Driving - saw a girl

WIA20XX · 2018-06-04T20:09:52+00:00

Be less thirsty. Pulling over would be cringey and creepy.

Sometimes you've got to let some chicks slide.

Vegeta878 · 2018-06-04T19:15:51+00:00

Sell your car, buy a good bike

You're welcome bro

TravonM · 2018-06-05T01:19:46+00:00

It would look needy if you think it looks needy. If you don't think it's needy, then it won't be needy. It's all about your frame and what you believe. Whatever you feel the girl will feel.

Personally, I doubt I would've pulled over because it's super unnecessary. There are so many women around I rarely go out of my way to meet them. However, if I felt like doing it I would do it. It's better to go for it and get rejected than to have the regret wondering "what if". You never know until you try.

kidnetworth · 2018-06-05T04:48:06+00:00

Don’t over think it. If you see a cute girl that you would like to get to know then do just that, there is no need to rationalize the situation. I mean if you were gonna be late for work and pulling over to get this girls number could jeopardize your job THEN DONT PULL OVER, otherwise whats stopping you from pulling over and getting her number? I’ll tell you what! The exact thing that you are trying to conquer ‘Fear of judgement from others’

hunterpua · 2018-06-05T15:22:40+00:00

I've done that.

I saw a girl coming out of a dorm building on the other side of the street. We made eye contact, I smiled and waved, she smiled and waved back. So I parked my car across her building, got down, crossed the road and went to talk to her. Got her number a few minutes later, went back into my car, drove off to the beach where I was meeting my friends and told them the funny story of why I was a little late.

Obviously this is a direct approach.

Now the main question you must have is how do you go that direct and not be seen as needy? The easiest way to understand this is by looking at the word itself. "Needy" root word "Need". The key with direct game is to show a woman you want her but you don't need her. An easy way to think about it is by imagining the difference between not eating for 2 days, being famished and just needing to eat anything to feel better vs. going out to dinner at a restaurant and when you've finished the meal just wanting to have their molten chocolate cake. It'll kinda suck if they're all out but it won't be a disaster unlike if you don't find food after 2 days of not eating.

When you show her that you really want her but know deep in your heart that if she isn't into it you'll be chill about it then your direct game will skyrocket.

Title	Driving - saw a girl
Author	Kornell2018
Upvotes	3
Comments	6
Date	June 4, 2018 6:54 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/8ojufe/driving_saw_a_girl/
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