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To be honest with you, i sort of slowly realized a lot of this over time. It starts with you, not with anything else, you have to grow as a person before you can really be able to provide energy to other people. I guess my demon is that I didn't have any sexual experiences until a relatively late age. I also look about 5 years younger than I am (I'm 24), and so while girls who are like 18 or so might give me a chance, my own age range (anything other than college freshman year) doesn't take me s…
/r/seduction18/11/18 03:08 PM
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i don't disagree with anything here lol...yeah my social skills suck but its because i was fucked up, bullied, depressed, and isolated for years. i didn't even pop my cherry until i was 22. dude girls wouldnt even LOOK at me until i was 22. i bloomed LATE. i'm well aware that women aren't objects, i have girls who are friends who i have not and will never do anything sexual with. probably because at the time i made friends with them, i hadnt even gone through puberty and finally, i knows what it…
/r/seduction18/11/18 12:52 PM
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good
/r/seduction18/11/18 11:26 AM
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I sort of had an epiphany about this and i realized that i wasn't intimidated by talking to women, i was intimidated by talking to young, hot women, because there is more sexual energy / tension. talking to an old lady is effortless yet when i talk to a hot young chick i clam up. so i try, as hard as it is, to talk no differently than if i was talking to a woman i wasn't sexually interested in. come from that premise, but put just a toe over the line of sexual tension, as if there is a POSSIBILI…
/r/seduction16/11/18 01:54 PM
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how the hell do you know where i live lol
/r/seduction09/11/18 11:44 AM
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post a pic of u
/r/seduction09/11/18 10:52 AM
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what is your age?
/r/seduction09/11/18 10:06 AM
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k
/r/seduction06/11/18 04:24 PM
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music is my gift....always has been, always will be...that has to be what the "thing" is for me
/r/seduction06/11/18 12:34 AM
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yea as much as i love weed....sex is better lol. or ideally, both at the same time ;)
/r/seduction05/11/18 07:29 PM
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that's true. it's funny i have such a hard time with cold approach in college because i lost my v card to a sorority girl who went to this same school. but i met her off an app so there was no approach involved. it was enough to get me to start believing, but belief, as it turns out, is a fire that needs to be constantly kindled by positive behavior and actions
/r/seduction05/11/18 06:45 PM
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yeah...the really powerful stuff gets you too introspective, you have these life-changing epiphany moments that make you just want to curl up on the couch and rethink your life and hug a pillow. not so good for socializing
/r/seduction05/11/18 06:33 PM
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You'd fuck this? https://i.redd.it/j3yoxiov7dw11.jpg Ohai there (insert shitty pickup line here)
/r/seduction05/11/18 06:21 PM
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I mean like I said I'm not gonna quit entirely, but i'm sure as shit not going to just sit in my room and smoke. If I smoke, it's because i am going out and have been already working my ass off on my game and social confidence while stone sober, and i'm just treating myself to it to take the edge off for some particular reason or something
/r/seduction05/11/18 04:50 PM
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it's harder to do in college because i am at a smaller school and it will look like i am just approaching every girl
/r/seduction05/11/18 04:42 PM
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And now that i am 24 and back in school and seeing 19 year old guys getting more ass than me, i can tell ya, this shit is not easy
/r/seduction05/11/18 04:27 PM
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I have incredible baggage and weed has helped me move past it, but it can also make me too focused on the past. I'm the "hard case newbie" the RSD stuff talks about. Physically i was a late bloomer (was always smaller than the other guys, bullied in HS), didn't even lose my v-card until I was 22, have never had a girlfriend, to this date I look really young for my age which my mind has internalized as this massive, huge fucking insurmountable obstacle because I have had many experiences where al…
/r/seduction05/11/18 04:18 PM
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I've had the same experience with weed (being more open to people, etc) but the problem is, as soon as you absolutely NEED weed to do that, it's done. I got to that point, and it's not fun. I'm looking for deeper confidence that I have whether I am high or not, and then if I can get high and socialize it's just a bonus.
