What im i? Who im i? Why im born? How to live this one life?

dailymanup · 2018-10-04T19:08:12+00:00

I love your title man. You ask a lot of questions, but they all boil down to one thing imo: how to just calm down, take a step back, realize this is all bullshit, and realize not to waste one more fucking second of your precious life worrying. Then go out and get what you want. Including the girls that you want.

Great questions. I've addressed some of these in various posts. I will continue to do so and I hope you check them out here.

In a few hours I'm putting up something on not caring about what other's think. I hope you'll check it out.

woobwoobzoob · 2018-10-04T19:10:26+00:00

You don't have to become anything...smart, funny, the ideal personality, tesla. Self-improvement is great, but endless self-improvement, perfectionism, is not (I'm not a psychologist but I think that is rooted in being insecure about yourself and whether you're worthy or not). One of the most damaging pieces of advice I've seen on reddit, if you don't think about it, is "she only loves you for what you do". That's technically true and if you're self-absorbed it might be something to seriously consider at face value, but if taken the wrong way it might lead you to think that you're not good enough and that you have to be someone else, and constantly wear a mask. I prefer to add that What you do is a part of who you are.

I think you should just do the things you want to do, not because you're trying to become something, but because you like doing those things. For example, when you say "How to be a smartass full of knowledge?". To me that sounds like it has less to do with the pursuit of that knowledge and more to do with being perceived as a smartass (going back to worrying what other people think).

You don't have to become anything. Just do the stuff you enjoy and don't worry too much about what you want to "become" because once you start doing the things you enjoy and forget about all of this, you will become what you want to become. Set goals, find your passion, but don't worry too much about becoming this ideal vision.

Title	What im i? Who im i? Why im born? How to live this one life?
Author	TheGreatMclovin
Upvotes	2
Comments	2
Date	October 4, 2018 4:49 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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