I've been going to a lot of meet ups, but alas, it seems there aren't that many girls at the meet up group I've been attending...So...I think I'm going to try some cold approaches today. It's terrifying for some reason... Don't know why I'm posting, guess it's for moral support. Oh yeah, advice: If you are looking to meet women and are trying things like activities and meet ups, don't lose sight of your reason for being there. It's far too easy to get lazy and end up not meeting girls at all and just hanging out with a bunch of guys. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with hanging out with a bunch of guys, just don't forget why you went to the meet up in the first place.