/r/seduction05/11/18 03:46 PM
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yeah I don't think weed is "bad", i've had some life changing experiences with it, including discovering emotional and psychological depth that is related to game (i.e., learning how to actually enjoy life again after coming out of period of young adulthood which was dominated by severe depression for me). if you only had the discipline to ONLY smoke socially and only in the presence of other people, it might be a different story, but sitting on the couch getting high is now going to be a no-no …
/r/seduction05/11/18 01:02 PM
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yeah...with the young comments, so far, i find that saying stuff like that that shows you arent sexually naive helps, just gotta not go overboard and do what feels right
/r/seduction04/11/18 08:51 PM
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EDIT: a young brad pitt / justin bieber had absolutely no facial hair and girls wanted their dix...im overthinking i think
/r/seduction04/11/18 08:23 PM
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Any suggestions on the imminent "how young you look" shit that results inevitably whenever i am clean shaven
/r/seduction04/11/18 08:18 PM
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(the guys who downvoted this are too cool to talk to girls)
/r/seduction04/11/18 07:39 PM
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*****i know my hair is really fucking short and i look like dr evil or a nazi sympathizer but i did it myself for free and ideally i'd like to just keep it a little longer than this but it got out of control
/r/seduction04/11/18 07:28 PM
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buddy
/r/seduction02/11/18 11:16 PM
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Well I actually have gone back to school, it's just that i look like a freshman apparently and freshman are lame and not what the upperclassman girls are really going for
/r/seduction02/11/18 04:52 PM
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then maybe they're just being dumb broads and shit testing me, kinda squeezin me to see what comes out
/r/seduction02/11/18 01:45 PM
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I also get a lot of the condescending shit from guys who like to go out of their way to let me know they aren't intimidated by me, it's usually "bud" or "boss" or "chief" and that sort of thing, or just highly condescending behavior in general In fact i had a manager at my shitty job call me "boy" the other day in a negative context and i found it demeaning and popped a nerve so i went "I ain't your boy, BITCH!" and then he got all bent out of shape about it as if I was out of line. Boy? that's …
/r/seduction02/11/18 01:43 PM
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Well my hair is starting to thin like crazy, honestly it might just be stress lol. I feel like I am constantly in fight or flight mode ​ ​
/r/seduction02/11/18 01:37 PM
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yeah. i don;t necessarily care so much about fitting in with their bro squad, because i really dont give a fuck, its more about your standing in the eyes of females in the social venue, is what im concerned about
/r/seduction26/10/18 07:29 PM
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yeah...this type of guy would give you more cred if you were to basically scream your response in his face (and then smile at him to let him know it's all in good fun and you're just letting him know you match his energy), then if you made some sort of stupid one liner. i used to be so shy and submissive in the past i like had a guy like that in a bar grab my hood and pull it over my face and didnt do shit....yeah that bad. no coincidence i couldnt get laid then either lol. once i realized that …
/r/seduction26/10/18 07:28 PM
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What same problems specifically? Shyness? Some people have told me i am decent looking and girls in school just might be shy https://i.imgur.com/EaAaVAd.jpg but i look like this, so jury is still out on that one
/r/seduction23/10/18 06:44 PM
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I dig that mindset haha
/r/seduction23/10/18 06:16 PM
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Right on. I mean hell I initially used weed to help cure social anxiety, I used it as social lubricant, but I've also found that it cnn just make you overthink and get stuck in your head and/or have social anxiety as well. I'm trying to train myself to get in good habits with people skills
/r/seduction23/10/18 05:54 PM
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The shyness is the first thing that has to go. Did you go through the whole phase of just being able to not stop worrying about how you look? I still do because I'm hyperaware that I look young for my age, or at least i do according to some people, but I also know that if you can't change your appearance you can at least change your actions, and that's an avenue I haven't explored as much. What if you could actually just believe in yourself and act fully congruently? I'd be willing to bet I woul…
/r/seduction23/10/18 05:41 PM
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well here's where it gets interesting, good point re: how you dress bro. i'm 5'6", i'm 120 lbs but i've also been 150 lbs...and i've done physical labor all my life so i have a strong build. to be honest, i just have a man's body but a child's face. almost no facial hair. however -- when i start dressing a little more stylish i HAVE noticed that girls respond to it well. even stuff like a dress shirt and jeans instead of a t-shirt and jeans. i get that i look young but i am also very virile, i h…
/r/seduction23/10/18 02:41 PM
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all girls say to me is "how old are you" and "you look 18" which i assume means i havent got a chance in hell lol .....bc im 24
/r/seduction23/10/18 02:28 PM
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Well i mean ive had sex, it's just going from cold approach to contact/flirtation thats tough for me but yea it will prob help
/r/seduction22/10/18 11:11 PM
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Alright i'll try it. If i can manage to get a dance but also talk and be funny and flirty and maybe even relaxed enough to legit feel horny lol then it's a success in my book. What has been killer for me is that i am usually too anxious and uptight to even let myself feel in the mood, which is what makes you want to talk to girls in the first place. It's really just because i'm used to getting told i look too young, i got dat dere babyface
/r/seduction21/10/18 04:13 AM
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Thanks man that really helps. And u say before that experience, u were really shy too, like could barely talk to hot girls and it helped u get out of that?
/r/seduction21/10/18 03:23 AM
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So if im basically shitting myself the first time thats normal for this? Lol
/r/seduction21/10/18 02:59 AM
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you're the second person who gave me the advice to just go to a strip club, it's sort of just going straight into the lions den. did it force you to just fucking lose the shyness? how did you feel the first time?
