If you are talking to a girl that you want to make out with, you are eventually going to have to go for it or make your intentions clear.

This can be such a nerve-racking moment.

And this gets much harder the longer you put it off.

PRO TIP: Let the girl know your intentions within the first 30 seconds of meeting her.

You need to set the tone that “I am attracted to you” from the very start. This can be done in a countless number of ways:

-Tell her she’s cute -Touch her -You can even straight up tell her “I am going to kiss you by the time this conversation is over” – This one is a little more ballsy. These examples are so powerful because they:

-Serve as a tension ice-breaker -Allow you to immediately get over the awkwardness of advancing in the future- because she already knows you are attracted to her. -You can sort of gauge her interest by her response.

If she gets uncomfortable, stops making eye-contact and/or starts giving you one-word responses, she might not be interested – Move on to the next girl.

If she laughs or even if she just sticks around after – you can assume she is at least somewhat interested. What all of these examples do is tell the girl that you are NOT interested in just being friends.

I promise you if you make your intentions clear from the very start, it will be a million times easier to make a move later on.

Ok so now that the girl knows you are interested in her and she is still talking to you, it’s time to make the next step… Going for the kiss!

There are seriously a million ways you can do this but I have outlined my absolute favorite and most successful strategy.

This strategy is something I call Magic Arms.

This is where you are talking to the girl and you take her arms and put them on your shoulders. This is one of the easiest ways to gauge a girls interest while creating so much sexual tension.

This creates so much sexual tension because it automatically closes the gap between you and the girl and your faces will be right in front of each other.

-If she pulls away or doesn’t want to do it, just go back to talking and try again in a few minutes.

-If she keeps denying this attempt, it’s pretty safe to assume she isn’t interested but use your best judgment here.

When you are in this position, what I like to do is create a story between us to lead up to the kiss. Feel free to copy this or create your own.

** You don’t need to create a story, I just like to. You can sit there and talk about the most boring shit in the world and have it still be fun because of the Magic Arms position.**

Here we go:

I grab the girls arms and put them on my shoulders (I then usually put both my hands on her lower back like we are slow dancing)

Me: Ok, serious question time… Are you a cat or a dog person?

Her: Doesn’t matter what she says because you can just play along with either. (Let’s pretend she says dogs – which they usually do)

Me: Ok, so when we get married we’re going to get a dog together… But you’re going to have to walk the dog 6 days a week. (I like to make the request a little unreasonable so that she argues back a little).

Her: No way! I’ll walk the dog 3 days a week and you get the other 4 days.

Me: Well the problem here is that I am obviously going to be the dogs favorite… so you are going to need the extra bonding time.

Chances are the conversation won’t be exactly like this (it will be similar enough for you to know what to expect) but you can just play around with what she says

What you say doesn’t really matter that much because the position you are in will do all the talking for you.

At any point in the conversation if you notice she has strong eye-contact take your hand and put it behind her head and go in for the kiss.

You can also place your pointer and middle finger under her chin and slightly lift her head up while you go in for the kiss.

KEEP IN MIND: When you are using Magic Arms, you don’t need a reason or trick to kiss her. You can use it and talk about anything. Just keep notice of when she is giving you strong eye contact and then go for the kiss.

I hope this was helpful for some of you guys.

Also if anyone reading this ever has a question or simply wants to run a problem by me, please feel encouraged to email me at [email protected], I am here to help. Good luck players