I feel like I'm so close, yet so far. Need some tips on how to escalate!

MarTweFah · 2018-07-21T13:05:47+00:00

Open the two of them, gravitate to the one you're into, if she's into you her friend will let you escalate, if she's not her friend will pull her away.
Ask her if she wants to go outside for air. Ask her if she wants a drink or even water. Ask her if she wants a smoke.

judahman8 · 2018-07-21T17:33:22+00:00

You should do your best to stay away from places where they don't have somewhere you can talk. If you are stuck in a loud club then a lot of the times you can escalate on the dance floor and makeout. To talk to her alone just go to the bar or something and talk in her ear. Make sure you keep eye contact even when you lean in to talk in her ear. It feels like you are about to kiss every time you lean in and it leads to a kiss almost everytime because of the tension.

You can't really single girls out if they are with a friend because they wouldn't want to leave their friend alone. This is where a wing man can really help you out a lot. I'll try to pull both girls in that situation and start a little love triangle. Dance with both of them at the same time and encourage them to do things like kiss eachother or just be all over eachother.

This works great because you can bounce really easily if they both like you and you even if you can only talk to one girl at a time because of the noise you can just ask say everything twice to each of them. Also every time you talk to the other girl it acts almost like a natural push pull which allows you to show as much interest as you want without trying to balance it out, as long as you go back and fourth between them.

A lot of the time you can get set up a threesome or one of the girls will back down but will be kind enough to just sit in the other room while you have sex. Then after you can all hang out again and they will most likely leave together and leave you alone to get some sleep.

You can also go for sets of 3 or more girls and its easier to single one out.

DarkArtsPUA11 · 2018-07-21T16:39:16+00:00

There’s two problems with this. The first is that most likely you are not high value and are the same as any other loser that is approaching her in the club. There’s no reason for her to treat you differently. Therefore you get the default response when you want to isolate her: “sorry I can’t leave my friends”. Second problem is out of your control and that’s the circumstances. If the girl is socially conditioned to avoid being isolated at bars, you will fail. It’s apart of your screening process to screen out prude and unavailable girls

Second problem you can’t fix, it’s apart of screening and rolling through the numbers. First problem is fixable. If you aren’t a high value man expect to be blown the fuck out, it’s that simple. If your routine is to roll up cold to the hot girl, start talking, and hope she complies with you, then you will be disappointed. Doesn’t work like that. You aren’t offering anything of value. Again, you are just like all the other losers that approach her throughout the night

Title	I feel like I'm so close, yet so far. Need some tips on how to escalate!
Author	BavidDrent
Upvotes	1
Comments	11
Date	July 21, 2018 12:26 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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