Having spent the last six or seven weeks in a bit of a funk following oneitis for my first lay since learning seduction - it finally feels like I might be getting back into things.
Two friends and I went out on Friday night to meet another friend of ours who was down from London. With him would be a girl I met the same night as the last lay and whom I wanted to meet again.
Before that, however, we stopped at a bar with live music where the girlfriend of one of the guys I was with was out with some of her colleagues.
We sat down and I started to talk to the different girls including one who greeted me very warmly because we used to work in the same office.
At one point, one of the girls was stood up next to the table. She was a brunette with a fantastic body (toned belly - clearly looks after herself). I swear - it's like I went into autopilot...
I stood up, smiled and looked into her eyes, took her hand and led her without a word to the dance floor. I led her through the crowd, politely but firmly moving people out of the way, to where there was space.
We danced closely for a few minutes and I ramped up the kino as I could tell she was comfortable with it. Then, I went for it and kissed her. She was very receptive and made out with me back and at one point I started to pull her hair gently. This went on for a few minutes before we went back to the table.
We actually didn't speak again that night because I think she was a bit embarrassed in front of her friends but one of them mentioned that she liked me.
Looking back, I think it was well executed:
a) I assumed attraction
b) strong eye contact and confident kino
c) I lead, like a boss.
d) I managed this without saying a thing. We didn't even exchange names. It was all non-verbal.
Even though when, later on that night, I met my friend from London and the girl I originally intended to try and pull I didn't get anywhere (bit too much to drink, dammit!) When I woke up in the morning it felt great - looking back the makeout was great work on my part!
Suddenly my pickup journey feels like it's back on and looking positive again!
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