I am an average looking, Indian, 26 year old engineer. I work for a small company with 120 people and really few women (about 7) in suburbs of Detroit. I workout and meal prep, so I eat my lunches mostly at work. The only time I get to meet new people is over the weekends when I go out in the night. I’m comfortable going and having a conversation with anyone during that time (thanks to the sub).

My problem is the number of people that I interact on a daily basis to develop the game, I think that isn’t enough. I have been doing it for couple of months and nothing changed, I had few dates and lays but I’m not happy about the overall situation.

Is anyone in the same situation? If yes what did you do to make it better?

Update (07/21): I went out in the morning to a coffee shop to talk to someone. I sat in the couch to the corner of the shop and started reading a book. This cute Asian women walked into the coffee shop and sat on a table, I got really anxious by the thought of going and speaking to her. I tried giving reasons to not go and talk, I told myself we didn’t have eye contact (which was true) but I should have still approached her but I didn’t. I walked out of the coffee shop after reading for a while and drove back home.