/r/seduction21/10/18 12:24 AM
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b-b-b-but i look like this https://i.imgur.com/EaAaVAd.jpg wouldnt i get eaten alive in a strip club if they even believe my ID
/r/seduction21/10/18 12:03 AM
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I am incapable of taking a picture of myself with me smiling actually because i feel like it just makes me look really childish, so i either make a solemn face or when someone takes a picture with me (i had a girl ask for a photo with me the other night, she actually broke away from her group of girls/guys), i make a silly face because i figure then i have nothing to lose. ​ As far as haircuts i might just keep it shorter, not sure ​ i'm also kind of crazy and probably ought to be on meds
/r/seduction20/10/18 06:11 PM
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https://i.imgur.com/EaAaVAd.jpg well this is me i think i look pretty shit
/r/seduction20/10/18 05:52 PM
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I'm 24 Have u gotten laid from cold approach with college girls a lot?
/r/seduction20/10/18 03:42 PM
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if we're gonna use imagery, then i will think of rejections and shit tests and general shit i get ("ur 12 olol") like garden fences being trampled by a charging bull. yeah they might be obstacles, but doesn't change that the bull is gonna go where its gonna fucking go ​ the power of blue balls compels me. actually no, the power of realizing i am getting older and have had far less sex than most guys 5 years younger than me compels me ​ i would imagine that being asian, you get a lot of shit your…
/r/seduction20/10/18 11:15 AM
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and u look YOUNGER than me??
/r/seduction12/10/18 12:28 PM
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how do you approach? where do you meet girls? how many have u slayed? how do your dialogs with girls end up going once u get past the initial age bullshit?
/r/seduction12/10/18 03:58 AM
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and you have gotten laid or get some on the regular despite this shit ? what is your college game like or what was it like if you graduated?
/r/seduction12/10/18 03:47 AM
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https://i.imgur.com/xx2Z4V8.jpg ​ thats me OMG LOOK HOW YOUNG HE LOOKS OMGGGGGGGGG ​ yknow what the last thing a girl said when another girl showed her a pic of me? "awwwww". not exaclty what means her pussy is getting wet ​ people who say looking young is a good thing have no clue what they r talking about
/r/seduction12/10/18 03:39 AM
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yea..i'm not really into older puss
/r/seduction12/10/18 03:38 AM
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if only i wasn't attracted to girls actually my age...
/r/seduction12/10/18 03:31 AM
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u think they tease me and call me names to test me?
/r/seduction12/10/18 02:53 AM
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The best experiences i have had in dealing with these types of assholes were usually just when i kind of narrowed my eyes, raised my eyebrows and just kinda smiled at them with a look in my eyes that conveyed weariness and that i didn't have time for their shit. Sometimes if you say nothing that is better, and bonus points if you can make them uncomfortable / look stupid in front of their squad
/r/seduction07/10/18 01:35 PM
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i just said absolutely nothing but gave him a look that could peel paint off a wall and walked away. the ULTIMATE bitchiest thing to do would be to completely avoid eye contact, but it's the one way of making a point as nonviolently as you can so i did when you are out partying and shit too, the tendency is to want to avoid a scene lest it fuck up your whole night. thing is, these fucktards prey on that because they know you won't do anything the manliest thing to do, IMO, is to avoid a fight un…
/r/seduction05/10/18 11:52 PM
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solid. thx not sure if this is accurate or not but i was once told the "alpha" guys give you shit because there is at the very least something about you that threatens them. maybe not physically, maybe they are just in a shitty place themselves. people who are happy in their life rarely fuck with people who don't deserve it also....it's only bitches who pick a fight with someone not their own size
/r/seduction05/10/18 11:31 PM
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right...not playing it safe would have been to still game her and just not give a fuck that she was with other ppl lol
/r/seduction05/10/18 05:30 PM
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wel...shit
/r/seduction05/10/18 04:09 PM
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Addendum in case you ask why didn't I take this further with her.... number one, she was with a herd and i don't feel strong enough to play that game yet, or at least congruently...need to build up some more energy before i start dealing with the AMOGs....two, i am coming from a place of weakness and hurt so right now I am almost in a therapeutic phase where i just need as many poisitive experiences as possible. but i'll get there
/r/seduction05/10/18 01:12 AM
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yeah and part of it is also coming to terms with the fact that there is no such thing as a sure thing. I've had past successes, i'm not a TOTAL newbie/virgin, so it might as well basically be a 50/50 chance each interaction / approach. It sounds elementary but it took me ages to figure out that without risk there is no gain lol. if you want a "sure thing", just watch porn. It will always be there. the real thing, it seems, is far more nebulous
/r/seduction02/10/18 07:40 PM
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Right. The reason i have stayed silent thus far is because i was thinking carefully and I took the mentality that better to be silent and thought a fool etc...so when I finally open my mouth now my game and vocabulary will be tight as fuck because I put thought into it...er, put thought into not thinking so much :P And as far as confidence, I feed my head with positive stories that may or may not be true....maybe the note that was there when I came back was for me, maybe the girl who sat down ne…
/r/seduction02/10/18 07:04 PM
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yeah im gonna regret this one, if she came up and sat next to me after we made eye contact she obviously was ok with being in my space but i just was stoned and stupid. lesson learned
/r/seduction02/10/18 02:46 AM
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im getting there man, one of these days i'm just gonna get blazed out of my mind and cold approach
/r/seduction02/10/18 12:12 AM
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do u think she was waiting for me to say something and that was the whole reason she sat there ​ aaand i was just an idiot about it ​ ? ​ ​
/r/seduction02/10/18 12:07 AM
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You mind if i shoot you a PM or two?
