You can skip this, just the set up from our 1st Date.
We match on Tinder and she asks me for my number after a few messages. We text and set up our date. We meet on a Wednesday night for boba, dinner, and then chill at a hookah bar. She broaches the topic of sex. I tease her for being forward but keep the convo sexually charged. Kino and conversation gets heavy in the hookah bar. I tell her I like to get to know girls before fucking. She knows I'm talking about her too, saying I still don't know who you are. At this point I know she's DTF (honestly, I was too but I get nervous lol and logistics at my place weren't in my favor). I drop her back to her place. No kiss but she made it clear she wants to hang out tomorrow. And so we do...
2nd Date F-Close (following day)
She texts me in the morning saying she overslept, we were supposed to do yoga together. We exchange a few messages then she asks me "do you wanna hang out?" I pick her up and proceed immediately to Netflix and Chill. My remote does voice commands and says "Netflix & chill" with that cheeky, teasing, grin. It's on. Cuddle for a bit and we eventually do the deed. Got a little nervous - I get a little performance anxiety. I open up to her about it - something something showing vulnerability - She's cool with it teases me (in a playful, non-hurtful way) and we fucken fuck once my nerves are calm. We shower and cuddle for a bit. After a few minutes she pulls off my shorts and starts giving me head. WOW I did not ask or even suggest this. She's doing this on her own accord. I go with it and she finishes me. I drop her back home. Honestly don't remember if we kissed goodbye. But wow I was just processing everything and was amazed at how great the sexual chemistry was. Aside from a small hiccup on my part, we hit the ground running hard. I don't think I've ever clicked with someone like that from the first time we fuck.
I was out of town for the entire weekend and she knew this. But I haven't texted her since. I definitely wanna hang out with her again. She even told me what she wants to do/ how she wants to get fucked for next time. The lights can't be any more greener. So my questions are:
- The sex was great, amazing chemistry for a first time fuck. Is it bad that I haven't texted her since?
- I didn't mean to ghost but I don't wanna get clingy either. How should I proceed for our next date?
TL;DR: first time hooking up with her and sexual chemistry was great but I feel like I ghosted her. Questions above.
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