Should I go out with the express intent of talking to girls?

Frankiedmnd · 2018-06-16T02:02:05+00:00

I don't think intentionally going out of your way to hunt girls is the right way. Maybe walk to your destinations more if your going somewhere local. Like with all the stuff you say you do you gotta pass by some kind of females. I feel like going out for only that purpose would cause more nerves then necessary and prolly just discourage you. I don't think it's that you don't run into women I think it's that you don't take the opportunities that come about.

recyclablebanthas · 2018-06-16T06:32:17+00:00

Should I go out with the express intent of talking to girls?

I think it's better to go out with intention of observing and taking in the world around you. Consider what David Wygant has to say on this. Observation is a strong basis for interacting with people. It allows you to connect strongly with people and kind of get inside their heads almost instantly.

So you start by enjoying the world around you and observing it all, taking it all in. Then drop comments about what you observe. Starting off easy, you'd be commenting to yourself, then as you up the difficulty curve, you would start making eye contact with people as you comment, with no expectation of conversation. Some people will start biting at the hook even at this point.

Upping the difficulty again would involve just opening people based off of what you've observed.

Twobithatter · 2018-06-16T06:43:22+00:00

I’ll honestly admit that I do that. I might go to mall and walk around with no intent on buying anything. Just walking around looking for a pretty girl to approach. All honestly, if I didn’t do that I wouldn’t know the girls I do now, plus it’s good practice. Even earlier I went to buy groceries and kept in mind that I would approach a pretty girl when I saw one. So I don’t see nothing bad in it.

Title	Should I go out with the express intent of talking to girls?
Author	Sexythrow9017
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	June 16, 2018 1:55 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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