This FR will be slightly useless because I can't remember certain salient details

I wish I did. I don't usually have this sort of memory loss the morning after. I'm putting it down to some pills I took reacting with the alcohol! Annoying though!!

The first few approaches were just getting my feet wet and barely worth mentioning but i'll go through the night briefly anyway.

First approach was as I was ordering loads of cocktails at the bar, and there were 2 young hotties next to me. I opened them with some sort of situational opener about the drinks I was getting. Something like ''They look pretty good, huh?!!'' and smiled - but she barely responded and sort of looked away from me straight away (maybe some nervous laughter too?) like I was odd for talking to her without knowing her and since it was my first approach of the night I didn't feel comfortable enough to try to get her to talk back, and just decided she was a 'no girl' straight away, paid for my drinks and moved on.

Sitting with my friends at the table drinking our cocktails and a girl is talking to one of my friends (I assume he opened her) - A few seconds after she throws a comment in my direction, and then we fall into a little conversation. She's teasing me about my jewellery or something and called me ''Justin Bieber'' lol. We are chatting for a few minutes and I sense some possible attraction and at one point I try to initiate some physical contact by just touching her arm to emphasise a point which she backs away from and calls me out on it! She's like ''Whooaa!!'' (as if to say ''Who said you could touch me!?'') and backs away from me a few inches.

I don't overreact and I mimick her in a jokey way and also say ''Whooaa!! hashtag 'metoo'!'' which makes her laugh. We carry on talking for another minute or 2. All illogical chat about kareoke and alchohol or something. Her friends are all at the bar and she wants to join them and she ejects. I was never that into her so don't care.

Next set. This was one of the frustrating ones! I walk into a new bar and as I walk past the entrance, I kind of do some silly dance like i'm in a music video or something. As if the music took my body over the second I entered the bar.

Immediately I see a girl look at me and crack up laughing and kind of clap and she's basically calling me over with her body language and eye contact. I walk over too her smiling and say ''I saw you laughing at me! You're mean!! I hate you''. She says 'Nooo!!!! I loved your entrance!! I've been sitting her for an hour and you made the best entrance i've seen all night!!''.

We start chatting and I can sense heavy attraction instantly. Very rare for me. She's 29 (about my age) and she's pretty, although I tend to only go for much younger girls, but she's still hot. After a while her friends want to move too a different room in the bar and she tells me to come with her. I tell her I'll join her in a bit as i'm getting some beers with my mates.

About 15 minutes later I go into the different room and she's there and straight away signals me over. Flirty eye contact. We are talking again and at some point she asks me if I like her and also asks me if I'm single. She's clearly attracted. I'm being silly, but I show some intent with lots of eye contact and some light touching.

This is where I WISH I had a friggin microphone on me (not the for the first time that night if you read on!) because I don't remember how it happened, but that is basically where that interaction ended!

I can't remember if she got dragged off to dance or If I ran out of things to say, or if I got distracted! I was obviously a bit drunk. Not drunk in terms of slurring and being stupid, but drunk in terms of memory loss the following morning!! If I had to guess what happened, I think she got pulled away by one of her friends, and I decided to 'play it cool' and let her come back to me which never happened!! lol Just feels weird in hindsight. She seemed as into me as any of the other girls i've slept with this year!

So she's gone now, but within about 2 minutes, the hottest girl of the night strikes up a conversation with me and tells me that I look like the singer in a band she likes. This one is like 18 years old and close to exactly what I like!!

I pretend to know the band and soon we are kind of vibing. This one was weird because, AGAIN I somehow let her slip away, and even though I don't remember exactly how it happened, i THINK what happened was that I have this weird thing where if a girl shows interest in me first (especially a hot one), I tend to act very ALOOF! And even though mysterymethod is all about doing that and advises that, I find that when I do it, all that happens is that the girls dissappear! So i'm pretty sure she opened me, we chatted a little, and I simply didn't abide by the 90/10 rule (probably partly because of not knowing what to say but in this case, I think it was because of some internal block I have when it comes to talking to HOT girls who seem to show interest in me before I show it in them!!)

Now, she didn't show as much interest in me as the first girl to be honest, but even striking up a conversation with a guy is somewhat of an IOI in my experience. I mean, I guess I could be wrong and she was never into me (and in a weird way that'd please me because I wouldn't feel like I ;lost' her!) but I feel like there was some interest there.

It's a rule i've noticed over the years, but when a girl tells you you look like someone (an actor or a singer or an ex boyfriend or whatever) it's 'often' and IOI in my experience

After that there were just a few dancefloor approaches that I think were all insta-rejections.

Weird night. Usually my frustrating/bad nights are ones where I never get close to getting attraction, but I feel I had attraction at least once that night, but I failed to carry the interaction one way or another.

I'd pay good money to have that particular night on camera!