I'm overweight and not as charming as I'd like to be

2018-10-02T04:42:11+00:00

Get your mind right, then focus on your body. The gym is perfect for both because you will become more confident and love yourself more as you see changes, although you have to persist and grind hard if you really want changes to be noticeable.

samraat65 · 2018-10-02T03:12:24+00:00

What do you think you need to improve? You said it in the title yet it is the only thing you failed to mention in your post. Make yourself the best looking person you can be. Dress nice, get a good haircut, and get in shape! You can do it, make time and do your research.

K3wp · 2018-10-02T14:37:17+00:00

Keto bruv. I've lost almost 40 pounds in two months. Easy.

magnetradio · 2018-10-04T00:35:45+00:00

Don't try to impress. This will drive you crazy and overthink.

"How was my delivery? She didn't laugh. Was I not funny enough?"

Instead, I would say focus on the stuff these guys are saying in the comments. Start working out so you can lose the weight. Don't obsess over it but just work on getting stronger. Work on losing the fat. K3wp mentioned Keto (Ketogenic diet). I tried it and it works. I didn't stick with it but I could see myself getting on it if I need to.

Do some research on Intermittent Fasting and Ketogenic diet. If you want to lose weight effortlessly, this is the way to go. There's a fitness channel on YouTube called Kinobody. This is where I learned about Intermittent fasting about 3-4 years ago. He has some great tips on working out and building muscle, only working out a few days a week.

Back to the women. Don't try to impress them, but talk to them and see if they're worth talking to. There are way too many hot women who are interesting to endure the pain of talking to a hot woman who's boring. Think about that cute chick who likes to watch stuff guys like or play video games. Think about that hot chick who can make you laugh.

When you go out and tell yourself "Let's go out and find some interesting women", your mentality shifts. You are no longer trying to impress them. Now you're looking for women to impress you.

dimitrimarylucy · 2018-10-04T01:41:21+00:00

You are lying to YOURSELF and US.

If you know you are an amazing catch, you will carry yourself like KING OF THE UNIVERSE everywhere you go (clubs included) because you know it to be true.

Title	I'm overweight and not as charming as I'd like to be
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Date	October 2, 2018 1:08 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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