Generally, I'll hug her and we'll sit and chat.

HOWEVER

I haven't gone on a date in over 3 years due to being tied down. I totally forgot where my dating skills went. I had amazing dates back then, but since I haven't gone on one in forever I honestly am not sure what I'll be doing.

How do you guys generally do it? I AM overthinking this for sure, but after a hug and after you order coffee, how do you initiate? That's the part I'm struggling with. I've been texting this girl, about once per day but have made an effort to NOT get to know her at all through text, but I guess I'm just kind of confused about the FIRST thing to say, as anything after that will be smooth sailing.