/r/seduction28/09/18 07:52 PM
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I mean i've gotten laid a few times and i'm talking to an 18 year old right now, but she is the type of girl who isnt the type of attention i want..... Idk dude how can you say looking young affects getting laid? i am in school for the SECOND time and i am 24 and people think i am a freshman....girls ALWAYS ask how old i am as if it is some kind of big thing.....i DON'T want to stop trying and back out of the game because too much time will go by and the right time will NEVER come and i will jus…
/r/seduction28/09/18 07:08 PM
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thx bro
/r/seduction27/09/18 07:55 PM
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y?
/r/seduction27/09/18 07:44 PM
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what is "attractive"? 6'2" and 250 lbs? i'm 5'7" and 123, some girls probably think i'm ugly, some probably think i have nice features. what the fuck does attractive even mean? anyways there is a pic of me up above if it might give you some prediction of whether i am one of the most "attractive" guys ​ also assuming the above is true, how does any guy who is not "attractive" fucking get laid in college? are you saying these girls only go for the 99th percentile hottest guy 100% of the time?
/r/seduction27/09/18 05:17 PM
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https://i.redd.it/rfuznuz1w1o11.jpg ​ i mean thats me, i dont think im great looking and apparently i look 19 even tho im 24....but hey i should still get freshmen checking me out..........right? lol
/r/seduction26/09/18 11:08 PM
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Yeah, just hard to tell if a girl is checking you out. id feel better about doing it if i thought she was for sure, but girls are so fucking hard to read so
/r/seduction26/09/18 10:28 PM
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helo me
/r/seduction23/09/18 10:04 PM
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yer a player harry
/r/seduction23/09/18 09:05 PM
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my apologies. a mere bit of humor to lighten the sullen mood, my good suh.
/r/seduction23/09/18 08:50 PM
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whenever my moustache gets too dastardly people tell me to shave it so i do and then i look 12 ​ and im 24 lol ​ i just boned an 18 yr old girl and she told me i looked like a girl but obvi she was having sex with me so...????? ​ ​
/r/seduction23/09/18 02:20 PM
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I am in college but I am a returning student after taking a 3 year gap year, so I could get through my program in around 2 and a half years. I thought about this and what I realized I basically have to do is reverse-engineer myself into the type of guy who that type of girl would want to be with. That means more confidence, resource, connections and just social success in general. So it will be interesting to see if I can accomplish that rising through the ranks in college within 2-3 years
/r/seduction21/09/18 03:24 PM
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Yeah and now I'm wondering how I can ditch her without her throwing a huge hissy fit about it. She apparently will only fuck if she is in a relationship and i don't want to date her and yet she just wants to be "friends" and have me buy her meth..i mean come on i am 24 and i've been thru a lot, i deserve better than thattttttt....i think i'll just unfriend her FB and stop answering texts lol
/r/seduction21/09/18 10:23 AM
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What are some subtle, safe ways to test her personal space
/r/seduction20/09/18 12:37 PM
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yeah man......it's just....depressing to feel like I am starting from nothing, at 24 fucking years old, i have banged 3 girls, and they were all the type with baggage and shit....some were nicer than others. I'm learning the lessons but it feels like it's very slow going. I want to get good at this and also know when to respect her boundaries yeah but all my life i have been TOO meek and pushed around by people, so my baggage sometimes results in me responding over-aggressively to shit. Learning…
/r/seduction20/09/18 12:34 PM
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the kicker - she is 17 i just discovered and i am 24 :(
/r/seduction17/09/18 03:49 AM
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luckily i dont have much on my FB :P
/r/seduction17/09/18 12:53 AM
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eh that's a bit too obvious, she's hot but i can tell she is a B so i think being too direct would backfire. my goal is to get her interested but also be kinda hard to pin down and frustrate her at the same time. idk what other game works with highly alpha girls tbh
/r/seduction13/09/18 01:37 AM
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yup....and if i try, who knows, i might have discovered that more girls think im cute than ever say so
/r/seduction13/09/18 12:07 AM
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+100 and in a way it's also just called growing up...fact is i am, and some of these questions answer themselves with time
/r/seduction13/09/18 12:06 AM
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what do ya think about the fact that i look 19 instead of 24 and how do you think that affects my game? i say it affects it negatively
/r/seduction12/09/18 10:56 AM
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Thanks, yeah i mean if i look 19 i look at least old enough to be a freshman and freshman fuck like rabbits...or at least the freshman girls do tee hee, in many cases they hook up with junior or senior guys because they are more experienced and mature, a la abundance theory.... thus, i don't think i should pretend i am actually 19 either, being confident in being my actual age may go a long way because as i said before i can get alcohol and shit like that. sometimes PUA guys PRETEND to know a lo…
/r/seduction10/09/18 12:55 PM
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I've been told i'm "attractive", problem is, i look 19.....i LOOK like a freshman
