So, my main girl and I are headed to Cabo San Lucas in a month for a vacation. Found a cheap package and I have been there before so I know it will be fun. (Yes, I am paying for it all because I fucked up and bet her on a bowling game to cover her half of the cost. Turns out she used to be in a college bowling league. Kind of weird but she's hot and that over rules the weirdness) Well, she is a light skinned black chick with all the curves and assets that a man wants. Here in SD, she wears a bikini with the elastic down the crack so the bottoms conforms to her ass and is smaller than a diaper bottom bikini. It's hot and not to revealling.

Well, we were looking at the places to see in Cabo and she tells me that she is going to get a thong bikini and wear it while down there. Granted, her ass looks good in a bikini so it wouldn't be offensive at all to anyone other than the women with flat asses and post wall.

When she told me that, I paused in disbelief and then sternly told her "no you're not". She, of course, asked me why. I didn't really have a logical answer to give her other than the age old "because I said so". In all truth, my insecurities and jealousy got the best of me and I don't want to have to constantly be worried about other dudes sniffing around when we are there. I'm sure she wouldn't fuck me over, but she does love the attention like all women. It would constantly eat at my emotions and ruin my vacation in my current state of mind.

So, I followed up with an ultimatum of she can keep her ass home if she thinks that is ever going to happen. So, she dropped it and haven't really noticed any change in attitude from her. It could be one of those things that adds to the fire of reasons to drop my ass in the future.

My questions are as follows:

  1. Should I allow her to wear the thong bikini on vacation in Mexico?
  • Our relationship is Redpill and my decision is final for both of us.

  1. Did I let my emotions cloud my judgement or did my internal emotions keep my chick in line with core values of "keep it classy and not slooty"?

  2. If yes to #1, how should I go about reversing this and disarming her hamster?

  3. Advise, other than "man up" and "quit being an insecure bitch", to help me keep my cool next time.

Thank TRP Community

Update 12/13: I appreciate all your guys input. I also talked to my dad who is 100% red pill. His answer was "so what's the problem?" Haha. I told her later that night that I didn't give it enough thought and that as long as we both are having a good time and a drink in our hand, I don't care if she wears a thing bikini as long as she was ok with us leaving the beach every 15 min so I can beat it up. She was all giddy and said that she is ok with that.

Shout out to: fnordsnord likestospooge83 NotQuiteRedPill

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