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Fuck
/r/seduction23/10/18 04:21 AM
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Because having sex is normal, most people do it, you're not gonna feel special just because you did it. You might feel like shit if you can't because it feels like everyone else can and there's something wrong with you or you're inferior to them.
/r/seduction22/10/18 11:25 PM
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Nah dude not trying to become a PUA. It was a lapse of judgement, I know how to talk to women.
/r/seduction27/09/18 04:35 PM
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True nothing wrong with some optimism. Maybe I'll just go to Panera a little more than usual.
/r/seduction27/09/18 04:26 PM
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I know man, live and learn but it's frustrating. Just such a wasted opportunity. How often does a cute girl just start talking to you randomly. All the women I've been meeting in my classes have been lame, I finally meet a cool one and fuck it up.
/r/seduction27/09/18 04:19 PM
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Never trying is failing
/r/seduction27/09/18 04:08 PM
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Pretty much any date would be fun with the right girl.
/r/seduction27/09/18 03:59 PM
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Thx
/r/seduction07/08/18 08:48 PM
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That's always a possibility with any girl tbh
/r/seduction07/08/18 04:07 PM
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Timing can matter. Or maybe it just wasn't quite a match idk. No way I want to let her date someone else before I try. I'm not gonna play games. I like her and I want to date her and she needs to know that.
/r/seduction07/08/18 03:45 PM
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Seduction is not exclusive to hookups, what? Even if you're just trying to hook up with a girl. Pretending to be someone else is pathetic.
/r/seduction07/08/18 02:48 PM
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Read Models by Mark Manson. If you're willing to put in the effort. This book can give you some direction on how to change.
/r/seduction07/08/18 02:08 PM
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I'm attracted to a girl, she's single now and I wanna do something about it. How does that make me a creeper? I'm not going to try to be someone else, that's needy. If she doesn't like me for me, then I don't want to date her.
/r/seduction07/08/18 02:05 PM
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Not really. I distanced myself when I found out she had a boyfriend because I really liked her. Not worth the trouble. We see each other through mutual friends occasionally though. I have her snap, but I haven't messaged her in months.
/r/seduction07/08/18 01:38 PM
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Yeah I figured, but how long?
/r/seduction07/08/18 01:09 PM
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Ask her out directly.
/r/seduction07/08/18 01:04 PM
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Don't use lines. Tell her why you decided to approach her. Be genuine.
/r/seduction02/08/18 02:11 AM
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A high value man doesn't put any woman on a pedestal.
/r/seduction01/08/18 06:33 PM
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I'd just move on unless she follows up with you.
/r/seduction01/08/18 06:13 PM
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Clickbait much? There's no cure for social anxiety, just ways to manage it.
/r/seduction01/08/18 05:56 PM
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Leave it at that. Sounds like a rejection, but the ball is in her court.
/r/seduction01/08/18 05:53 PM
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Just say it. If they don't like you for who you are, why would you even want to talk to them.
/r/seduction01/08/18 05:12 PM
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How you carry yourself is important. Also what you talk about. Not the specific words, but where it comes from. A girl can tell if you're genuinely talking about something that interests you, or asking questions for the purpose of getting to know her vs. saying things to pull her attention and impress her. You can and should integrate seduction techniques like push and pull into this. However, not for the purpose of making her like you but for building attraction that naturally exists.
/r/seduction01/08/18 04:28 PM
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I believe in game. It can work. But spewing lines you read on the internet is not game.
/r/seduction01/08/18 03:32 PM
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The material is irrelevant. Stop trying to impress her. Women can smell BS from a mile away.
/r/seduction01/08/18 03:18 PM
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The difference is one of them is building attraction by being genuine and the other is building attraction by being fake. He defines neediness as putting others' opinions of you over your opinion of yourself. Pretending to be someone else in the hopes that you can con someone into liking you is the definition of needy. You're so focused on being someone that they like, that you don't stop to think about what type of girl you would like to have. After all, if she doesn't like you for you, what's …
/r/seduction01/08/18 01:53 PM
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How is it the same as using routines? Routines isn't you saying what you want to talk about or learn about her. It's saying what you think she wants to hear. Not genuine in the slightest.
/r/seduction01/08/18 12:58 PM
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His main point is to be genuine. Do you want to touch her and build attraction? Does she want to be touched? If so, in what sense is it a performance or in any way not genuine? Notice how I said build attraction, not make her attracted.
/r/seduction01/08/18 12:55 PM
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Blue is a really safe color that adds some spice to your wardrobe. Start with that.
