Hey. Love this sub.
I am in a new city for a few weeks, and I want to go to the bars/clubs. I don't drink, and I don't do drugs. I feel SUPER weird going to a bar/club alone and some bars seem more like sit down places some are standing shows. Not sure how to find the right place.
I went out tonight and I walked into a bar I have never been to and I went to the bar and I just felt weird like people were staring. Also, there was no way I could approach anyone as they were all with groups... idk...
I feel so weird at a bar... like it feels so obvious that I don't fit in because I'm drinking water and just chilling. It's hard to get momentum or move forward.
When I am with friends, it's like Boom. I can break off and always come back to them. I have someone to talk to when bored, and we can make plans together.
I have no idea what it is. It's weird to even enter a bar with no other purpose.
TL;DR;
How do I
- Find the right bars/clubs to meet girls?
- Not feel awkward drinking water at a bar scouting for girls to meet?
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