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I don't think I'd go as far as telling her I'll be in her town. It's a friend thing now...so moving on, but she was cool. I think it might be weird now. That's how I feel. I don't think I escalated well enough to let her know my intentions.
/r/seduction08/10/18 11:46 AM
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I invited her via fb to a few events (where other people I know were). She was interested in the events, but couldn't make it.
/r/seduction08/10/18 02:40 AM
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You're treating this sub-reddit like it's a doormat. I've seen you post this or something similar repeatedly and from what I can tell your question has been answered. It's clear that you are seeking approval, not just from those people in your life, but now from this sub itself. You can stay trapped in that loop forever if you want, but asking the same question over and over again is not going to solve your problems. Sometimes there are no solutions, but you've got to stop asking the question an…
/r/seduction07/10/18 09:01 PM
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I think I've heard what you're talking about before somewhere a while ago. It boils down to not telling everyone everything about yourself too quickly, somewhat like being humble, let them slowly discover who you are. It adds mystery I suppose. Saying too much, too soon, is definitely needy.
/r/seduction04/10/18 09:44 PM
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The problem with "Is he/she right for me?" is that it implies monogamy and that relationships are some sort of package deal that you purchase, probably with the assumption of an LTR or marriage. That's why I hate that question. It doesn't take long to know whether you're attracted to someone, and I suppose it goes from there. I find hookups are really the most honest option we have now as a society. You definitely shouldn't lie about wanting to be friends, or stick around as friends - not actual…
/r/seduction04/10/18 08:37 PM
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You don't have to become anything...smart, funny, the ideal personality, tesla. Self-improvement is great, but endless self-improvement, perfectionism, is not (I'm not a psychologist but I think that is rooted in being insecure about yourself and whether you're worthy or not). One of the most damaging pieces of advice I've seen on reddit, if you don't think about it, is "she only loves you for what you do". That's technically true and if you're self-absorbed it might be something to seriously co…
/r/seduction04/10/18 07:10 PM
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Love yourself, be true to yourself, and respect yourself. The bad type of "nice guy" doesn't do that. He comes across as fake because he's putting on a show for others to see, rather than being himself, and he seeks outside validation and approval. Also, forgive yourself for your mistakes and learn from them (that's an alpha thing too). Once you've got that down, things should improve. Of course sometimes it's not easy trying to tap into who you really are.
/r/seduction03/10/18 03:54 PM
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I'm going to be honest. I know it's not "wrong" to be vulgar, but I never liked being direct and vulgar and not being direct worked in the past. I had my own style. I talked about all my bullshit ideas and stuff I found interesting and for some reason girls liked it. It's not just about sex for me, it's about expressing myself and connecting. I get you though. It's why I bought a copy of Mark Mason's book "Models: Attracting women through honesty". I don't think I need it, but now I'm stuck on p…
/r/seduction26/08/18 07:48 AM
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I know a guy who successfully pulled this off. Well, it seems like they're back together. I have no idea what he did. They were apart for a few weeks or maybe a month, maybe it was just a cool off period. I guess it depends on the situation. I don't think it's the best idea though. I follow the rule of once it's over it's over. A firm line drawn in the sand, and never look back.
/r/seduction08/06/18 08:26 PM
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Thanks for the shout out. (I have a dark secret though...I actually like drugs). But yeah, totally, you have to exercise some mindfulness (or go cold turkey) to get over someone sometimes.
/r/seduction08/06/18 08:15 PM
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be with other women Yeah, that's what you gotta do, 'cause it's the healthy thing to do. Unless you like drugs. Don't do drugs. Drugs are bad. Seriously though, I know how that feels. If it'll never happen, it's best to let the feelings go, and find other people. That's what I'm doing or trying to do right now. Although, when you find someone, and you think you've found gold (subjectively of course), it can be hard to leave her behind.
/r/seduction08/06/18 07:39 PM
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alpha does not mean asshole.
/r/seduction06/06/18 09:48 PM
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Go to open mic and own it with the ukulele in your Beatles tshirt. (no joke dude. That's awesome)
/r/seduction15/05/18 01:59 AM
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Over simplification for you, but I think it's sort of true. When you're young and inexperienced everything seems shiny and new. You experience emotions and don't know how to deal with them. Then you get older, more matured, more "alpha" when dealing with emotions, and more tempered, and you've seen it all. I guess that's just how it is. I don't think there's anyway to get those feelings back.
/r/seduction14/05/18 08:21 PM
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CBT psychological or drug based approaches can work. If you have severe anxiety, don't be hard on yourself, and seek help for it.
/r/seduction14/05/18 07:29 PM
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Bah!! Rich and famous! My mom used to say if I studied hard and got high grades, everyone would chase after me! Same deal. I like the other suggestions though.
