Want to ask a girl out, but I'm being a coward. Give me some motivation to just do it

RomanDad · 2018-05-21T19:42:11+00:00

Stop being a pussy. Do it already.

Dernuld_Trumpet · 2018-05-21T19:47:22+00:00

Trust me, even if she says no it will be better than the 'what if I did ask her out' that will be in your mind in the future if you dont

A definite answer is better than an uncertainty even if it hurts

tab13092 · 2018-05-21T20:36:40+00:00

I used to be this way too, not so much that I was afraid of rejection but I was worried about what others would think.

In my mind, I tricked myself in to believing people would see me as desperate for some reason.

Eventually, I wired it in my brain to simply just stop giving any fucks about how others viewed me.

Now, if I want to ask a chick out I simply ask her out. If she says no, then I don't really care all that much.

Just gotta do it dude. As anyone will say, being turned down is better then not taking a shot at all.

ABetaBoy · 2018-05-22T00:00:56+00:00

You and everybody you know will be dead within the next two centuries. Furthermore, humanity will die out in due time, and you will literally become as insignificant as your shit and piss in the long run. What is your fear in comparison to the fear of a rabbit being hunted by lion? To the fear felt by someone on the sinking titanic, who struggles to escape as their room fills up with water, only to know they will suffocate to death? What is the pain of rejection in comparison to the pain felt by medieval men subject to the most brutal forms of torture? Stop being a bitch. This is the most fucked up thing I have ever written.

oyoungpadawan · 2018-05-21T20:04:59+00:00

Yeah man I had a oneitis again last year, overthinking in my head forever.

When I finally asked she rejected me HARD (she wasn't even that hot, no need for her to be this rude). One of the hardest rejections I've ever had lol.

But my head was no longer in the clouds, and I was able to get with some other girls after this.

Rip off the bandaid.

Next time do it sooner, the sooner you do it the fewer it hurts.

Title	Want to ask a girl out, but I'm being a coward. Give me some motivation to just do it
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Date	May 21, 2018 7:39 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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