Part 1 on making yourself more physically attractive here: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6lvu5u/part_1_my_framework_for_building_an_attractive/

Part 2 on more effectively managing your emotions here: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6me5e7/part_2_my_framework_for_building_an_attractive/

Part 3 on social skills here: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6pw680/part_3_my_framework_for_living_an_attractive/

What’s up guys, been trying to cut down on my reddit time a bit here’s the next part I just put together though so I hope this helps. This is my fourth post in a series that I am writing that includes a set of certain topics that will help you in developing an attractive lifestyle for yourself. I personally believe living an attractive lifestyle streamlines the seduction process as well as gives you more chances to interact with high value women. This post will be about responses to common shit tests and random thoughts I’ve had.

Contents

  1. Common shit tests and responses
  2. Meditation/Mindfulness
  3. Online dating
  4. Conclusion

Common shit tests and responses

As we all know girls will try to challenge your frame to see if you are strong emotionally and confident in yourself and who you are. We all know that we bring value to the table and my posts above go into how you can build confidence and improve yourself in a general sense. Without further adieu though here are my favorite responses to common shit tests.

“I’m too old for you” “You’re so young” “You’re a baby”

I’ve had a lot of success this year with women who are older than me and it’s fairly easy so blow past a shit test like this. I have a few responses to something like this, keep in mind I say this playfully and come off in a cocky/funny kind of way. The first of those being “Yup I’ve definitely heard that one before” (douchey PUA smirk while I do this). And then carry on with what i’m going to say. This comes off as confident and shows you are comfortable being in that situation and also implies experience which IMO is good. Another one I like is to agree with them and say something in a sarcastic/playful tone like “Yeah you are right I am so young/baby/w.e, you’re pretty lucky to be hanging out with a cool young guy like me”. Once again that cocky funny idea and also shows that you don’t take yourself too seriously. Along with this don’t lie about your age…^^<sup>Who</sup> gives a fuck if the girl likes you and you do something like I mentioned above you should be in a good spot most cases to be able to take the interaction to the next level. Older women love confidence and will get to the point very quickly as well. And even if your gaming girls in their 20’s who may be a bit older than you same idea applies but I find you do need to play the game a bit more.

“I have a boyfriend”

Now I find there’s polarity in this sub around this phrase. Some people don’t like to continue their interaction after you hear this but I find in MOST cases this is just a way to weed out weird dudes who are approaching them (hopefully none of you :) lol). My go to response to this “I just met you and you’re already telling me about your problems” Once again delivery is key here in playful/cocky funny way. After you see this watch how she responds, depending on this you can usually tell if he she actually has a boyfriend or not. If she doesn’t(which is the case a lot of the time), congrats you made it to the next level in your interaction. A lot of girls will have guys they may be seeing that night they aren’t super serious about. Passing this shit test is good way to swoop her right from under the other dude.

“Can you hold this, buy this for me exc…”

We all know this already but never do shit like this for women you just met. You might not think it means a lot but right off the bat it makes you come off as push over. Instead what I like to do is point out a random group of guys at the bar and be like “why don’t you you get one of those dudes to do X for you” (playful tone again). And then continue your interaction as you would normally.

“I think your a player” “You must say that to all your girls”

“Yeah I study seddit everday I am a player” /s. If you’re getting this from her it’s a good sign because she finds you attractive and just doesn’t want to be taken advantage of which is fair. I usually disqualify this by responding sarcastically “Yeah I’m a huge player you’ll be my 30th girl of the month” cocky funny again. Or say something like “Yeahhhh alllll of my girls” sarcastic tone again.

"We’re not having sex tonight"

Just say “ok that's fine” or “Who said you’d get that lucky”. If she says this you’re in. She’s thinking about having sex with you. Newsflash: She says this there’s a pretty good chance you’re having sex tonight or it’s in your near future.

Meditation/Mindfulness

I picked up meditation about 2 ½ months ago. I would suggest all of you if you don’t already to go out and download the app headspace and give their free trial a try. If you like it buy the premium package which is like 5-7 buck a month. This has helped me to be more present in the moment, channel my focus, as well as understand my emotions even more than I already did. I meditate for 10 minutes, that’s it only 10 minutes after I workout every morning and come out feeling great with a clear path of what I want to get accomplished during the day. https://www.headspace.com

Online dating..tinder/bumble exc

I had a couple friends who were struggling on tinder/bumble who asked me to make a profile and figure out what works and what doesn’t. I find that you should make an effort to make get them off the app as soon as you can and get their number. This isn’t mine but I had another friend who uses bumble/tinder a lot mention this process to me and I find it works very well. Take advantage of your super likes and use them. I swipe until I find a really hot girl and then use my super like on her(hb9+) and then that’s it, I stop swiping. While just liking any 7-8’s in the meantime. Not my thought process once again but it works well based on my experience. Open with something like “Cool pictures/I like your pictures. What’s something you are passionate about.” 75% of time I’ll get a response telling me about her passions. Then say “Cool(make a general comment about her passion). I don’t check this often so if you’re not a serial killer I’ll give you my number”. Then she’ll give her number or just say something like “I don’t think I’m a serial killer”. And you leave her your number and she texts you and you can continue your conversation there. This is nice because it puts the negative connotations about online dating behind her now that she’s texting you.

Note: I mostly think online dating is a waste of time overall. Much easier to get to the point in person. At best it's an ok supplement to build more pipe IMO.

Conclusion

Not much else to say here on these topics. If anyone else has anything productive they want to add or has any questions about anything feel free to post in the comments. Hope this helps.