/r/seduction10/09/18 12:29 PM
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yeah I think he's threatened now that they are starting to think i'm interesting. like they are asking me stuff one day that is continuing a conversation from the other day, ask what i'm doing in my spare time, that sort of stuff. i just laugh and smile a lot and stay happy in a way that is fake but that is not apparent...as far as being the nice guy, i have developed the ability to remain tender and non-aggressive with a guy but be able to give a deeper meaning through how i say things, body la…
/r/seduction08/09/18 11:47 AM
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well in any event, I think it's important to remember that if you do encounter the AMOG in the presence of the girls you want, you should NOT react defensively to anything he says, no matter what. if you do, you've lost, because it reveals that you are threatened by it and girls will see that. stay cool and that will show that you are the real deal
/r/seduction08/09/18 11:31 AM
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idk man, i know what i feel....two bulls in a pasture
/r/seduction08/09/18 11:24 AM
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yeah...well..its infuriating having paid my own bills, worked dozens of shitty jobs, etc, and still get addressed like almost as a child by some of these young ladies....i should be the one being the daddy to their daddy / girl thing, not vice versa. in a way, it makes me want to have some sort of dom relationship or some shit as a kind of playful revenge
/r/seduction07/09/18 01:50 PM
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Wasn't being defensive, just realistic. You're right, but I've also talked to girls younger than me about these experiences I've had that my peers havent, and the way they reacted was almost in a sort of condescending, patronizing way, like the way you might be talking to a young boy ("look at YOU and the things you do!") Looks DON'T mean everything but to a lot of these younger slutty college types they play a big role. I'm 5'6" and 123 lbs. I've also been 5'6" and 150 lbs. I looked older when …
/r/seduction07/09/18 11:20 AM
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yeah but balding makes you look older / more mature lol, not like a baby
/r/seduction07/09/18 11:05 AM
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It would so be easy if i could get over the fact that i look 5 years younger than i am lol. It's the first thing a girl asks about when she talks to me so i'm always assuming it's an obstacle for her
/r/seduction07/09/18 10:57 AM
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https://i.imgur.com/bG2rlDI.jpg a pic from my student ID pic in which i look like a baby https://i.imgur.com/xnn56NG.jpg an actual pic from a different angle in which you will see angles make a difference. idk, some people say that "looking young" is actually just a form of being good looking and that my looks will be an advantage especially with time ...idk...i'm not a virgin and i have gotten attention from girls so obviously my negative self talk is fucking me in the head....but that's where …
/r/seduction28/08/18 07:37 PM
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but what does that do for me now lol
/r/seduction28/08/18 02:54 PM
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+1 heres what i think i should have done.... smile, say "hey", walk up to her the way you implied, not too eager but not aloof either...this is the second time in my life a random girl has just said hey to me like that when i was walking around....the first time she actually invited me into her house party and someone told me she wanted me to give her a kiss even though her boyfriend was there...that was a confusing situation...anyways... i should have asked what's her name, what she's up to...a…
/r/seduction26/08/18 03:22 PM
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dude i've gone to the bar and had great convos with hotties who were all smiley and shit to me and said nice to meet you...but that was as far as it got because i chickenshitted out of escalating....if i can get that far with a girl in cold approach then i must be able to get the rest of the way
/r/seduction26/08/18 02:42 PM
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Do you think it's alright (or even expected) for girls who are this age and obviously looking to attract attention, to escalate fairly early or even go kino early? Honestly i've had some seriously flirty conservations with girls and even sometimes you can tell by their eyes what is going on, but all that was missing was me taking that final step, the hardest leap of faith and just going for it. I'm proud of how far i have come but this is the hardest part because it's the shit test of all shit t…
/r/seduction26/08/18 02:22 PM
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i do i also look 19 not 24
/r/seduction26/08/18 01:46 PM
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i see whatcha did there well here's hoping i can find a cute freshman this semester who likes it but is embarassed to admit it, but i just do it so she doesn't have to admit it
/r/seduction26/08/18 01:41 PM
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Thanks man, that speaks to me on a lot of levels...haha. That's awesome that you got a chance to meet them and got mentored personally. As far as self development, that's really true, I was actually just having a discussion with an old friend of mine (the same 27 year old guy I mentioned) and I said the following: "Could all of this be avoided if I just simply got a sweet lil girlfriend and had regular sex? Probably, but I find that this is helping me find a me inside that I didn't even know was…
/r/seduction17/08/18 09:16 AM
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damn what about me looks old to you? just yesterday someone told me i look like 19 rather than 24 and i feel like most girls my age think i am too young to view in a sexual sense
/r/seduction15/08/18 03:42 PM
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how??
