Age based anxiety

dinercheeseburger · 2017-12-21T10:13:42+00:00

You are absolutely right. Life ends at 25, by 30 you are already in an old age home and pussy has dried out. Too bad, you missed life. Next time (if there is a next time) live life to the fullest.

The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago, the next best time is now.

Stop seeking validation and hand holding from others, that is what makes this board cringe-worthy. You know the answer, just go out and do it. Rely on yourself and conquer your own inadequacies- nobody else will do it for you.

rich_fletch · 2017-12-21T11:04:53+00:00

I'm 38, also in the UK. Men get more attractive with age - providing you keep committing to improving yourself year on year. Make sure every year you can look back and see how you are better than you were this time last year.

If you were a woman posting this, you'd have a point. But you're not and you don't.

recyclablebanthas · 2017-12-21T13:48:29+00:00

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The one thing that worries me though (and keeps me up at night) is that soon I'll be too old to have fun

Dude.

I know a guy in his 40s who regularly dates women aged 25-40. His last GF was 25. And he still dabbles in flings with girls as young as 18.

I know another guy who's in his 50s. He dates women in their late 20s to late 30s. His last regular girl was around 26.

Both guys go out to bars and clubs with their friends. They just treat people normally and don't force anything. They still have fun.

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how can I shake the feeling that I've wasted my best pulling years?

Just fucking LIVE now. It's the only time you can. Stop wasting your energy worrying about the past, or you'll lose your present.

It's a choice. Choose to make it. That's how you shake the feeling.

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I'm in the UK so any Brits who went through the same

You should listen to what James Marshall had to say about this. Don't sell yourself short.

LimitedContributor · 2017-12-21T13:59:19+00:00

I'm also 27. Been for two months now. I feel your worries.

I'm really not interested in dating a women that already has a kid. Not to be harsh, just, I want her all to me.

G_Refined · 2017-12-21T10:52:29+00:00

Who is setting these expectations? How will you be too old to have fun? People get divorced at 50 and have the most fun of their entire lives. 27, you still have your whole life ahead of you to have fun.

Ekoiks · 2017-12-21T11:43:13+00:00

I'm 23 but had heared that mens are the most attractive 30yo and up and you have second young life!

Steve_Savage · 2017-12-22T00:56:26+00:00

Nobody's keeping count! My GF is in her 40's and before me, her total guy count is 1, ONE. She got married out of highschool and only recently got divorced.

I repeat, nobody is keeping count, and you are under no pressure to rack up chick counts in your life. Your main goal is to find somebody you can hang out with and enjoy life together.

Title	Age based anxiety
Author	thehare2440
Upvotes	5
Comments	15
Date	December 21, 2017 9:35 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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