help for a shy goth guy

GuyFromDaStore · 2018-02-19T00:18:11+00:00

Be that positive goth guy and girls will love you for it

Zicke13 · 2018-02-19T19:31:38+00:00

As a goth girl, meeting other goths is is hard. Slim pickin's.

2018-02-18T22:04:12+00:00

Will you be a goth in 20 years?

No? It's a phase. Why not stop that phase right now.

Yes? Good luck...

You're just severly limiting your options here.

zaxanagian2 · 2018-02-18T20:12:36+00:00

I don’t think many girls go for the ‘goth-look guys’ to be completely honest with you, and the goth girls don’t go out as much as you’d probably like. It will be hard to find a girl that suits you unfortunately. Good luck though

zaxanagian2 · 2018-02-18T22:52:36+00:00

Oh that’s great, there’s is not much of a goth community where I’m from so I don’t know much about it haha. You say you’re not goth.. but the title says “help for a shy goth guy”..?

levelUpLA · 2018-02-19T18:57:43+00:00

@deloadthekingXi I was a goth guy killing it with girls at age 22-25, however, I rarely got laid because I missed a lot of Signs and chances for playing it too safe. I also thought that sex meant that you would have to be together, and no one told me about casual sex, I easily missed about 35 extra lays in my lifetime. That being said most PUA say don't drink I say fuck that shit Drink enough to become friends with others.

Also look for a local Goth clubs, However, beware they are clicky as fuck and tend to be depressed individuals. I see people my age 32+ still trying to hold on the goth lifestyle (there own youth) however most my age are fat, ugly, and depressed, It's quite sad to see. Do you want to be 35+ and have a fat ass wife who is also depressed because the elites are not giving you a fair shake?

The questions to really ask yourself are what type of girls do you want? totally not look wise but more on the general side ( depressed girls tend to be full of drama so your laid-back personality would clash).

As far as overall shyness take an improv class, and start hitting the gym, Change your style man I mean Rob zombie still dresses goth but he is RARE, for every Rob zombie marlyn manson type there 400,000 old goth guys who every young goth girl thinks are creepy dudes.

Any other advice hit me up directly message

animalspirarb · 2018-02-19T02:33:42+00:00

Dressing in all black is stupid.

You are literally saying "stay away from me, I am not interested in talking to you".

Get a nice bright red shirt and see how different people react to you.

Title	help for a shy goth guy
Author	Deloadthekingxi
Upvotes	1
Comments	10
Date	February 18, 2018 8:00 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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