/r/seduction08/08/18 01:46 PM
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my top passion is prolly music....always has been always will be...and i'm returning to school in fall to study music industry after a 3 yr gap year during which i did nothing but work and gain life experience lol. i was not ready for school the first time but yeah....music....judging by the number of guy musicians who girls cream themselves over i think there are any number of women who find a man's ability to let go (which is necessary to be a good musician) sexy...in a way, it's about how ser…
/r/seduction08/08/18 10:35 AM
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i can make girls laugh...i think thats a start :)
/r/seduction07/08/18 11:21 PM
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said bruce lee, "whenever anything negative entires my mind i light it on fire"
/r/seduction07/08/18 10:33 PM
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i wear jeans and t-shirt lol....its the guy i am at heart. im going to a rave/edmfest soon and hoping to find some pussy that is already wet for marshmello / steve aoki / whoeverthefuck lol as long as i dont let my mind slip back into those stupid god awful beta frequencies....thank god for drugs, better living thru chemistry ay? also do girls rly love that? even girls in their early 20s? i feel they may however be more slow to admit interest in u if u are in this boat tho because there is more …
/r/seduction07/08/18 10:27 PM
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right??? thats what i thought lol....i mean hell 18-19 is old enough to find girls who will accept your fully functional 18-19 yr old cock....arguably the time of your life it is most functional anyway lol
/r/seduction07/08/18 09:57 PM
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The spiritual journey of lester burnham in american beauty kinda resonates with me
/r/seduction04/08/18 03:11 PM
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i think i sort of understand where you are coming from. men have been guilt tripped out of going for what they want in a direct manner, hence frustrated incels and the like
/r/seduction04/08/18 03:04 PM
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well i think im like a 5 what do you think? https://i.imgur.com/dyQ7ipK.png
/r/seduction04/08/18 11:42 AM
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what does that mean
/r/seduction02/08/18 11:35 PM
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https://i.imgur.com/v849rsN.jpg idk bout my looks lol
/r/seduction02/08/18 11:21 PM
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She does have a bf lol But yeah next time i will inject some mild affection into the flirtiness, that should clear up any mixed signals and I think then she will definitely know i am picking up what she is putting down, if she is putting down anything at all that is But idk girls around here seem to be super flirty. Tbh i see nothing wrong with it from a moral standpoint if a girl has a bf but flirts with me, hell if it's her doing it it's her decision. We're all adults here If she is into me, i…
/r/seduction02/08/18 08:39 PM
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Thing is....my problem in the past has been i have been too nice / eager with girls and they can rule you out in a sexual sense based on that alone. I think it's important to be friendly enough but also make it clear you're the man - even if it means being confident enough to just speak your mind. People who talk about gender fluidity, etc will argue with you all day about it but the basic fact no one wants to look at is that, in a basic sense, women are still attracted to confidence and masculi…
/r/seduction02/08/18 08:23 PM
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No i didn't but i thought about that immediately afterwar,d, next time i engage with her i will be sure to do that though if i make a joke Does it sound like she is checking me out to you? She has a boyfriend apparently but i can almost feel the vibes if you know what i mean
/r/seduction02/08/18 08:07 PM
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yeah i'm going back to school in the fall i'm gonna still mack on 18-19 yr olds lol idgaf plus i may also have the "cool older guy" thing working in my favor
/r/seduction27/07/18 08:44 PM
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lol its funny i'm actually part hispanic my grandpa is from colombia but not full yeah hahaha i wanna learn spanish fluently some day tho
/r/seduction25/07/18 11:20 PM
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follow up question: does it have anything to do with not looking 'rugged' enough
/r/seduction25/07/18 10:47 PM
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honest question am i bad lookin?
/r/seduction25/07/18 10:29 PM
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hm damn it lol though tbh reacting adversely to that shit just makes you more unattractive ill get there i hope i really want a gf i have never had one and im 24 & ive only fucked two girls
/r/seduction25/07/18 10:16 PM
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well idk with kiddo...how tf can i take that seriously when she is younger than me anyway altho i do look young, i look like 19 and im 24 https://i.imgur.com/JKmMRzm.jpg
/r/seduction25/07/18 09:52 PM
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looking back, a lot of girls have talked to me or gotten close enough to. but you are delusional if you think the majority of girls are going to make the move. i've seen a pattern, that is that they will engage with you early on if they like you but they will keep it vague. if you do nothing, they lose interest immediately, having concluded you are a social retard. which i was. but humility is the first step. you have to ADMIT you suck if you ever want to get better!
