I get a lot of my shit from the RSD videos but some of it is gold and this concept in particular i thought id expand upon a bit.

Fact is, a lot of the guys who get laid the most don't even work or hold up to some arbitrary social construct of what "successful" means. They've settled the argument in their head and thus it's irrelevant to their actual character, how they act, any of these milestones that more insecure men might use to attempt to prove to themselves that they are worthy of female attention.

For instance, I know a guy who is now 27 who is a college graduate, well spoken, intelligent and all, good job, but he was a virgin until he was 25 and he is utterly crap with girls and also kind of a pity partier. He talks about how he has a good job, exercises, owns a house, all this shit as if he is expecting it will magically somehow guarantee that girls will throw themselves at him, but to my mind these are all materialistic substitutes for a core personality change that he has yet to have or never will.

I'm 24 and I lost mine at 22, obviously since I am posting here my game needs a lot of work, but I think I'm on to something when I say that what will get you far is basically freeing yourself from every psychological restraint whatsoever and living in a more authentic and direct manner.

I realized that employment is irrelevant to cold approach field game when i put it this way to myself:

"She wants your cock in her, not in a box on your boss's desk"

cue RATM soundtrack

Just interested to hear some thoughts