/r/seduction01/08/18 12:49 PM
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I actually just read the chapter on neediness last night. He specifically says performance is needy because you don't think your own personality is good enough so you fake another one in the hopes that she'll like it. It's the illusion of non-neediness which crumbles quickly as she gets to know you. One of his theoretical scenarios covers this. I would read this chapter again if I were you because I don't think you 100% got the message.
/r/seduction01/08/18 12:43 PM
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Just ignore him and maybe he'll go away.
/r/seduction01/08/18 12:41 PM
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I mean I regretted it and gave myself shit for a while, but got over it pretty much as soon as I found another girl.
/r/seduction01/08/18 12:40 PM
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Don't respond to the troll guys. He posts this like 4 times a day.
/r/seduction01/08/18 10:03 AM
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Judging by the way you write, I'm gonna guess you mean senior in high school. In which case, what are you even doing here? Anyways, you obviously have no respect for this girl. Leave her alone.
/r/seduction01/08/18 02:49 AM
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My most brutal rejection by far was from myself when I never asked.
/r/seduction01/08/18 02:37 AM
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You're probably talking to the wrong type of girls. Bars and clubs are mostly filled with a certain type of girl. If that's not your type, then you won't get very far because you'll have to be fake to attract them. Don't go places or do things just because you'll meet girls there. Go places and do things because you enjoy them and you'll naturally meet girls with common interests.
/r/seduction01/08/18 02:29 AM
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In that case, you're probably a 14 year old on Xbox live.
/r/seduction01/08/18 02:24 AM
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do or do not, there is no try
/r/seduction31/07/18 07:50 PM
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There is no better insult in this situation. It's the word that most accurately describes the way you're acting.
/r/seduction31/07/18 07:41 PM
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Jesus dude
/r/seduction31/07/18 06:46 PM
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Lack of attraction is nobody's fault. Get over yourself dude. You sound like such an incel.
/r/seduction31/07/18 05:43 PM
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This dude is a troll who's been spamming these forums for days. Don't entertain him.
/r/seduction31/07/18 05:35 PM
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This dude has been spamming nonstop. Don't entertain him.
/r/seduction31/07/18 05:34 PM
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Goddamn dude, swallow your pride. Who gives a shit? You're offended by mutual disinterest?
/r/seduction31/07/18 05:03 PM
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So how long til you delete and repost?
/r/seduction31/07/18 04:18 PM
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You're spamming the same posts over and over, begging for validation. It's pathetic. Stop.
/r/seduction31/07/18 04:14 PM
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Please stop...
/r/seduction31/07/18 04:07 PM
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Who let the incel in?
/r/seduction31/07/18 04:00 PM
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Those are good hobbies, but don't require you to leave your home. You need a social hobby that gets you out of your house and forces you to interact with people.
/r/seduction31/07/18 03:47 PM
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True. I'll give it a try. Thanks bro
/r/seduction31/07/18 03:35 PM
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How long before he deletes it this time? Taking all bets.
/r/seduction31/07/18 03:27 PM
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I saw this exact post yesterday lol
/r/seduction31/07/18 03:19 PM
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Music is a big part of my life so concerts and stuff like that. I go to those maybe once a month. Going to my next show in late August. I like smart girls, so artistic stuff, books, technology, etc (I personally love all 3).
/r/seduction31/07/18 02:58 PM
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That makes sense. The thing is, my type of girl isn't the type that goes out to bars and clubs all the time. Most of my success in that scene is with the girls who got dragged there by their friends and feel as out of place as I do. Most of my success in general is through friends and classes (and it's summer). My point is that my type of girl is harder to find when going out. Not to say that I couldn't find other girls I'm into, I'm sure I can, it just takes time.
/r/seduction31/07/18 02:35 PM
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Whether you wanna keep things casual and just hook up or find a real relationship is totally up to you. I don't see a problem with either. Personally, I'm looking for a relationship. That being said, one-itus is a real issue in both situations. A girl isn't gonna respect you or find you attractive if you put her on a pedestal regardless of your intentions.
/r/seduction31/07/18 01:57 PM
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I get what you're saying, but I'm not just trying to fuck as many girls as possible. If I was, I can think of 2 girls I could hit up for that. I'm naturally more interested in some girls than others. Getting the numbers of some girls I don't give a shit about doesn't really change that.
/r/seduction31/07/18 01:43 PM
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Makes sense. Thanks.
/r/seduction31/07/18 01:20 PM
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Everyone's different. It's impossible for us to tell. If you like him, you gotta give him something to go on. Flirt with him. Give him some hints. You could even ask him out yourself if you're feeling ballsy, but you gotta talk in person.
/r/seduction31/07/18 01:09 PM
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One day, man :/
/r/seduction31/07/18 12:43 PM
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Proceed under the assumption that they're attracted to you until you're proven wrong. Take a risk, show some balls.
