Hi there
I read a post on here, it was quite interesting. OP was saying that he always had no problem before getting into game with women. Granted he admitted that he really only started picking up steam when he heard about game but for him approaching was easy and fun.
A reditor said it was because his social conditioning played in his favor where a lot of other guys has a lot of baggage to work through and this is the reason some guys fail. What a lot of them don't understand is that they will have to work through the conditioning to "git gud". This got me thinking about my social conditioning
Now you need to know I recently started with game. Its about 2 months now. I still have massive AA but once I get over that hurdle I am fine with the rest of the approach. I did not have the best childhood in regards to strangers (Kid punched me for greeting him, I got pinned down and beaten when I told a girl I liked her in primary school etc.) Now there is much more heavier baggage but I am sure you don't give a shit.
That said how do I condition my self in a state where I see game as fun rather then work or fear?
P.S I get this is a patience game and action needs to be taken to improve, which I am doing, I am just trying to maximize my results.
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