Why to never double text. 2 very different examples. 3 and 1 day waits.

Sudohawk · 2018-05-16T03:52:32+00:00

So two very different results. One I met in person, the other off tinder. The one I met in person was a very cute blue eyed blonde (both were actually). 28 years old. Had her masters, made good money. I texted her 2 days after meeting her and she hit me back up kind of unexpectedly excited the next day. I texted her back a few hours later because I was pretty busy and she still hasn’t got back to me. In all honesty, I hate these games but I guess it is “a game”.

The second one just happened. Really cute 23 yr old getting her masters that I matched with on tinder. She would’ve been my first tinder date and we had been talking for the last 2 weeks. She couldn’t go on a date on the first upcoming Friday and pushed it 2 weeks out. She said she was a busy lady since she just got back from teaching in Japan but I figured she just had a ton of dates already lined up. Her texts went from hours to a day and the last communication took her 3 days to respond. I really liked this chick so I’m bummed out because I remember checking my phone a few times to specifically check if she texted back yet. I hope she comes back around but I’m not gonna sweat it if she doesn’t.

Point of the post is to be patient. If she’s interested, she’ll get back to you. If she’s a decent human, she’ll at least tell you she’s not interested. Either way, don’t seem desperate with the double text.

Does anyone have “texting game”? I hate these long add drawn out exchanges.

hunter32tz · 2018-05-16T04:44:26+00:00

I’d say my texting game is pretty good. I’ve grew up around this shit (honestly I’d rather go back to the 90s where smartphones didn’t dominate people’s lives) but I’ve learned to use it to my advantage. I probably had my first smartphone when I was 14? 15 maybe.

Those long, drawn-out messages that seemingly go nowhere are actually very important. It may not seem like much to guys (it’s just a fucking text), but you need to understand that girls are absolutely GLUED to their phones. It’s an integral source of validation and trust for them.

So building rapport and even small talk over text shows the girl that, basically, you aren’t a creep. Give them a reason to at least think you’re not clingy or creepy. You seem to be doing fine though, man. Keep it up. I’ve lost count on how many times I’ve been ghosted or left on read. The first couple times it happens sucks, but I honestly am indifferent to outcomes now. You have to be desensitized to some degree if you don’t want oneitis.

Aristox · 2018-05-16T14:21:50+00:00

This doesn't actually show why to not double text.

Am i missing something? It's just two screenshots of you texting once. There's no shots of you double texting. Wish you the best of luck, but this post doesn't add anything

Title	Why to never double text. 2 very different examples. 3 and 1 day waits.
Author	Sudohawk
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	May 16, 2018 3:43 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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