It'd mean a lot if you guys gave me feedback on my text game here -- not sure what went wrong

SeymourGlas · 2018-01-14T19:17:28+00:00

Lady's perspective here, I don't think you were too far off. She was a bit annoying with the "omg I'm so high" shit. It sounds to me like she never really planned on meeting up with you, perhaps she just wanted attention. My advice, move on to someone else that has a little more to add to a conversation and maybe don't try as hard to meet up once they seem difficult to make plans with.

Good luck!

2018-01-14T20:32:54+00:00

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2018-01-14T19:04:21+00:00

You seem a little desperate in your text game. You keep suggesting new times to hangout which in my opinion is over the top. Try and distance yourself from her for a few days and she’ll come running back to you.

cantstopthislove · 2018-01-14T23:08:36+00:00

I think she was either just very high or not really that into it. I will say though that one thing that stood out to me was when she asked for your Insta to look at more pics, that was the turning point. If I were in your place I would have said something along the lines of "Nope. But meet me at X location at Y time, and you can stare at me in person." I'm not into social media at all, but if you're the type of person whose whole life is on there, once you add her, you're no longer intriguing or mysterious. Part of the fun of dating is revealing new and interesting things about someone. Why would she meet up with you if she already basically knows everything about you? Boring. Next.

physicalbitcoin · 2018-01-14T23:47:06+00:00

Girls flake sometimes, it could be a test. There are whole guides out there about what to do if girls flake. I would be texting others girls to get her out of your mind, and contact again 2-5 days later as if nothing happened. A good opener would be to ask if her house situation is OK now. Don't let her sense you were thinking about her a lot, or that you cared that she flaked. She needs to feel that you are strong, centered, indifferent and independent.

http://www.girlschase.com/content/tactics-tuesdays-flake-handling-prevention-and-mindsets

NilacTheGrim · 2018-01-15T00:21:48+00:00

Your problem is you're using online dating apps.

fuck that shit. Go for real life instead.

Otherwise your opening and stuff were top notch. As good as you can be you end up feeling like shit afterward.

Seriously.. do the real life thing. Your text game will help you there too and at the end of the day you will end with SUCCESS rather than a hideous pit of dark despair in your gut.

Title	It'd mean a lot if you guys gave me feedback on my text game here -- not sure what went wrong
Author	blah135135
Upvotes	14
Comments	6
Date	January 14, 2018 6:47 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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