For those of you who have been following my escapades, from my last night solo clubbing to my lunchtime day gaming the cute volleyball chick with the booty, know that there was still more booty to be had.

I was leaving work and was going to get happy hour with co-workers, when I saw a 5’1 dirty blonde, fit, with such a popping booty under her yoga pants that I had to turn around. Literally the gravity caused by her perky booty pulled me in that I was lost in its orbit.

I use my same opener I always use - hi this is really random but I think you are really cute. She’s really friendly, is a talkative Italian, tells me about how she was recently dumped but it didn’t phase her. I told her this was so random and that her booty pulled me in, and then literally move to check out her booty over her shoulder. She takes it well. I honestly don’t really remember what we talked about funny enough, I just remember I was just myself, cracking jokes at things I would normally crack to, was goofy, acted like an angel as I was in front of the sun in her shad with the lights aura, etc.

I ask her what is she doing now, she says not much, I tell her let’s get drinks, but because I have to drive later to another city, I tell her I don’t have much fine, so we should just movie at her place and eat something. She’s like sure. I was totally surprised to her response honestly. I literally have been talking to her for like 5 mins and she’s willing to meet up at her place. So because of the time I say, you know what, let’s jist walk to hour place right now. So we do, and in the process I ask for her life story and so she tells me about what she’s been doing for the last 5 years. And as I said earlier, this girls Italian, so she knows how to talk. Like a lot. It’s cute though since there wasn’t a dull moment.

When we get to her place we don’t watch anything because we are too busy talking. She actually has a messed up childhood because of abusice oarents such that she raised her siblings. In the middle of it I just lean over and kiss when we are talking about the type of guys she’s into and how she tells me she’s into alpha male types. I did this probably about 3 times during the time we spent together.

Honestly, I am just proud that I just kept it to kissing with this girl. I mean, I was at her place, could totally have tried more than just kissing (most I did was kiss her neck), but I didn’t. I think it’s becsuse I was focusing on being the guy I aspire to be in my mind. The guy that’s cool and collected, but doesn’t need pussy. I feel lately that I have been falling into the trap of the “game” in where I am seeking validation from women, and I approach women even if I don’t find them attractive just for the sake of the game and the sake of thinking, yeah, another chick willing to give me her number.

I think by aspiring for this cool, collected version of myself, I am more likely to drive her wild, rather than being just another thirsty guy she slowly loses interest in. We have a second date at her place on Monday, where she’ll be making me a paleo dinner (she’s on the paleo diet) at her place where I’ll hahe a better chance of sleeping with her, but I’ll see if pursue that with her at that point, or just do more talking with kisses.