Hello TheRedPill community,

 I am a new redditor who would needs TRP perspective into a situation I am currently in.

Background: I am in an engineering program, where there is a 20:1 guy to girl ratio in the class. The average looking girl in the class is a 3 at best, and every one of them get alot of undeserved attention from guys (they do their homework, answer every question she may have; you know, the typical 'If I do this, I'll get laid" guys). I tend to not indulge my time onto this as studying is more of a priority than being someone's one of 10 bitch boy.

However, this term, in an engineering social event, there was this one girl (surprisingly a 7) who began to show a lot of attention to me. As she's in engineering, it's safe to assume that she uses alot of shit tests to filter out the guys. However, I have this mindset that if she's shit testing me, she's the one in control of the conversation, hence she's the one who has more power over me... which I am not okay with, so I made sure that I wasn't going to be one of her bitches. Soon, the shit tests dipped down and there were a lot of sexual-based texts being sent back and forth, and her wanting to hangout and what not.

So I thought about giving this a shot and asked her out. As you can imagine, I failed. Then the whole "friendzone" bullshit started playing up... Well, I feel that she was doing all this to get attention from me (maybe because she had been getting attention from every guy, and I wasn't giving a shit about her, she felt that her ego was getting hurt and she needed to try to get me interested in her). And now I feel like I am one of those 10 bitch boys...

I would appreciate some TRP perspective in finding a way to make me feel that I am not like one of her bitch boys, maybe let her know that she isn't some irresistible goddess she'd like to think she is. I could just stop talking to her, but being in the same University, we will be bumping into eachother and small talks are bound to happen. Also, because I like a bit of closure in situations like this.

Any help would be appreciated. Any questions will be answered as best as I can try.

tl;dr Girl wanted to get attention from me. After getting it, threw me away like a used tampon. Feeling that the power control went to her side, and need a way to get it back to me.