I am going to start this post to disillusion some of you new seekers from common myths that will save you a huge amount of time and effort and clear up some common misconceptions.

Every single thing written will reflect my experiences, observations and insight; at no point do I claim absolute, universal validity as this is not possible in life, especially in regards to any human interactions.

Often there are two sides to game discussions:

1.) the fundamentals or basics

  1. game (including inner game)

  2. You are often told to up your "social value" or "max out your looks and style" or something similar. Often this is referred to as the basics or fundamentals- hit the gym, dress stylish, maybe make more money, etc.

Starting with an example:

Where I live (Las Vegas) you see guys flossing, spending money in clubs not even making moves on women. Here is the example, this comes from my life many times over. Often the best dressed most stylish guys are Asian-American guys where I live. They have expensive stylish clothes. In addition, they are often very swole from the gym and often have good, high-paying jobs as well. Also, they frequent nightclubs and other places good for gaming girls (supposedly).

However, Asian-American guys out here are simply NOT killing the game. And this is an indisputable fact.

Now, this example is not meant to offend any Asian person, as half my siblings are Asian, but here is the major point and it will tie everything together:

Cultural and social factors are EVERYTHING when it comes to game, romance, relationships, etc.

Since in our culture Asian men often have negative, anti-sexual stereotypes directed at them- many sheeple give into this belief and will not see him as a potential sexual partner.

There is no way to "max out your metrics" this is not an economic decision, when a woman wants to fuck you or be with you.

I am not saying this guy is not smashing Asian chicks, but some other ethnicity would literally never give him a chance because of preconceived ideas.

I am going to tell you the truth- stop focusing on external things that will never convince a woman to want to fuck you.

She has to think of you as sexually attractive and the way to do this is to play your demographics to your advantage. and if your demographic does not contain the type of women you want then you will have to make the hard decision to change who you are.

A matador gets tons of women in Spain. A UFC fighter does here in Vegas. but that is not the end of the story. There is a demographic for YOU, but you have to find it.

If your hobbies are cos-play there's hot chicks that are with that nowadays.

But if your hobby is playing WOW and not doing shit with your life then why on earth would you expect to attract women?

Stop blaming women, be a guy with any type of purpose, and then within that social world you will have great appeal as you will be doing your own thing intentionally and women will just like that, because they are into it and want a man they can relate to and vibe with.

It is really that simple.

If you are into yoga genuinely not to get chicks and then they relate to you on that subject- you are guaranteed women.

That's just a random example.

These are not simply "mindsets" or "inner game" (although that is very valuable) these are practical life changes you can make. Find something you're into that women either:

A. are into as well

B. like men that are into it.

And if you say. "no bro, I'm going to keep being me!"

ask yourself is that working? If not, then ask yourself is this life worth my sexless existence?

If so, ok more power to you, but if not, then stop making excuses, and start changing.

Most guys on here are pretty young, listen guys it is totally acceptable and healthy to change a lot in your 20s, go down a route that will make you happy, because you will have purpose AND women that way.

Final step (most important)

It doesn't matter who the fuck you are if you don't talk to women once you're in these settings. So, you must have no AA- just keep trying!

game is that simple:

  1. go into demographics where you have value (find it if you don't already- I'm guessing many do not)
  2. don't be a slob
  3. talk to the women there!

Good luck. One love