/r/seduction25/07/18 05:28 PM
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ehhh...cute lil chick i used to work with...she used to sometimes sit down n chill in the back of the house where i worked...would usually say bye to me and sometimes strike up chat with me man i was a fucking idiot, i have blown so many chances
/r/seduction25/07/18 05:08 PM
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cool story bro
/r/seduction21/07/18 11:05 PM
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yeah, so you think lying about your age in front of girls to save face instead of owning your age turns them off? i agree and my experience would back that up if you are sexy enough they wont care about what number is attached to it also, being able to buy them alcohol is probably a turn-on lol
/r/seduction21/07/18 12:30 PM
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What did that girl say to you? My mistake in the past was reacting to girls who said I look young, defensively, which of course turned them off immediately. What i have learned to do instead is just not give a shit and continue with the interaction, that way they know you are the real deal i.e. mature enough to continue gaming despite being taunted
/r/seduction21/07/18 09:49 AM
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Yeah i mean....but if you get physically rejected there is nothing to do about that. i just look young, thats it. i bloomed late and it's pretty heartbreaking because most girls my age are looking for the really mature looking guy. maybe i just need to wait until i'm old lol
/r/seduction14/07/18 01:27 AM
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I mean would you be shy around a guy like me? I think shy people tend to be shy around people they think are attractive but I don't think i am so... I am always shy around pretty girls
/r/seduction14/07/18 01:13 AM
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It'd be actually good to have a female perspective on this...so when I meet a cute girl, of course it makes me horny but I try to use that as a reason to be even more charming without being overbearing. Can you tell very easily when a guy has flirtatious vibes with you? I usually just smile more and say funny things, but i also think based on my experiences that i am going to have to be more direct and that is difficult finding the balance
/r/seduction14/07/18 12:59 AM
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Well i'm 5'6" and i weigh 120ish lol that could be it I'm not small in the pants tho :P
/r/seduction14/07/18 12:53 AM
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Not resentment, i'm just realistic about the fact that you are judged superficially by women just as much as men judge women superficially And when you look young they are going to assume you are not a worthy mate
/r/seduction14/07/18 12:33 AM
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the several girls i banged werent even ugly...just heavier lol. there seems to be a magnetism between curvy chicks and skinny dudes for some reason but yeah for pretty girls with great bodies,the game is a lot harder, your personality has to be rock solid and you gotta be able to pass all their shit tests
/r/seduction14/07/18 12:26 AM
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I realized early on that i was not even at the level of confidence and lack of insecurity that i could openly and seriously get flirty and sexual with stranger girls, so i am working on that game now. I get rejected a LOT, often times very rudely by girls, but the more i do the easier it gets to shrug it off. i mean i work my ass off and pay my bills and otherwise live like a man so some 19-22 yr old princess's words are irrelevant anyway. its a head game, i have to put in their head what i want…
/r/seduction14/07/18 12:24 AM
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try looking so young that the majority of women your age will not even consider you
/r/seduction14/07/18 12:17 AM
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w h y
/r/seduction14/07/18 12:05 AM
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What i was told is that at least clean shaven is neat, so i am just gonna keep cleaned up for the time being. Once i can get some serious stubble going though it will look good i think I'm hoping that the girls who like clean shaven are the type of girl who find baby faced guys sexy. I definitely am baby faced unfortunately Someone here told me that women generally find babies and puppies cute though, and since women's sexuality is different it may be a sexual angle i can tap into
/r/seduction10/07/18 03:41 AM
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so you're saying growing unfull facial hair looks less mature than clean shaven like this do you think girls will find the second look sexier ? some buddies of mine told me i have a waaaay better chance getting laid clean shaven
/r/seduction10/07/18 02:57 AM
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i guess i'm just terrified of how i look with absolutely no facial hair to be honest https://i.imgur.com/6IBGs5n.jpg like this looks even shittier IMO, if i have none then they will say i look legit like a child and if i have some they will say its messy
/r/seduction10/07/18 02:41 AM
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omg you actually are worse looking than me?
/r/seduction08/07/18 02:49 PM
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i seem to attract girls who act like children yeah...pouty and rude and shit people say i was rude to her, well she was saying shit like "you must be gay" or whatever
/r/seduction07/07/18 01:40 PM
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Yup, she also openly talks about how many girls she bangs lol Still good practice at the game !
/r/seduction07/07/18 01:17 AM
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in the case of the above girl who wants you to try, the best thing you can do if you are serious about fucking her is to stay somewhat in the loop but not give her quite as much attention as she wants. RSD compared it to a cat batting a string that is just barely out of reach. Come too low and she has you, too high and you are out completely. This type of girl will interpret aloofness as confidence and being clingy as weakness and you will be friendzoned immediately The girl in my above story ha…
/r/seduction07/07/18 01:10 AM
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yea but 32 year old cougars and looking like justin biebr aint what i want lol
/r/seduction06/06/18 01:11 PM
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https://i.imgur.com/vxtxBeP.jpg thats my youthful face
/r/seduction20/05/18 01:12 AM
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Some girls, even those who have flirted with me, have told me "you look so young!" I think however that this can be a form of shit testing you
/r/seduction20/05/18 12:33 AM
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My hangup is that i look young. I just have a baby face, a mans build but a baby face...i can pull off 18-19....so it becomes even more important to just fucking act like a man. Interactions with girls have improved since i started focusing on the behavior instead, i do not even mention my appearance if i can avoid it. Besides the only things that will make me look older are going to happen anyway and its just fucking aging, like going bald or getting saggy
/r/seduction20/05/18 12:00 AM
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It tends to reinforce behavior....for instance, in the past years, it reinforced me doing nothing but jerking off to porn lol. But i think it can become a tool if you use it to reinforce self improvement and positive behavior
/r/seduction19/05/18 09:59 PM
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i smoke way too much weed but thats about it, honestly i thought weed would help but it also makes me overthink social settings
/r/seduction19/05/18 08:58 PM
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I also seem to attract chubby, sooooorta hot but not super hot girls in their 20s...i think its because they are self conscious and want love?
