How do i stop being Needy/desperate/boring and bland? And i have very low self esteem.

Zibilicious · 2018-09-23T21:15:55+00:00

You seem like you need to cleanse your old mindset and make room for a beautiful new mindset to grow. If you aren't already doing these things, they may help you to purify your pessimistic views. -Eat healthy, if you eat clean and well, your body will naturally feel more comfortable and thus lifting your spirits up.

-Meditating, once a day, 5 minutes or 10 a session to clear all of your thoughts.

-Hit the gym, it'll boost confidence.

-Travel alone or go for walks alone, close off other thoughts and understand what aspects in your life you need to change to become the person you strive to be.

-Try waking up early, it'll literally brighten your day if you boost your morning with a productive routine.

-Aim for a goal and do everything in your power to reach that goal. Be determined to learn a new hobby, a new skill or language. Perfect your soccer skills and try to bring that to a whole new level.

Most importantly, you must be willing to understand your biggest flaws and fix each of them with an open mind. Since you reached out to reddit for help, you're already on a good track.

Try asking friends and family members for your biggest flaws then fix it! Obviously don't try to be someone your not by fixing everything, but try correcting your negativity.

One_Insanity · 2018-09-23T23:53:58+00:00

Uh huh, so all your posts are you asking about how to stop being a piece of shit.

You've posted the same questions to various subreddits where I assume you've gotten some comprehensive answers.

But most importantly I remember because I gave your bitch ass some fucking advice.

Advice that fell on deaf ears. Move along folks, nothing to see here. Just an attention whoring bitch who doesn't actually want to do anything or just a troll and a spammer.

Here's a demonstration of what I mean

pa_one · 2018-09-23T21:01:33+00:00

Start working out. It will make you look good and you'll be surprised how much it builds up your confidence

Alextryingforgrate · 2018-09-24T01:22:04+00:00

Get rid of social media. If youre worrief about likes and shit like that its a good start. Also it seems people habe already given you advice in other subs. Might wanr to start there.

Title	How do i stop being Needy/desperate/boring and bland? And i have very low self esteem.
Author	TheGreatMclovin
Upvotes	4
Comments	10
Date	September 23, 2018 8:10 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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