/r/seduction12/05/18 07:57 PM
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I'm not saying not to form close bonds with people, just to be very selective with whom you let in and form those bonds with. I think close bonds are incredibly important and I've never been the type of person to have many superficial relationships. At any given time (10 year periods), I've only had 2 or 3 people who I would consider close friends. I didn't have a close bond with this guy. It was superficial and was based mostly on fear of abandonment and attachment hormones. I just got used to …
/r/seduction10/05/18 07:17 PM
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Yeah, I hear you. There's nothing wrong with trying to put your best foot forward and trying to make the best impression you can make. So what if you're being "manipulative" (I love quotes, everything should have quotes), we all are. I mean, seriously? Am I supposed to put my worst foot forward? I have found some positive advice on here (I don't think girls are masterminding over me with shit tests though). It's much more positive than some other subs or posts I've accidentally wandered into.
/r/seduction09/05/18 06:00 PM
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I've actually had some success with cold approaches (I'm not even that experienced). It's nothing to fear and I've done it in various places, not even just coffee shops. Anyway, most of the time I've gotten positive responses. The worst anyone does is give you the cold shoulder or will seem mildly annoyed. Otherwise, they're incredibly friendly and aren't freaked out at all by it. I totally agree that you should not walk up to random people on the sidewalk on the street, or, I dunno, in the park…
/r/seduction08/05/18 03:45 PM
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Or they weren't doing anything at all, and at "worst" were just teasing him.
/r/seduction08/05/18 01:11 AM
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My general advice would be not to "game" when you're at work dealing with women...but I've broken this rule "accidentally", and it never caused me serious harm, and may have even helped. Who knows? I was at an IT company, the trainer was about my age (and cute), and a compliment slipped out of my mouth, not relating to her appearance. Nevertheless, I later thought whether I would've said that to a guy. Nope, probably not. I was definitely flirting (like the other dude said, not a good idea. Keep…
/r/seduction08/05/18 12:26 AM
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I really wish it were that simple, although taking a high volume approach can help especially if you've never done it before. I think getting over the anxiety and perfecting the opener is very important. At least once you've got that, you can get into a conversation with anyone. Having things to talk about, and being able to string the conversation along is another challenge altogether. And even if you reach that point, then there's the next step which is to actually be seductive, to the turn th…
/r/seduction06/05/18 09:34 PM
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You should work on all areas of your life. You might not make great progress with the girls, but you should live a balanced life, and at least try and keep trying. It might seem like it's impossible, but you've got to take it one step at a time, as with anything else, and you will get there.
/r/seduction04/05/18 07:59 PM
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If you do go to university, be sure to join clubs and go to events outside of class.
/r/seduction28/04/18 10:14 PM
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It's incredibly impolite to tell someone the stuff they're into is shit to their face like that, whether you're talking to a girl or a guy, or anyone. You don't have to say you like it. If I were to be blunt I would at most respond with "I actually can't stand dubstep, just never could get into it because of blah blah blah (my theories about music and the stuff I hate about a particular genre)". I like a good discussion where I can assert myself. I was never a huge fan of flirting...don't know w…
/r/seduction21/04/18 08:02 PM
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Ahhh cool, that's really burnt out...a confluence of factors in the program that emerge as us playing....thinking about it as ghosts in the program trips me out. (yeah, I don't think I've been consciously playing for a while, just look at what I'm doing now...starting to wonder whether I'm self-aware..) I'll keep thinking about it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 01:43 AM
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I think so...like in Robocop (the new one) where the computerized part of him takes over during combat but he believes he's the one in control (making the decisions..the illusion of free will)? I guess there's a lot of stuff we've learned to do automatically. ( I think I stopped consciously playing when I wrote that..haha)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 01:33 AM
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I'm not sure if I understood you correctly. Are you saying all we do is selfish? If that's the case I agree. I think we're acting in self-interest regardless of whether we're aware of it or not, consciously or unconsciously. Hence, what I said about how perhaps we should all be players.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 12:13 AM
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Wiser words have never been spoken. They aren't machines, and you can't do it all "right". They will come and they will go.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 11:14 PM
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Also in: https://mango-reinhardt.bandcamp.com/track/paulie
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 09:05 PM
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Right, but in my previous relationships I tended to focus on my own feelings, to the exclusion of others. At least players try to guess what the other person wants even if their intentions are selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 08:05 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 10:24 PM
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Thanks. lol. that made me laugh (the question the WTH, not your comment, thanks again). It means I allow myself to be in love with multiple people, and that these can be friendships, any of which can be deeply emotionally intimate, and also if the other person(s) are okay with it we can also be physically intimate but without exclusivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 02:18 AM
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