hahaha yes no brainer
/r/seduction12/07/17 10:05 PM
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This is creepy as fuck.
/r/seduction12/07/17 05:41 PM
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A lot wrong here. Texting too much IMO without getting anything in return. Texting should be for logistics mostly. Everything else for the most part can be talked about in person. If she wants to see you in person she will. No escalation. Movie date is not the move, especially when seeing her for the first time. Get a drink or go for a walk in a park or something where you can touch/talk to her. As a result of you not escalating and continuing to text her she didn't see you as a sexual threat in…
/r/seduction11/07/17 01:08 PM
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You're allowed to ask women out without wanting a relationship. If they have a good time with you they'll stick around for casual sex until their situation changes. If they bring up the fact they want a relationship just move onto the next one. In regards to the girl in your class just talk to her after/before class. Make a general comment on class or something then get to know her. If she seems interested ask for her #.
/r/seduction11/07/17 12:52 PM
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I'm glad you enjoyed it. Definitely agreed, pulling away and then investing the time back into yourself sounds like the move. Good luck my man.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 12:45 PM
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That's a great question
/r/seduction11/07/17 02:57 AM
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Not sure if you're going to find anyone who's an expert at taking subtle bulge shots in this subreddit.
/r/seduction11/07/17 02:56 AM
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This is correct, if you open your eyes they are everywhere lol
/r/seduction11/07/17 02:45 AM
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Talk to everyone in the gym. There will be certain people who go at the same time as you more than likely, ask them for a spot and befriend them. If you are the guy that just looks like you talk to everyone then it'll be easier for you to talk to the girls who go there at the same time as you as well without giving off a creepy vibe. From my experience I have fucked girls who go to the gym with me but I never really hit on them there. I would end up seeing them out somewhere else or on our walk …
/r/seduction11/07/17 02:44 AM
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Go visit friends from school then who work in cities. I'm sure they'll be happy to see you and plus you wont have to pay for a living space. In regards to "cheap" cities, look at somewhere like Charlotte/Raleigh, NC(source: I live in one of these places and it's very cheap) and college towns/cities. Hope that helps.
/r/seduction11/07/17 01:01 AM
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You should be looking to change jobs/move to a city IMO. Even if you do travel and get laid everywhere you go it'll only be a temporary fix.
/r/seduction11/07/17 12:53 AM
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Ended up running into an ex/old oneitis while out with one of my plates this weekend. She texted me later that day saying she missed me lol. No thanks, last thing I need right now.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 12:48 AM
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Pretty much, they are doing their job as friends making sure their friend isn't going home with a weirdo. If you don't win over the group, unless you isolate somehow there's no way you'll be able to take her home.
/r/seduction10/07/17 07:49 PM
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You need to become build some rapport with the friends as well.
/r/seduction10/07/17 02:17 PM
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Join a fraternity. Automatic social circle(you'll end up making some incredible friendships hopefully), power in numbers(more money = more booze/better parties = a lot of girls).
/r/seduction10/07/17 12:28 PM
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If it is tinder there's no reason to get in the weeds with any BS texts. Just set up a date if she's interested she'll say yes.
/r/seduction09/07/17 11:48 PM
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I'm in the middle of writing a series on this. Here's my first post on physical attractiveness: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6lvu5u/part_1_my_framework_for_building_an_attractive/
/r/seduction09/07/17 10:13 PM
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"I was made fun of because I looked like a wuss when talking to her. It sucked, a lot." At least you had the balls to approach, that's the opposite of looking like wuss. I imagine it's 100x better than what any of your single friends were doing.
/r/seduction09/07/17 10:12 PM
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why are you texting someone you've never met before? I need more context
/r/seduction09/07/17 10:05 PM
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Texting without getting anything back is bad. There should be a purpose. Something funny, you saw something that reminded you of something you experienced together in real life. Aside from that chances are you'll end up saying something stupid or will be misconstrued over text. Try to use it just for logistics.
/r/seduction09/07/17 09:48 PM
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Yeah I don't know much about streetwear. If you can pull it off it can definitely be a cool look.
/r/seduction08/07/17 01:08 PM
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Just making a statement man lol
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 01:05 PM
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Glad you liked it
/r/seduction08/07/17 12:21 AM
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Definitely noted for next time, appreciate the constructive feedback.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 04:02 PM
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Yeah definitely, we already know we're awesome, so they need to qualify themselves to us :)
/r/seduction06/07/17 03:41 PM
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This is for everything in general not just seduction. You never learn anything if you are the one speaking. You also have a higher chance to say something stupid. Like you said just listen and react. Definitely a practical and simple thing to do.
/r/seduction06/07/17 03:26 PM
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I don't know why you're getting down voted because it definitely is very similar to gaming girls your age lol. Most if not all of the same principals apply.
/r/seduction05/07/17 04:58 PM
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What? If you've done cool traveling then you should definitely talk about it with them lol. If you can relate to something they've done or place they've been that is definitely not a bad thing to talk about.
