Got a girl to sleep over, but did nothing. Need an opinion on it.

2018-10-01T23:28:18+00:00

"" but I was just somehow afraid to make some move"" There's your answer.

NedsBastard1 · 2018-10-01T23:37:57+00:00

Don’t worry about it, it’s all in the past. For future reference, you could have started touching her and see what happens. Worst case she says no, goes to sleep, and you never see her again. Best case you get some poon

2018-10-02T00:47:37+00:00

yeah, I think first lesson is, a couch surfing app isn’t probably a good way to find sex life stuff, it could be cool I’m sure but Don’t mix up your markets.

Second, she says she has a boyfriend, but she’s also traveling alone and flirting and staying over with you. If she’s monogamous, or if she were my girlfriend, that would be a problem, so she may be a bit confused, and if she is, best to stay away.

BigDickEnergy123 · 2018-10-01T23:41:59+00:00

She has a boyfriend, don't be a dick dude.

Let that be someone other shithead's problem

NedsBastard1 · 2018-10-01T23:41:18+00:00

Then you should have pursued. See how far it goes ya know

2018-10-02T03:18:25+00:00

How about just relax the ethical side of things a little and just sleep with them. If it gets serious and becomes something more then great, if not you had sex. Don't stress about it too much

judahman8 · 2018-10-02T10:45:01+00:00

If you want to have sex with her then you have to make a move. How about a good sports analogy. If you are wide open on a fast break then take the fucking layup. Drill it into your head that not taking the shot is not an option. What do you mean you suppose you fucked up? You fucked up for sure!! You held the ball and waited for a shot clock violation when you had a wide open fast break. You should be benched. If you are ever in a spot where you just don't know how to make the move then just stare into her eyes and say " Do you want to kiss me?" If she says no then you just say that you didnt say she could, she just had that look in her eyes. if she says anything else, and I mean anything, you go for it. This saved me a ton of times when I was really young and didnt know how to initiate the kiss. Its a classic thats tried and true. It really takes all the pressure off of you.

And my rule on boyfriends is if I don't ever see them then they don't exist.

wiseman_4u · 2018-10-02T00:03:02+00:00

This is weird. You had a perfect set up and you just waisted a chance. You should be able to know if she's watching you like a thirsty girl or no and if she does, I don't think I have to go further...

Title	Got a girl to sleep over, but did nothing. Need an opinion on it.
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Date	October 1, 2018 11:25 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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