I met a girl on Friday and I’m not sure what happened

herculesuprising · 2018-07-22T18:14:08+00:00

If the girl is drunk, high and reciprocates kino enthusiastically, she just wants it man. You could have gone for the kiss on that occasion. She probably dried up because of your indecisiveness.

The flat out yes was a good attempt on her shit test, but apparently a wrong one. Maybe, no, I want you to take me to your room right now would have worked better. But I think it was already a lost cause because faster escalation was demanded.

Cheers

Nicks1234 · 2018-07-22T18:41:41+00:00

Hey man so based on this story it definitely seems like you were way too passive. What happens when you wait too long to make a move is the girl starts to view you either as a friend or as someone who is not confident enough to go for what he wants. Both equally as bad for your cause. When you wait too long to make your intentions clear and then eventually go for it, it becomes weird for the girl because she has already pegged you as a "friend" or she has at least lost attraction for you. This could definitely explain her change in vibe towards you.

I definitely respect your attempt to stay the night with her but you definitely made the move too late.

As far as future advice goes, I would start working on making your intentions clear from the very start. This can only really work in your favor because girls love direct confident guys. Also, you can gauge her reaction and determine whether or not she is into it. As you get more advanced there are alternatives to this but as a starting point I think a great rule of thumb is to make your intentions clear within the first 30 seconds. This will prevent you from wasting your time talking to a girl that isn't even somewhat interested in you. Plus it will get rid of that awkward tension in the back of your mind that comes with making your intentions clear, which you will eventually have to do if you ever want to hook up or pull a girl. The longer you wait the more awkward it becomes for you. You will definitely have an easier time meeting a girl who finds your directness attractive VS. meeting a girl who finds your passiveness attractive.

I hope this was helpful man. If you are interested I just wrote an article on how to go for a kiss at night that I feel you will definitely get some value out of. http://myeasyconfidence.com/how-to-kiss-a-girl-you-just-met.

Also if anyone reading this ever has a question or simply wants to run a problem by me, please feel encouraged to email me at [email protected], I am here to help

Title	I met a girl on Friday and I’m not sure what happened
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Date	July 22, 2018 5:04 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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