/r/seduction05/07/17 04:57 PM
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I wrote a post about this the other day: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6l3v3f/gaming_older_womenmy_experience/
/r/seduction05/07/17 04:53 PM
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Thanks man. Not yet. I'm heading to Italy in a few days for some time but once I get back it's definitely on my list of things to do/start when I get back.
/r/seduction05/07/17 12:38 PM
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you posted in seddit about a girl you want just be friends with :thinking:
/r/seduction04/07/17 02:06 AM
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If I'm going out with the sole intention to pick up girls I actually prefer being alone. First off you like you said you are forced to be social/talk to people, this helps me get into a better mental state for game more quickly. You also don't have any "dead weight", take a second and look around the bar and look at all the groups of dudes doing nothing but standing around, you have nothing to hold you back. Have fun, it'll definitely feel weird at first but once you get into a nice state where …
/r/seduction04/07/17 01:18 AM
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Logistics and that's it. Save everything else for in person, things are too easily misunderstood over text. Text her Thursday with the time/place. Have fun.
/r/seduction04/07/17 01:13 AM
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My advice would be to Write about it and do some self-reflection. You may realize you just like the companionship after being in a relationship for so long or something like that. Getting your thoughts and feelings out onto a physical plane can help a lot with rationalizing and organizing them. Set boundaries for yourself. Obviously you are just getting out of a relationship, take some time for yourself and invest whatever time you were putting into your ex into yourself It sounds like you don't…
/r/seduction04/07/17 12:40 AM
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That's good you want the best for yourself. You should expect nothing less than the best. The problem I see here is that it sounds to me like you are bit on the inexperienced end. You've never had an "official" girlfriend before. How would you know what would make your 10/10 girl is until you experience abundance. You may think you like something now that makes a girl a "10/10" but after experiencing a girl with certain qualities you find attractive you may come to realize you like something els…
/r/seduction04/07/17 12:26 AM
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This is a spicy take
/r/seduction26/06/17 12:32 PM
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Nice video man. I can definitely relate to this on some level. I find when I'm happy with the sexual situation in my life(Abundance + consistency), I am less likely to approach because I'm comfortable with my situation. Despite that being the case I know I should still be approaching given the casual nature of my relationships and the fact they can end at any time. To make up for this I've been trying to push my comfort edges in other portions of my life through trying new things, and becoming b…
/r/seduction24/06/17 06:44 PM
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"What if it was a gift?". Have to take the bad with the good, it's the only way to get stronger. Experience is king.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 05:54 PM
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I would disagree with this. Understanding when/where to use certain seduction tactics can help you immensely in the right situation at work.
/r/seduction22/06/17 05:24 PM
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Thanks man I appreciate it. Definitely enjoy your posts/blog, looking to start my own thing like that soon.
/r/seduction22/06/17 12:48 AM
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/r/askseddit
/r/seduction21/06/17 11:46 PM
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Try to set up another date. If she wants to hang out she's interested if she doesn't respond on to the next one.
/r/seduction21/06/17 10:47 PM
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Yeah it's good. Just make sure you are balancing out the reading with real life experience as well.
/r/seduction21/06/17 12:29 PM
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Start working out and getting in shape. Get some fun, fulfilling hobbies for yourself. Finish "The Game", then "No More Mr. Nice Guy" and then I would suggest reading "Models" if you haven't. You have a lot to read there, while that's a good thing make sure you balance it out with trying things in your day-to-day life. Experience is king IMO. Don't be afraid to make mistakes, these will only be an opportunity to learn. Make notes of your experiences and things that made you feel good/bad. Going …
/r/seduction20/06/17 04:24 PM
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Yeah man agreed. Obviously every situation is different. Sometimes it is best to say where your from or your job straight up. My focus here was more trying around getting her hooked into the position where you will have an opportunity to tell a good story, or find an area of common interest and use it as a jump off point to go deeper and have her open up to you a bit more. RE: lol @ your friend, hopefully you can help him out a bit
/r/seduction20/06/17 01:45 AM
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I'll just have my own fun :P
/r/seduction19/06/17 06:40 PM
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You care too much about what they think of you. If they give you shit throw it back in their face, at least you would have the balls to approach while they sit on the sidelines. Realize that everyone is naturally selfish and truly doesn't give a fuck about you or what you do. Internalize this thought and you'll be free to do basically anything you want.
/r/seduction19/06/17 05:08 PM
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What even is this question? How do you know they are intimidated by you?
/r/seduction19/06/17 05:06 PM
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/r/askseddit
/r/seduction19/06/17 04:59 PM
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Agreed 100%. I've seen a lot of your posts lately and they are spot on every time. Good stuff man.
/r/seduction19/06/17 04:30 PM
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Yeah definitely travel around as much as you can. Do as many things that you wouldn't be able to do back at home as you can(that you are interested in). Have fun.
/r/seduction19/06/17 04:27 PM
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Nah man I definitely respect where you're coming from. It sounds like you're trying to pull yourself out though which is already a lot better than a lot of the self pity I see on this sub. Good luck with everything man and keep up the good work.
