How do I ask a girl I already know and if I should

bluntsmoker_420 · 2018-05-17T07:46:37+00:00

I think if you really like the girl it is worth it, maybe ask her somewhere outside of work. Honestly it is better to deal with rejection than to have to deal with a “what if” all the time.

SimplePickup5 · 2018-05-17T13:00:04+00:00

> everytime I think about doing it I get held back because I actually had 1. A girl who used to work there reject me, which worked out 100 percent fine and I am still friends with today.

Ok, so that's not an objection.

> 2. And this is the one, I had a horrible falling out with a girl I also dated there, not gonna go unti details but it goes way beyond even just general awkwardness. The issue at hand is both the social stigma of being a guy who asks out all his co workers (there are a lot that I don't though, of course) and the fact that it burnt me.

So it got sexual and you couldn't get it hard? Big deal.

This doesn't sound like a career, it sounds like a job. Any time you get involved with people at work, you risk something escalating and possibly losing your job over it. If you're ok with this possibility (as you evidently already are), just go for it, assuming you have a reasonable crush on her.

And don't date online.

hunterpua · 2018-05-17T17:48:47+00:00

Ask a bunch of co-workers to do something outside work and include all the girls you could be interested in. That way you create a relationship with them that doesn't involve your job and if you decide to zero in on one girl, you won't be asking out a co-worker, you'll be asking out a friend.

I mean, HR will still see it as co-workers going on dates but the people in your office that you go out with regularly will not see it that way.

Title	How do I ask a girl I already know and if I should
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Date	May 17, 2018 4:51 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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