What are the best sources on how to go out alone at night for pickup?

hfthomas · 2018-09-01T19:10:16+00:00

I am going out by myself nowadays. And I should say: Learn to be uncomfortable.

I was so bogged down in anxiety that I couldnt even go to a nightclub with friends when drunk. By gradually being uncomfortable every time, I started to enjoy it. And now I can go out by myself, talking to girls everywhere. I usually walk around until I find a group of two or more girls, and walk in to the club with them. Then I have social proof, and ready to have fun.

I have used a lot of CBT the last years. You really need to dig into your mind and pick up old dirt, and change your mindset.

You need to get yourself from "i would rather die than go out alone, because it is so uncomfortable" to "I sometimes prefer going out alone, and the butterflies I get is motivating me to just do it"

I did this with the thrive programme from Rob Kelly (i had emetophobia that this programme cured), CBT for dummies and meditation.

Another book I would reccomend is "your erroneous zones", but you should really begin with what I mentioned above

lesbefrank · 2018-09-01T23:34:58+00:00

Get a doggo

hunterpua · 2018-09-01T17:47:21+00:00

Stealth Attraction by Richard la Ruina.

2018-09-01T16:53:46+00:00

I mean like how socially adjusted are you? From incel-Chad. Jk sorrta but i feel like you should start at the bottom with "the mystery method" or "the game"

Title	What are the best sources on how to go out alone at night for pickup?
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Date	September 1, 2018 4:14 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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