/r/seduction19/05/18 04:06 PM
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If you are too shy and timid and anticipate the response you are dreading it will just become a self fulfilling prophecy. For someone like me you have to actually become crazy enough to suspend your own disbelief in yourself no matter the odds
/r/seduction19/05/18 02:45 PM
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And good on you for pointing out that all the info in the world doesnt make shit difference unless you do something with it
/r/seduction19/05/18 02:40 PM
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Go out tonight before the college babes leave for the summer and act like i actually can get girls
/r/seduction19/05/18 02:39 PM
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I got this advice from a cougar who is flirting with me lol (and speaking of that, i get hit on far more by cougars and gay dudes than 21 year old girls - wtf? )- if you seem like you are trying to get laid, you will not get laid. As soon as that becomes clear, it is over, or at least for a certain type of girl. Guys fuck up because they think with their cock too hard in the interaction, which always fucks it up unless the girl is, again, a very certain type of girl. I think for the VAST majorit…
/r/seduction19/05/18 01:29 PM
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I also feel like i am still in the stage where literally any time you try anything you will make rapid progress....like the day afterward you feel like you know more. This is probably the learning curve phase but once i get through that into the plateau i can just kinda chill and actually work on gaming
/r/seduction19/05/18 01:02 PM
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Takes time, mine looks really really bad atm grown out so i am staying with stubble
/r/seduction17/05/18 10:09 PM
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cant grow full beard but i use minoxidil
/r/seduction17/05/18 09:59 PM
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also, Taureans REPRESENT!
/r/seduction17/05/18 09:17 PM
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tx, any advices besides balls of solid rawk?
/r/seduction17/05/18 09:15 PM
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it's honest clean shaven, which is a little different than brutally honest cleanshaven. brutally honest clean shaven with me is horrifying
/r/seduction17/05/18 09:14 PM
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No complaints there!
/r/seduction11/05/18 02:13 AM
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I know i look young, but do you think i look at least old enough where its not a disadvantage? 18-19 year old is a guys sexual prime..so when you think about it, i get a few extra years of jackrabbitin' if i can get my game up =)
/r/seduction11/05/18 01:58 AM
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And i look like this and dont get it - https://i.imgur.com/4FN0xfe.jpg Biggest issue is i look 18 or 19, but then again 18 and 19 year old college freshmen fuck and some women like guys that look young so i am focusing more on the behavior, a masculine energy they talked about in his videos. Basically dont give a shit, but be able to actually feel it....and it sounds nuts, but quitting jerking off, or at least abstaining, has helped me
/r/seduction11/05/18 01:01 AM
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Being great looking helps but i am starting to understand that if you are not bad looking, they are paying more attention to your energy and behavior
/r/seduction11/05/18 12:15 AM
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It takes getting over the fear of cold approach, on RSD Owen said it was one of the hardest things he ever did in his life. But I'm getting closer to going for it, you just have to disconnect
/r/seduction11/05/18 12:05 AM
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not at all yeah baby faced dudes get laid , i feel like it matters less the older you get though and as long as i just act mature and shit . i just dont have much experience actively trying to get in a girls pants...thats the thing
/r/seduction10/05/18 11:36 PM
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deep
/r/seduction10/05/18 11:14 PM
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so in short, grow a pair. i thought so
/r/seduction10/05/18 08:16 PM
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if u are downvoting, u cant handle the truth
/r/seduction10/05/18 06:05 PM
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yeah....its just tough when faced with for instance, rejection that is binary (fuckable or not)....tbh man i just smoke my weed and try to work on both at the same time, inside and out. and the nice thing about weed is that time will go by and then it will eventually not be an issue anyway lol. funny that you reach your sexual peak at the age your chances of getting laid are less...i.e. the babyfaced guy is at optimum sexual health but looks like a kid
/r/seduction10/05/18 04:47 PM
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I just think short hair looks better on me. Do you mean a stronger frame? I am at the very least blessed with a strong neck and broad shoulders, which help a guy like me who is little but Ive done physical labor all my life. I would ask if you think i am BAD looking but honestly at a certain point, i think girls give less about how you look once you at least past the point of "not unattractive' (which girls have said to me, or even better compliments) and start paying attention to how you act (a…
/r/seduction06/05/18 12:31 PM
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