/r/seduction19/06/17 01:40 PM
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Yeah just have fun with it.
/r/seduction19/06/17 01:05 PM
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Hey thanks for reading. I'm definitely not your traditional underdog story nor did I intend for this post to be "inspiring". That being said I have certainly worked hard on myself and have taken advantage of my "rng" to help make sure I've set myself up for success going forward and to make the most of it. I'm not perfect either, I definitely have had my insecurities. I have worked on changing the things I can change and accepting the things that I can't. I definitely agree with what you've said…
/r/seduction19/06/17 12:57 PM
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Yeah she does like you. She's just getting ready to have an excuse to give to her friends just in case you don't make her your girlfriend so she doesn't feel like a slut/risk looking like she was rejected by you. She keeps asking you why you like her so she feels validated by you.
/r/seduction19/06/17 12:40 AM
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Yes. Also give it a shot just for experience sake. It'll make gaming girls your age even that much easier.
/r/seduction18/06/17 10:30 PM
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No problem my man. Good luck out there :)
/r/seduction18/06/17 10:22 PM
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And to add to that, think of it like the girl your talking to as a Dog getting a treat. When she does things you like she gets rewarded. When she doesn't you don't reward her. Instead she gets punished through things like you taking your attention away/ignoring her. I made the mistake of rewarding my gf's in my LTR's even when they were doing things I didn't necessarily like. This is an attraction killer at the end of the day. You need to make boundaries and stand by them. edit: A word
/r/seduction18/06/17 09:08 PM
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I didn't say don't ever give her anything. You definitely want to give her stuff, it just comes down to what and making sure it's at the right time. This takes practice to understand. I recently had an interaction where I didn't give enough and the girl I was talking to and she did end up leaving. That being said every interaction is different. But once you practice this more and get more experience with it you'll have a better judgement in your interactions on what to give the girl and when. On…
/r/seduction18/06/17 08:58 PM
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By not giving a woman everything she wants it will increase her investment in you as she'll always be wanting more. I.e When you just meet a girl let her work to figure out to get to know you and why you're an awesome guy. Once she finds out the specific details she'll be satisfied in the interaction, you want to keep her wanting more and to keep investing in the interaction. Don't be afraid to reveal things about yourself, just do it at the right times. Then when it comes to LTR in my examples …
/r/seduction18/06/17 08:41 PM
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Thanks man I appreciate it.
/r/seduction18/06/17 07:12 PM
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Yeah man definitely a nice write-up. Once you give a women what they want i.e. validation, they no longer have anything to work for. Women like being played on their emotions, once men realize this and can use it to their advantage their game steps up another level.
/r/seduction18/06/17 02:53 PM
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Yeah like I mentioned and /u/Woujo above me go out and invest your time in other options. Your time will be much better spent developing new leads, or back into yourself(lifting,learning, exc).
/r/seduction18/06/17 02:49 PM
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The question you asked already shows a ton of investment on your part. I'm not surprised she came back with that answer. Keep it more casual, get her number and then text her in a few days asking her out. If she doesn't then brush it off and move onto the next one. But agreed you should delete tinder and spend your effort talking to women in real life IMO.
/r/seduction18/06/17 02:34 PM
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Yes. Your own personal successes and success with women go hand in hand in a lot of cases. You accomplish something at work i.e give a good presentation, make a big sale, this puts you into a state of confidence in which makes it easier to go out and game women IMO. On the flip side through your failures you should be constantly trying to pick out what you did wrong and what can go better next time. If you are constantly learning and improving yourself your successes in seduction will also shine…
/r/seduction18/06/17 02:29 PM
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Like others have mentioned here it's just a human trait. If you tease a girl like that it shows a couple things IMO. You display higher value, as most guys will probably be complimenting her. You are comfortable joking with women. This shows comfort in yourself, confidence and experience.
/r/seduction18/06/17 02:24 PM
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Get her number and text her in a week asking her out.
/r/seduction18/06/17 02:18 PM
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Things from the media != real life It sounds like you're investing a lot in this girl already, she has a boy friend, she's a coworker. Move your energy into something better. Establish an abundance mentality. It sounds like you can get with her if you want. But will the drama you can be roped into as a result of that be worth it. Potentially dealing with falling out of ex-bf, seeing her everyday at work if it goes badly. But if you had other options you would see that this stress wouldn't be clo…
/r/seduction18/06/17 02:14 PM
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Yeah I can relate with a lot of these things. Building an attractive lifestyle for yourself: sports in HS, Top tier greek life in college, and good job in good location after school, is very important in regards to having high SMV. TRP truths complement this kind of lifestyle really well as you can use them to set yourself up for success in many kinds of situations whether be work, women, family exc.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 07:41 PM
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High SMV people do use social media it's a fact, but it's not an end all be all. I personally don't use any besides snapchat and feel like I am more in touch with what's going on around me. I am more likely to converse with the people around me instead of looking down at my phone scrolling through instagram/FB, this is something that I personally like. That being said if you are in posts with other high SMV people, even if you don't have it personally people will still notice you and you can eve…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 06:55 PM
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