5 Common Habits That Will Kill Your Confidence

bobyd · 2018-09-28T06:39:40+00:00

Tldw?

Nidicuf · 2018-09-28T13:43:17+00:00

TL;DW (from the video description):

Staying in a situation that you really dislike
Focusing intensely on practice
Belief that a certain person's approval will make you happy
Disqualifying yourself verbally before doing something
Saying the "I don't care" in order to be kind

I can certainly confirm the first one. I don't like the job I'm doing right now and it wears me down. This became apparent these last weeks of me doing a summer internship at a company where I really want to work (used my vacation days of my 'normal job' to do this internship so that says a lot).

I worked my ass off during this internship. Working 12h a day. I didn't feel tired at all, I woke up with joy in the morning and couldn't wait to start working again. It didn't even feel like 'work'.

But the thing is, I need to do my 'normal job' for at least two more years. Then all of my evening courses will be done and I can finally start doing what I really want. So sometimes you can't just leave a situation that you really dislike.

But I can really confirm that doing something you love day in day out is the biggest confidence (and life in general) boost you can get.

Title	5 Common Habits That Will Kill Your Confidence
Author	The_24-7_Gentleman
Upvotes	16
Comments	3
Date	September 28, 2018 2:55 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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