I find that when talking to a girl, I'm too serious. I once read an askreddit post where women said that a man who knows what they're talking about regardless of the subject is hot, and I've seen this idea expeessed by a lot of women friends I know irl. There's a particular girl I want to talk to (oneitis I know but I've been eyeing her for a while and she showed strong signs of attraction almost every time I've soken tomher seriously)and I don't want to come off as a booknerd except without the glasses, copious amounts of pimples, and overalls. How do I become more loose and fun when talking to girls?