Girl being flaky, how do I react?

BPasFuck · 2014-12-20T14:00:56+00:00

Next her for now.

If she comes back around on some other occasion, set a date. Something low cost, and kind of obvious, like: 'My place. Bring a movie, and some beer.'

If she flakes or doesn't go for it-- no big loss-- you can next her again. What's happening right now is she's more than likely chasing some other option. Which is fine. You should do likewise.

If she comes back-- that's cool-- you don't have to turn down a chick, just because she thought she could do better.... but you'd be a fool to spend a pile of money on her, or to try and do something that would require any logistics at all. Fuck that. Just tell her to come over, (with a movie so she has a little bit of an excuse) and see what happens.

fnordsnord · 2014-12-20T15:53:29+00:00

Soft next. Radio silence unless she contacts you. Then movie night at your place and escalate.

She's gotten a better offer someplace. Flaky in a woman is always a sign of HER abundance mentality. There's another dude who's more interesting for some reason. When she gets tired of him or he won't come across with an LTR on her schedule, she may be back around.

But chasing her will cement you as an unworthy beta.

So next.

slcjosh · 2014-12-20T19:19:54+00:00

Next. If she reaches out again later give her an other chance. But you go no contact.

[deleted] · 2014-12-21T10:26:49+00:00

The medium is the message. If she wanted to be dating you, she'd be dating you.

Title	Girl being flaky, how do I react?
Author	FD32
Upvotes	2
Comments	7
Date	December 20, 2014 1:50 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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