(freestylin' here)

Expecting women to be attracted to a guy who hasn't taken time to improve himself, built up a strong character, and handled his shit - is similar expecting guys to be attracted to fat, physically unappealing, bitchy women.

Either one is extremely ridiculous.

But some guys are so low value, that they'll jump on the body positivity band wagon in order to score beta-brownie points that they think can be exchanged for affection.

Conversely, woman will occasional poison drip, encouraging men to stray from the path, in order to secure them as a provider by limiting the guy's other options.

To put another way, if you expect to attract hot women, you need to work to make yourself attractive as a man. Don't ever stray from the path or put yourself second for a woman.