I think I need to take a break

K3wp · 2018-09-12T00:55:19+00:00

(Just posted this in another thread, I think it's fine as long you establish rules for yourself.)

I'll identify myself as a "pickup artist", albeit a fairly lightweight and modest one. I'm much more about forming positive emotional relationships with women than getting laid or having a girlfriend.

Anyways, for whatever reason, very close to 100% of the women I've been involved with in the last ~15 years had at least one other man in their life. Often in a long-distance relationship, like a touring musician or someone in the military. I'm in San Diego so this is a not uncommon occurrence.

I'm fine with it in general, with the only rule being that my 'playbook' is active as long as she still has a boyfriend/husband, is on Tinder, or whatever. What I mean by that is I will continue to work my system on other women, even in front of them if it's an option. So, for example, I might get anothers girls number or on their social media while I'm on a date with them. I wouldn't actually ditch them or ignore them, though. That's just tacky and rude.

I'll break off the relationship if they get angry, controlling or abusive about this and in fact have almost certainly "lost" a few girls that would have eventually left their boyfriends/husbands if I gave them my full attention.

As to the "Why?", I'm single, I like women, I like romance and I would like to be in a serious relationship and even married one day. However, in the meantime, I'll take what I can get from the buffet. And of course, I can have as many women as I have time and attention for.

Edit: I probably should admit that I had my 'dream' girl (that I would have married) break up with me because she found out I had sex with her best friend and was involved in the PUA community. So it's not a free lunch by any means.

ThrowawayPUA · 2018-09-12T01:11:44+00:00

Mystery said it is your duty to test the strength of a relationship by seducing the woman. You are doing them both a favor. If she would be happier with you, better she find that out now. And if she isn't happy with him, its better he find that out now. And if you can't separate them, they will be even closer and happier to be together, having passed the test.

Title	I think I need to take a break
Author	shanebonanno
Upvotes	2
Comments	4
Date	September 12, 2018 12:47 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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