This is my first field report. Any advise on how to better structure or write future reports would be appreciated.

Field Report - 04-07-18

Nikki - number close

Single Mom. 5’9. 120lb. 34 years old. Worked as a stripper in her 20s now works as a waitress at a country club/golf club. Brunette, below shoulder length hair done up in a messy bun. Blue eyes, killer smile and great dimples. Girl next door vibe/looks. A solid 8 for Chicago (but a 9/10 for current location).

Cold approach with a false qualifier. “I know I’m to old for you, but you look like you can carry a conversation. So, mind if I sit down and see if I’m right?”

After hook point, told her I was going to grab my drink from the other end of the bar. Asked her to watch my phone and smokes while I grabbed my drink.

Kino escalation on my part included legs touching under the bar, a high five, touched her ear to get a closer look at her earrings, light touching to the upper arm.

Kino on her part included legs touching under the bar, punched my shoulder playfully, light touching to my forearm and upper arm.

After an hour we both ran out of smokes. Bar tender said there was a gas station on the corner. She offered to buy if I went to get them. Told her I can’t let her walk alone in this neighborhood but... made a deal, she bought our smokes and I had her give me her phone number in case she disappeared. Had her enter her number in my phone and call it. Confirmed number when her phone screen lit up.

When I returned (10 min tops) she was still sitting alone at the bar. To re-engage, I bought a pawn a shot (it was her birthday) and target asked me several questions like “who is she?” “how do you know her?” Target kept glancing a the pawn for the next few minutes as we talked and reconnected.

Closed the bar together (met her at 11 pm bar closed at 3 am). Told her I’d walk her to her car. She offers token resistance. “You don’t have too. I don’t want you to see how shitty my car is...”. Told her relax. How bad can it be... when leaving the bar, I put my hand at the small of her back but she stiffened up (slut defense kicked in while we were leaving bar together?) so I removed my hand and didn’t touch her again until outside.

Walked her to her car. I said, “man you weren’t kidding about your car...” she punched my shoulder playfully and asked which car was mine. Pointed to my car. She said “Fuck you...” and smiled.

Sent my regular nice to meet you/good night text. Will follow-up with her on Wednesday. I'll update whether she flakes or not...

Thx!

The Graymouser.