I'm on Tinder again and I've already gotten many numbers and I'm planning on taking these girls out. My problem is even after cold approaching, or tinder, Bumble, etc. I never want to meet these girls, even though they're so fucking attractive. I feel like its because I've lost my faith in people because I'm a bit sick of always being the one to put in the effort. I'm asking for numbers, initiating conversation, planning dates with all these girls while also feeling like I'm defusing a bomb because anything I say could put them off and make them not want to hangout, which is why I barely text them and I know that's a good thing, but some girls want to chat a bit before meeting up and even then I don't really answer or ask them questions of any substance, just their major or some shit.

Anyway tl;dr I want to get excited to meet people but I just don't want to go on dates or even meet them, but I really want to be a person that does want to meet these new people.