If a girl offers to pay for dinner, drinks etc. do you let her pay or do you always pay?

stumpdawg · 2018-04-22T16:23:11+00:00

It's 2018 she can pay if she wants to.

Propano · 2018-04-22T16:27:20+00:00

Gender equality.

ImJustSo · 2018-04-22T16:31:57+00:00

If I say, "No, I've got it" I really don't want an argument about it. So if they do it, then I don't argue about it.

My respect for a woman instantly increases, if they offer. I'm not going to challenge her on something that raised my respect.

jberg547 · 2018-04-22T16:26:30+00:00

Yeah let her pay, I’ll save money

GuyFromDaStore · 2018-04-22T17:18:31+00:00

If she insists on paying its likely you didn't do well on the date and she wants to pay to not be obligated for any further possible romantic stuff. So the outcome isn't good, grasshopper.

fortunefavorsdabold · 2018-04-23T01:20:13+00:00

I offer once. If she insists, I let her and say ok ill get the next one. Or if i feel cocky ill say "ok ill get breakfast"

Gohan98 · 2018-04-23T13:36:56+00:00

I'm a F22 and what I do is that I offer to pay if I really like him or pay half if I like him.

I only ask twice, and after the 2nd time he's like no it's okay I go it, then I'll respect his decision and thank him for the thoughtful gesture. Sometimes it can be annoying to the guy if the girl is so focus that she can pay, take care of herself, doesn't need a man, etc. That can be pretty much a turn off and annoying tbh. Just some advice for the ladies who are unsure what to do.

Sometimes I end up paying, sometimes I don't. It only takes asking two times to be sure that he is sure.

hunterpua · 2018-04-23T16:07:26+00:00

You let her pay. The more she invests in you the more she values you. Even a monetary investment counts.

2018-04-22T16:27:27+00:00

In my experience most are doing it to be polite, if you let them pay chances are their will be no follow up date.

Title	If a girl offers to pay for dinner, drinks etc. do you let her pay or do you always pay?
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Date	April 22, 2018 4:19 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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