Not sure if this has been covered elsewhere but my friend and I 'developed' some tech that is assisting greatly in reducing flakes from day game.

Previously I observed a ridiculous flake rate on 'maybe' girls, and was able to improve it with some advice from this forum, especially /u/loveinthetimeofpuas.

But this idea makes things even better.

I was previously suggesting to girls that we have a drink some time at a nice bar / restaurant I know, and they would agree but then flake 90%+ of the time.

So I was talking to my homie about it and we thought, what if instead of proposing a date, at the close we either don't propose a date at all, or just suggest something innocuous as possible?

On the last few day sessions I have done this a mix of:

"This was fun.. let's swap contact details so we can keep talking later!"

OR

"This was fun.. let's get a cup of coffee during the week!"

And then later set up the coffee date over text. Thus far it is working a lot better than the conventional wisdom of trying to get the girl out onto a big proper date right away.

Once the coffee date has been had and she is feeling more relaxed, then the next date can be the real one where she meets Mr. Penis! :)

Well I guess this isn't rocket science but let me know if you have any similar strategies for making things smoother and getting her to think less of you as a 'stranger'..