The one bit of advice I can give guys is this - Know the girl before texting her. This means what it means, from my experience and talking with girls they don't really care/like if a random guy texts her. Some will ignore and some will text back but they're texting back 10 or 20 as well. There's no need to compete in a losing battle. You may think you're the most attractive thing around, but chances are she was talking to someone longer who is as just as attractive. This is more Facebook than Tinder because honestly I find Tinder pointless in less populated towns. You might get some action in cities if you're lucky, but even then the girls are getting SO many messages.

I knew this girl she was pretty. I got her Snapchat etc in person and texted her. She texted back and we went back and forth for months. It didn't work out in the end but turns out she liked me. Now, this girl is a 7/10 or a 8/10 easily. She was beautiful. Now, if I didn't know her and texted her do you think she would've texted back? God no. I even saw her messages and dudes send so many and they were left on unopen and or read. She only texted me back because she knew me in person.

Guys, girls admire the confidence of going for what you want in real life. Your approach alone will increase your attractiveness if done right. Going up to a girl and making her laugh etc is a lot harder than sending them a message online "Hey" and they know that.

I'm not shitting on texting texting is great. I advanced relationships with it, but they all knew who I was. They all replied because they wanted to because they knew who I was. I was ahead of the other 20 guys because they knew me. That gave me the chance to flirt and work on her....And use the good stuff in person. So yes, take that as you will. Texting someone that knows you will always be better. In person will always be better to get someone.

As for the girl I mentioned it didn't work out because she had a boyfriend. It didn't stop her from getting feelings for me but I thought I was going too far and I don't mess with cheaters so I ditched. Still, the amount of progress you can make in real life is crazy. Just get out there and look good. You'll get them you just need to man up and talk to them. They know a good catch when they see one. Leave this unknown texting game to the boys and let the men go out and get those women.

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