Why sometimes we want to talk to a girl but we don't? Is it always fear of rejection?

anonanonetc · 2018-03-19T16:38:46+00:00

I don’t know about you, but for me it’s truly because I have nothing to say. But the truth is, your mindset ought to be that they badly want to talk to you, so you have to lead.

2018-03-19T16:42:20+00:00

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JimBeamAndCoke2016 · 2018-03-19T17:48:35+00:00

It's a mindset, it's also situational. I wanted to talk to this girl in the gym I go to but it's just... Probably not the best place to do it. I was pissed at myself for not approaching, because if not now.. When? But sometimes forgiving ourselves and learning patience is important. It's like learning the guitar or a new hobby, you will have failures, frustrations, but if you keep at it you will eventually succeed. I was striking out SO bad the past months but on Saturday I basically combined everything I've learned and just went for it... And it couldn't have worked out better. Forgive yourself, and just try again. You have time, and learning is an up and down process

itzReborn · 2018-03-19T21:33:09+00:00

This is so true. I always wanna say something but sometimes idk if I’m shy, or is it my introvert nature.

Also like someone said what the hell am I suppose to say? Simple intro? , hey my name is, what’s ur? Say hey I like ur shoes/outfit etc Be strong and say “you mad cute what’s ur name?

Title	Why sometimes we want to talk to a girl but we don't? Is it always fear of rejection?
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Date	March 19, 2018 4:36 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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