How did you guys stop putting girls on pedestal? And started to chase your self ? I used to.text 5000 girls on snapchat. No one vauled me ever or texted me first. My conversations were like interviews tbh so.im boring. And i hate my self. and i was just looking for their approval and affection. But never got it. When other guys get nudes easily. Without them even asking for it. I just dont know why people dont value me.