TRP view when a girl says she never wants kids?

[deleted] · 2014-12-01T17:39:07+00:00

How should I respond when someone says this?

Plate:

You: Ok or oops you had me but now you've lost me. I want 100 kids

Potential LTR:

You: I am going to have kids

fnordsnord · 2014-12-01T18:19:55+00:00

How old are you? Most women "never want kids" from about 18 - 24. The number of "never want kids" women starts to drop until around 28, when baby-rabies sets in.

Never believe a woman who claims she never wants kids. At best it means "I don't want kids right now."

JakofClubs · 2014-12-04T14:06:10+00:00

There are exceptions to AWALT. I dated a couple of girls that were serious about not wanting kids. e.g., had their tubes tied when they were under 30. Most, as /u/fnordsnord says, just mean the don't want kids right now. I'd just agree with her and say that there are plenty of people in the world and there are many ways to have positive impacts on the lives of children without having your own -which basically no girl is going to disagree with.

If you want to know for sure, ask her why she hasn't got her tubes tied yet. I think you'll find that most want to keep the possibility open. "Maybe some day...."

Title	TRP view when a girl says she never wants kids?
Author	prodigy2throw
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	December 1, 2014 5:29 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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