/r/seduction31/07/18 02:56 AM
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You can have sex with a lot of women and still respect them.
/r/seduction31/07/18 02:54 AM
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Yes and that's not a problem. It shouldn't be expected though.
/r/seduction30/07/18 06:31 PM
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That doesn't really make sense to me. Of course the guy is gonna be the one asking 99% of the time early on.
/r/seduction30/07/18 05:14 PM
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How long before he deletes it this time? Taking all bets.
/r/seduction30/07/18 05:12 PM
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Use your common sense. You don't need someone to validate every thought you have.
/r/seduction30/07/18 05:11 PM
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Some people, like myself, don't really like texting in general. Don't worry too much about it. Gauge interest from your time spent together in person.
/r/seduction30/07/18 02:51 PM
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Reddit is not going to fix your anxiety. Talk to a professional, not strangers on the internet.
/r/seduction30/07/18 01:59 PM
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Take her to the arcade then. Chicks dig a guy who can play skiiball.
/r/seduction30/07/18 01:28 PM
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We all float down here :)
/r/seduction30/07/18 01:25 PM
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If you need space, tell her. Men are allowed to have boundaries too.
/r/seduction30/07/18 01:23 PM
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Sounds like you've done enough research. Go out and try what you learned!
/r/seduction30/07/18 12:52 PM
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No, you're not an ugly man, you'd have no problem finding women with a different mentality You're seeking validation from strangers on the internet. That screams insecurity which is super unattractive to women. You mentioned depression, insecurity often goes hand in hand. See a therapist. It's so much easier to blame your lack of success on your appearance, but it is 100% from your mentality and mental health.
/r/seduction30/07/18 10:18 AM
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I know this wasn't directed at me, but this is really useful for me. Thanks.
/r/seduction30/07/18 03:57 AM
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Try building up social momentum. Go out with friends and talk with them for a while, then transition to a cute girl nearby.
/r/seduction29/07/18 12:32 PM
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Are your conversations with your friends boring too?
/r/seduction29/07/18 12:21 PM
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The reason it doesn't work for a lot of people is because it's fucking difficult. People want a quick easy solution, not to have to force themselves outside of their comfort zone constantly. You gotta put in serious work if you want results. Attraction for women is different than attraction for men. You can literally become more attractive in their eyes over time if you play your cards right. Not to mention that you can become more physically attractive with conscious effort. What I look like to…
/r/seduction29/07/18 12:18 PM
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It's not ideal, but it's low risk for both of us. She's a coworker so I have to tread lightly. My reasoning was that it's an opportunity to gauge her interest and get to know her a little better without much risk or investment. Then ask her on a follow-up weekend date if it goes well.
/r/seduction29/07/18 12:06 PM
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Read this: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/4seyc9/never_run_out_of_things_to_say_to_womenkeep_the
/r/seduction29/07/18 02:10 AM
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what's the point of dealing with girls it's just more drama and effort I don't know about you, but all the best things about myself and my life came from effort.
/r/seduction29/07/18 02:08 AM
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Escalating never really comes naturally to me. I have to force myself to do it. I'm not that worried about finding out she's not into me. I'm worried about her being into me and me blowing it by moving too slowly.
/r/seduction29/07/18 01:48 AM
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Thanks bro. That makes sense.
/r/seduction29/07/18 01:15 AM
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I guess that makes sense. In the past I've always not escalated enough so I really wanted to make sure I don't blow it. Thanks. Also, should I at least still break the touch barrier?
/r/seduction29/07/18 01:08 AM
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Take a look at the top of all time on this sub. Lots of helpful stuff.
/r/seduction28/07/18 08:55 PM
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If you think you have a chance with a girl just proceed with the assumption that she's into you. If you she's not, you find out quickly and can move on.
/r/seduction28/07/18 08:24 PM
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Exercise. Personally I run, lifting works too, both is ideal. It will make you feel more confident and more energetic overall.
/r/seduction28/07/18 04:12 PM
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You were dating and you don't have her #? Yes, but come up with a pretense of why you contacted her. ie: something reminded you of her or a memory you to shared. She will be on her guard at first and that will help lower it. But mostly just don't put too much pressure on yourself. It may work out, it may not. Either way you'll be fine. There's plenty of girls out there.
/r/seduction28/07/18 04:10 PM
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The answer to this question is almost always yes. You have nothing to lose. There is no shame in rejection. Take pride in it, it means you manned up and gave it your best shot.
/r/seduction28/07/18 03:24 PM
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Music? You could go to shows. Plenty of cute girls there. STEM girls are very hit or miss imo, but worth a try if you have a lot in common. I personally love smart girls.
