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[–]billiam632 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You make a lot of assumptions here and I am wondering why you are dong that? Why do you think you are overbearing? What is the problem with predictability after 2 months? Why are you worried about exclusivity? Why you do you feel like you two should be texting more?
None of these things can be answered by anyone on here. It is all up to her. Honestly I suggest you bring it up to her. As long as you can bring it up in a non-needy way, it should be fine.
[–]The_Reddit_Jester 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Each person is different. I wouldn't let it get to you too much about things like texting frequency, who brings up exclusivity, etc.
I'm in a relationship now, but I remember when casually dating and failing, I was wondering the same shit like how often to text (because I get needy and clingy if I like someone a lot), how often to see each other, when to talk about exclusivity (never did because it was all short term), etc.
Ultimately, it all happens naturally and isn't stuff you should worry about so much. It's easy to say that now that I'm in a relationship, but I'm going to try to keep this mindset even if this relationship ends in the future.
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