I'm a young guy who's always been trying to emulate a few of his friends when it comes to girls.

I had an introvert oriented teenagehood, and as such never had a chance to quite develop my image with women in mind, which makes me clueless how to behave myself around them when I'm interested in them.

Fast forward to now, as a college student, I'm extremely extroverted and go out alot.

I envy a few of my friends who are seemingly 'naturals' and seemingly able to 'get' with any girl only if they put their mind to it. They are attractive and confident, sure, but that can't be the whole story. There's something about their behaviour and mannerisms in front of women that I can't quite narrow down, but works quite effectively with an extremely seemingly high success.

I can think of around 4 friends that fit this description, all with different ethnicities, mannerisms and personality who can get any girl to get with them simply if they put their best foot forward. There isn't one dissernable trait I can directly trace to all of them, except an overwhelming sense of self assurance.

I have no idea how to do that. I want to be able to do that. Perviously dealing with severe anxiety, short of my actual behaviours and external mannerism, I've perfected almost everything else about myself to be the best version of myself.

I exercise regularly, dress with style, take good care of myself, am well read, and now, I believe I'm ready to begin walking the walk as far as my behaviour goes in order to reach my goal; to pull women only if I put in the required effort. Right now, I'm as clueless and as silent as a drywall when I'm around women (especially attractive ones).

I need help identifying the exact mindset and behaviours that can help me achieve my goal of instantly clicking with any girl, no matter the circumstance; whether it's a classmate, a (current) friend, or a girl I met while out with friends. How I should behave, what's socially acceptable and isn't, etc etc.

My current problem is I haven't stumbled on any advice or mindsets which could be useful in the majority of circumstances rather than a select few isolated PUA moments.

Any pointers to any particularly useful informative posts would be much appreciated!