/r/seduction28/07/18 03:22 PM
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Ask her out the first chance you get.
/r/seduction28/07/18 02:52 PM
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Masturbate less? Higher T levels will help with that.
/r/seduction28/07/18 02:51 PM
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Yes, that's why you talk to them a bit and if she seems to be enjoying the conversation you ask for her number. Girls don't mind guys going for them as long as the guy know when to stop.
/r/seduction27/07/18 04:22 PM
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Keep crying about how unfair life is. It'll get you far.
/r/seduction27/07/18 04:18 PM
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Yes why should you have to work for anything in your life. Everything should just be handed to you.
/r/seduction27/07/18 04:15 PM
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You're not putting years of work in for some girl. The girl is a side effect. You're doing it for yourself. You're not trying to con your way into getting a girlfriend, you're trying to make yourself a better, happier person. Is that not enough of a reason on it's own even if it didn't get you a girl? I've known plenty of ugly guys with gf. Some of them hot.
/r/seduction27/07/18 04:08 PM
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They hate getting approached when they're not attracted to you. But you probably never had a chance anyways in that situation. If you caught a girl checking you out and approached her, I bet she wouldn't be annoyed then. Who cares if girls don't like getting approached by guys they don't find attractive? I don't like getting rejected by them, but it's part of life for both of us.
/r/seduction27/07/18 04:06 PM
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Whatever excuse you need to tell yourself to stay in your comfort zone. You know what you have to do. Question is, do you have the balls?
/r/seduction27/07/18 04:01 PM
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Go to the top posts. There's some gold on this sub.
/r/seduction27/07/18 03:56 PM
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Yes they will take years. And it will be worth every second. Because not only will your chances with women improve, you will feel better about yourself and be happier in general. It is absolutely about mentality because you reject yourself before a girl even has a chance to. She can see it in the way you carry yourself, the way you look at her, the way you talk to her. Why should she think you're attractive if you don't think you're attractive? And attractive doesn't just mean looks. You can be …
/r/seduction27/07/18 03:53 PM
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If you actually read these comments, most of them seem to be talking about cold approaching poorly. Like just immediately asking them for their number instead of talking to them.
/r/seduction27/07/18 03:47 PM
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Before you can expect to get girls, you need to get your shit together. You could be good looking, have this mentality and still not get any women. Stop pitying yourself and do something to change it. Make some friends. Brush your damned teeth. If you're balding badly, I'd just go full Bruce Willis and embrace it. Get some hobbies, at least one of which being social. You'd be amazed how much some actual conscious effort combined with some confidence can increase your attractiveness. You have anx…
/r/seduction27/07/18 03:30 PM
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I'm not the person to ask about outer game. I've spent most of my time on inner game because that was where I struggled the most.
/r/seduction27/07/18 03:01 PM
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Incels blame women for their own incompetency. You have to be willing to accept responsibility for your own failures if you want to learn from them. They need therapy, not dating advice. The people you should help are those who want to improve, but simply lack the skills and mentality.
/r/seduction27/07/18 02:52 PM
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Keep her off a pedestal or you'll just make yourself nervous. Trying to interact with other attractive girls whenever you get the chance can help with this.
/r/seduction27/07/18 02:48 PM
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Don't waste energy with an incel bro.
/r/seduction27/07/18 12:54 PM
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If you can't make friends you can't get a girl. Make some friends first dude. They're more important than women anyway. You gotta learn to crawl before you learn to walk.
/r/seduction27/07/18 04:42 AM
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How is this any different than going on a date with a tinder girl or some girl you met at a bar? Just treat it like that. You're putting unnecessary pressure on yourself.
/r/seduction27/07/18 04:30 AM
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You asked him out. That's a rare thing for a girl to do. You've done more than enough. It's up to him.
/r/seduction26/07/18 06:49 PM
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Never just confess your love to a girl. It puts her in an uncomfortable position. Even if you had a shot with her that'll ruin it. Guys are like lights. Our interest just flicks on and off in an instant. Girls are more like fires. You have to build their interest over time by feeding the flames.
/r/seduction25/07/18 05:51 PM
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I'm certainly not a "natural" yet, but I have drastically improved my ability to talk to and attract women over the past month or so. It's a skill like anything else and it just comes down to practice. They may seem like naturals to you, but I can almost guarantee they all have a lot of practice interacting with women and getting rejected. At some point you gotta stop reading theory and just go talk to a cute girl.
/r/seduction24/07/18 03:45 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1f9f8e/hitting_it_off_with_a_girl_feeling_you_could_kiss
/r/seduction22/07/18 03:32 PM
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