What’s the best way to approach a girl I don’t want to make her feel uncomfortable but at the same time I need to get out of my comfort zone ASAP any advice ?

thevaluelifestyle · 2018-08-18T00:19:43+00:00

Start by going out and interacting. Become more comfortable with people in general. Even if it just a causal conversation with a random girl standing in line behind you, start somewhere and expand on that. Sitting in your house and reading guides won't do it - get out there and take the action needed. You are literally in prime location and do not have any excuses. Overcome the approach anxiety by understanding that if you do not approach, nothing will happen. Worst outcome is you are ignored. Who cares? There are millions of other girls just in your city.

anxiety_kills_me · 2018-08-18T13:38:21+00:00

You shouldn’t be thinking “how can I keep her from getting uncomfortable” you should be thinking “how can I get this girl to be comfortable” it’s all about how you perceive things my man.

luaudesign · 2018-08-19T01:53:51+00:00

It's always uncomfortable. For both of you, but you gotta handle it better than she does. Carry the team, hold the conversation, make it work. She'll be glad you're holding the heavy end. It's uncomfortable if you think it's uncomfortable. Act like it's fine and it'll be fine, and she'll feel it's fine too because she'll be looking to you for guidance.

Manunafraid · 2018-08-20T17:06:02+00:00

Let me tell you man, I was your age 10 years ago, and I put off approaching "until tomorrow" or "until I was ready".

Guess what, I'm 34 now and still in a rut. You have no idea how it feels to be at this stage of my life and knowing the time I wasted.

GET APPROACHING NOW. Tomorrow never comes and your 20s will fly by so fast you won't beleive it.

It's now or never man. Do it today. Approach that girl and don't waste any more time.

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